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Soitis83 · 01/03/2025 20:56

Posting here mainly for traffic.

The last week or so I've felt terrible. Finally took an iron tablet and felt so much better.
Problem is that better didn't last very long so I took another one..then another and then another. All together 80mg, one packet is mixed with other things and one is just 20mg.
I've convinced myself I'm going to die. Please someone reassure me I'm going to be okay

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Evidemment · 01/03/2025 21:56

Soitis83 · 01/03/2025 21:47

Perhaps you're right.
But for the last week I've felt dreadful. So out of sorts, dizzy and not quite with it if that makes sense?
I could do but I always fear I'm a burden

You're not a burden for needing assistance with your health - mental health is as real as physical health. If you had a broken leg in a cast and needed help for an hour or two you'd consider that reasonable I'm sure. Consider it the same with your mental health, just because it's not visible doesn't mean it's not there. The behaviour and thoughts you've described on this thread are very concerning and having a face to face chat with someone you know and trust could really help you make sense of it all and feel more "with it".

These symptoms you've mentioned could be anything from stress to a virus. Is there a reason you think they're being caused by low iron or do you perhaps think your health anxiety has made you latch on to the idea as it's a known entity from when you were pregnant? Have the symptoms suddenly gotten much worse for you to act on them on a Saturday evening?

I'd suggest having your friend over for a while tonight and giving the GPs a call on Monday to have a good chat about how you're feeling in every aspect. Take care.

DazedDragon · 01/03/2025 21:56

Soitis83 · 01/03/2025 21:02

111 have been called and they're sending an ambulance. But I'm so scared

Really???

Pregnancy iron tablets are over 200 mg and you can even get 300 mg ones so 80mg is absolutely fine.

They would no way send an ambulance for 80mg of iron.

And the feeling better after taking one would be psychosomatic. It takes a while to build up a store.

Perhaps the 111 person mistook the situation???

AlleyRose · 01/03/2025 21:55

You might end up with a bit of constipation.

Your iron tablet(s) was not the reason you felt instantly better.

If you read the iron protocol it suggests you take your weight in kg and multiply by 5 to get the maximum amount of iron you take in a day, every day. I don't know how much you weigh but for me, I'd have to take 260mg a day. You haven't taken much more than that.

You'll be absolutely fine. Try not to worry.

Soitis83 · 01/03/2025 21:55

K37529 · 01/03/2025 21:53

Does your baby sleep well? I have PPA and I didn’t realise how badly the lack of sleep was affecting me until my youngest started sleeping better. Hope you feel better soon. I would definitely contact your gp on Monday and tell them how your feeling x

No not at all! He's a terrible sleeper. What's PPA? I'm not sure I've heard of that.
My GP is so hard to get an appointment (who's isn't??) but I'm counting down the minutes till I can call Monday morning

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IncessantNameChanger · 01/03/2025 21:53

My iron tablets are 325 mg and over the counter

Soitis83 · 01/03/2025 21:53

WilfredsPies · 01/03/2025 21:51

I understand where you’re coming from, but if everyone responded positively that an ambulance had been called, there’s a realistic prospect that the OP will read those responses and think that everyone agrees that she’s seriously at risk. How is that going to do anything but send a person with very clearly severe health anxiety into complete panic mode?

I don’t think anyone has responded with the intention of being nasty, but in surprise that one would be sent.

Honestly I'm glad so many people reacted that way cus it brought me back down to earth. Only one person called me dumb but that's fine, I've been called worse!

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K37529 · 01/03/2025 21:53

Soitis83 · 01/03/2025 21:47

Perhaps you're right.
But for the last week I've felt dreadful. So out of sorts, dizzy and not quite with it if that makes sense?
I could do but I always fear I'm a burden

Does your baby sleep well? I have PPA and I didn’t realise how badly the lack of sleep was affecting me until my youngest started sleeping better. Hope you feel better soon. I would definitely contact your gp on Monday and tell them how your feeling x

Soitis83 · 01/03/2025 21:52

AquaPeer · 01/03/2025 21:49

I’ve just gone down a bit of a rabbit hole on this and read a paper published by the niH suggesting they have only been able to locate 2 recorded cases of death from overdose of iron, both in India and the women took 200mg/ kg and 400mg/ kg respectively.

That makes me feel much better.

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WilfredsPies · 01/03/2025 21:51

mummysmagicmedicine · 01/03/2025 21:41

The people on this thread are disgusting. Op obviously is in a stressful situation and I just think if you have nothing helpful to say don’t bother saying anything. OP has disclosed having health anxiety so whether you think an ambulance is ott or not please keep your opinions to yourself instead of stressing out an already anxious and potentially unwell person.

I understand where you’re coming from, but if everyone responded positively that an ambulance had been called, there’s a realistic prospect that the OP will read those responses and think that everyone agrees that she’s seriously at risk. How is that going to do anything but send a person with very clearly severe health anxiety into complete panic mode?

I don’t think anyone has responded with the intention of being nasty, but in surprise that one would be sent.

AquaPeer · 01/03/2025 21:49

Serencwtch · 01/03/2025 21:45

Mental health emergency involving deliberate overdose is every bit as serious as physical. She needs help quickly before she takes further tablets. It's not just the number of pills that's concerning
Iron overdose can definitely be fatal.

I’ve just gone down a bit of a rabbit hole on this and read a paper published by the niH suggesting they have only been able to locate 2 recorded cases of death from overdose of iron, both in India and the women took 200mg/ kg and 400mg/ kg respectively.

Soitis83 · 01/03/2025 21:47

Evidemment · 01/03/2025 21:44

I truly do not mean to sound harsh here but OP I suspect the ambulance was being dispatched because you'd called 111 in such acute distress.. because you'd willingly taken a barely therapeutic dose of iron. You decided they were making you feel better.. until you decided they would be fatal.
I hope you can understand how concerning that all sounds - ambulance most likely MH related as callhandler troubled by your decision making especially if you've disclosed you're at home alone with children. Do you feel safe? I think it might be best to have your friend pop round and sit with you for a while.

Perhaps you're right.
But for the last week I've felt dreadful. So out of sorts, dizzy and not quite with it if that makes sense?
I could do but I always fear I'm a burden

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Soitis83 · 01/03/2025 21:46

Audiprettier · 01/03/2025 21:42

Oh no! So sorry to read you feel like this. Stress is such a cruel invasion for anyone. I've been there!
Has something (or more than one thing) happened to make you feel like this (a week or so ago)?
Even having a chat to a good friend will help you - as sometimes everything can get overwheming just because. Can you ring anyone now? 🤞

There's been a lot of sudden deaths around me the last 5 years. Perhaps it's all caught up to me I'm not sure. But it's debilitating!

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tellmesomethingtrue · 01/03/2025 21:45

mummysmagicmedicine · 01/03/2025 21:41

The people on this thread are disgusting. Op obviously is in a stressful situation and I just think if you have nothing helpful to say don’t bother saying anything. OP has disclosed having health anxiety so whether you think an ambulance is ott or not please keep your opinions to yourself instead of stressing out an already anxious and potentially unwell person.

Not disgusting behaviour at all... people are just fed up with our resources being wasted by non-emergencies and people being dumb.

Serencwtch · 01/03/2025 21:45

DrummingMousWife · 01/03/2025 21:13

an Ambulance for 80mg ?! Wow. I didn’t think that would be logged as urgent enough for an ambulance to be honest .

Mental health emergency involving deliberate overdose is every bit as serious as physical. She needs help quickly before she takes further tablets. It's not just the number of pills that's concerning
Iron overdose can definitely be fatal.

Evidemment · 01/03/2025 21:44

I truly do not mean to sound harsh here but OP I suspect the ambulance was being dispatched because you'd called 111 in such acute distress.. because you'd willingly taken a barely therapeutic dose of iron. You decided they were making you feel better.. until you decided they would be fatal.
I hope you can understand how concerning that all sounds - ambulance most likely MH related as callhandler troubled by your decision making especially if you've disclosed you're at home alone with children. Do you feel safe? I think it might be best to have your friend pop round and sit with you for a while.

Soitis83 · 01/03/2025 21:44

ShittyGlitter · 01/03/2025 21:42

I've had a similar type of anxiety when my children were young too OP. Rational thinking definitely goes out the window.

You're not alone, there are heaps of people out there feeling the same way as you. Finding someone to talk to about it will help. What is your support network like?

Rubbish. I have one family member left but he isn't interested in me or my family really. Small circle of friends but I hate feeling like I'm burdening anyone with my problems so don't talk to them.
It's practically just me

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Audiprettier · 01/03/2025 21:42

Soitis83 · 01/03/2025 21:36

You're very sweet, thank you.
I have this fear all of a sudden that I'm going to die and leave my children alone. It's so sudden and my health anxiety is overwhelming. I have never felt like this before so have no idea what's triggered it!
No I've taken nothing else, just the iron tablets.

Oh no! So sorry to read you feel like this. Stress is such a cruel invasion for anyone. I've been there!
Has something (or more than one thing) happened to make you feel like this (a week or so ago)?
Even having a chat to a good friend will help you - as sometimes everything can get overwheming just because. Can you ring anyone now? 🤞

Soitis83 · 01/03/2025 21:42

mummysmagicmedicine · 01/03/2025 21:41

The people on this thread are disgusting. Op obviously is in a stressful situation and I just think if you have nothing helpful to say don’t bother saying anything. OP has disclosed having health anxiety so whether you think an ambulance is ott or not please keep your opinions to yourself instead of stressing out an already anxious and potentially unwell person.

❤️ I appreciate you

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ShittyGlitter · 01/03/2025 21:42

I've had a similar type of anxiety when my children were young too OP. Rational thinking definitely goes out the window.

You're not alone, there are heaps of people out there feeling the same way as you. Finding someone to talk to about it will help. What is your support network like?

Soitis83 · 01/03/2025 21:42

RolaColaLola · 01/03/2025 21:39

Please may I ask, and this is a genuine question without judgement - I’m just really curious, what changed in your thought process between “Im going to take a fifth iron tablet” and “oh no I’m in a panic, I think I’ve taken a fatal dose of iron”? How long after did you start to worry?

I hope you feel better soon.

I was texting someone and said "I've just taken another iron tablet as that dizzyness is back" and they replied "make sure you don't take too much!" Which prompted me to Google, Google told me it was too much but I think I read it wrong as someone else pointed out. I googled a number for toxicity or something along those lines for advice but it said to call 111. And here we are

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TheWombatleague · 01/03/2025 21:41

Talkwhilstyouwalk · 01/03/2025 21:17

I certainly don't think you need an ambulance if that makes you feel any better....

Surely the body just pisses out any excess vitamins? It doesn't absorb everything in them and it doesn't sound like a massive dose anyway.

No, that's only true for water soluble vitamins.

mummysmagicmedicine · 01/03/2025 21:41

The people on this thread are disgusting. Op obviously is in a stressful situation and I just think if you have nothing helpful to say don’t bother saying anything. OP has disclosed having health anxiety so whether you think an ambulance is ott or not please keep your opinions to yourself instead of stressing out an already anxious and potentially unwell person.

Velmy · 01/03/2025 21:40

Soitis83 · 01/03/2025 21:15

I know I definitely have low iron as I'm my last pregnancy she said I was very low. I'm not sure how they made me feel better so quickly. But honestly, I do have massive health anxiety

They didn't, that's not how iron tablets work.

UncharteredWaters · 01/03/2025 21:40

It’s 111 they send an ambulance for a sneeze but not a stroke.

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 01/03/2025 21:39

I used to take the Spatone natural iron water supplement which was 5ml sachets. They said one a day for a dose, or two if you are pregnant. I once took 6 in one go and felt nothing (admittedly my ferritin levels were very low - an 11, I think, so i was desperate to feel better.

I know this probably bears no relevance really, as the dose in the Spatone was proportionally lower, but I'm sure as PP have said, you could have an iron infusion and be ok at much higher doses.