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To make myself some brekkie

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Raindropskeepfallinonmyhead · 01/03/2025 15:36

Did park run this morning then straight to do a food shop then home. Absolutely starving. Dd was baking some cookies for dh as a surprise so we told him to stay out of the kitchen for a bit. Made myself some brekkie, called through to dh to see if he wanted anything. Hit the roof cos l had already made my own. Told me l am rude. Said l am hungry after running and he said ffs it's all about you.

Hmm it really isn't!!

So made himself and sandwich and not spoken since!

Is he the dick or am l?!

Am off out tonight so don't give a flying one if he wants to ignore me!!

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JimHalpertsWife · 01/03/2025 15:51

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 01/03/2025 15:41

@Raindropskeepfallinonmyhead why didnt you make some breakfast for him though when you made your own, especially if he was not allowed in the kitchen?

Shed been out all morning. Why didn't he make breakfast earlier while she was out and have it waiting for her getting back from doing the food shop?

Charcoalpen · 01/03/2025 15:48

He kicked off at you

but he wasn’t allowed in the kitchen so couldn’t make himself anything so I suppose it would have been nice to ask him op before you started making your own sarnie rather than after (which seems a bit daft op as surely easier to do at same time as yours!)

Charcoalpen · 01/03/2025 15:47

Raindropskeepfallinonmyhead · 01/03/2025 15:41

Sorry she had gone out by this point - it was after he was allowed back in kitchen!

But she’ll no doubt be used to this kind of tension between her parents. Correct?

cheseandme · 01/03/2025 15:46

Well I made myself a bacon sandwich this morning and it never occurred to me to offer husband one ! What a pathetic reason to throw a strop YANBU.

magicstar1 · 01/03/2025 15:44

When you say made breakfast, was it a bowl of cereal, or a cooked breakfast? A bowl of cereal would have taken him seconds to get, but if you'd cooked yourself a full English, then I can understand him being pissed off.

Tillybud81 · 01/03/2025 15:43

I'd ask for this thread to be moved to relationships OP, you'll get loads on here telling you you should have made the poor wee thing some brekkie too, like he's an incapable child.

How many times does he make you breakfast out of curiosity?

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 01/03/2025 15:41

@Raindropskeepfallinonmyhead why didnt you make some breakfast for him though when you made your own, especially if he was not allowed in the kitchen?

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Sorry she had gone out by this point - it was after he was allowed back in kitchen!

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