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To think that funding free breakfast clubs is wrong-headed?

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WaahWaahWinston · 01/03/2025 13:44

Government is to fund free breakfast clubs for all primary school children. This doesn't strike me as the best use of money for schools; I imagine there are better things to spend money on that would be of greater educational benefit to children.

It may help a tiny proportion of families but breakfast is probably the easiest and cheapest meal for families to provide to children. (I doubt breakfast clubs will be providing full English or other cooked breakfasts of the sort that one could argue families are hard-pushed to provide.)

So I don't see the compelling need. Why spend money on this of all things, when there must be other improvements that could be funded which would improve education specifically?

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PretendToBeToastWithMe · 01/03/2025 16:18

YANBU, this is not about funding breakfast for families who cannot afford it. I usually feed my daughter Sainsbury’s brand version of weetabix (“wheat biscuits” £2.79 for 48) with milk (£1.45 for 4 litres). I’ve just calculated it costs me 13.7p per meal. I’m sure I could find cheaper cereal or milk if I compared brands and shops etc if necessary to get it down even more. The vast majority of families can afford a normal breakfast. If children are not eating breakfast, it’s not because their families cannot afford it.

Families are struggling to care for their children properly because of a number of factors, not because they can’t afford to spend a few pence on breakfast cereal. I agree resources would be better spent supporting children and families in other ways.

JenniferBooth · 01/03/2025 16:13

ElleintheWoods · 01/03/2025 16:11

It's not about the breakfast, although it's an element.

It's the governement giving free childcare so that parents can have jobs/more employment options.

We need to stop demonising free childcare in this country. We have the most expensive childcare in all of Europe, parents are paying for it out of pocket, and being a parent takes a huge financial toll on people other than the very wealthy.

You see parents unable to stay in employment because there is no access to childcare or if there is, they cannot afford it. Skilled people constantly dropping out of the workforce, falling behind in life and relying on benefits to get by.

We need to stop normalising asking people to 'spend 2K a month on childcare or else'. If you don't want your child to go to breakfast club, nobody is making it compulsory, but it can make the difference for a single mum to be able to continue working and paying taxes or not.

Considering the low cost and the impact on putting parents into a position of being able to earn money for a living, the policy surely pays or itself.

"Percentage of income spent on childcare costs" graph provided for your convenience, source here: https://www.euronews.com/next/2023/03/06/childcare-puzzle-which-countries-in-europe-have-the-highest-and-lowest-childcare-costs

How are we going to have free childcare for shift/night workers. e.g NHS care homes.

Night workers are never thought of and just have to cope.

MounjaroOnMyMind · 01/03/2025 16:13

SockFluffInTheBath · 01/03/2025 15:16

Threads like this make me hang my head in shame at the selfishness of people in this country.

One school I trained in 20-ish years ago used to do something similar, we had a (voluntary) staff rota for taking in a loaf of bread and manning the toasters. Genuinely, I’m thrilled for some of you that you’ve never seen how happy a child can be to get a piece of toast and jam in the morning when they get to school. How they hug the radiators when they get in because they don’t have a coat. It doesn’t fix everything, but it eases their life for a few moments.

What the fuck is actually broken in some of you that you cannot understand this?

I don't think anyone's arguing that those children shouldn't benefit, though. My opinion was that I'd rather one of those children had a bigger and better breakfast rather than every child had a slice of toast, whether they'd eaten before they left home or not.

ElleintheWoods · 01/03/2025 16:11

WaahWaahWinston · 01/03/2025 13:51

@SulkySeagull I'm all for an extra half hour of school...but make it an extra half hour of teaching!! Or homework club at the very least. Not just free childcare.

It's not about the breakfast, although it's an element.

It's the governement giving free childcare so that parents can have jobs/more employment options.

We need to stop demonising free childcare in this country. We have the most expensive childcare in all of Europe, parents are paying for it out of pocket, and being a parent takes a huge financial toll on people other than the very wealthy.

You see parents unable to stay in employment because there is no access to childcare or if there is, they cannot afford it. Skilled people constantly dropping out of the workforce, falling behind in life and relying on benefits to get by.

We need to stop normalising asking people to 'spend 2K a month on childcare or else'. If you don't want your child to go to breakfast club, nobody is making it compulsory, but it can make the difference for a single mum to be able to continue working and paying taxes or not.

Considering the low cost and the impact on putting parents into a position of being able to earn money for a living, the policy surely pays or itself.

"Percentage of income spent on childcare costs" graph provided for your convenience, source here: https://www.euronews.com/next/2023/03/06/childcare-puzzle-which-countries-in-europe-have-the-highest-and-lowest-childcare-costs

To think that funding free breakfast clubs is wrong-headed?
StElse · 01/03/2025 16:09

user9876543211 · 01/03/2025 16:01

In my experience, there is stigma for the families. You'd be surprised by how any don't want the school to know how desperate the situation is at home.

@Mymanyellow

But that’s not poverty that’s bad parenting.

So, as a society, we're better for leaving that child to bear the consequences?

I think the 'not poverty' point is more indicating at the suggestion that if the issue isn't cost, then a breakfast club won't fix it.

FlyingPandas · 01/03/2025 16:07

The idea in principle is brilliant. I just struggle to see how it can work in practice in terms of the actual logistics of running a breakfast club for the whole school (staffing, organising, buying and preparing the food and clearing up after the children in one half-hour slot at the start of the school day etc etc) and that's before you factor in the issues of whether some parents would manage to get their children in to school in time for breakfast club anyway.

I would actually rather see an extension of what our school offers - staff members have access to a stock of easy breakfast items (cereal bars etc) which can be given out discreetly to any children who come in to school hungry for whatever reason. So the option of some breakfast food is always there for those in genuine need whilst not wasting funding on the ones who get breakfast at home and don't need it.

JLou08 · 01/03/2025 16:05

The children with neglectful parents are the children who could really do with a free breakfast. However, neglectful parents aren't likely to get up half hour earlier to get the children to school for the breakfast. I do agree it's a waste.

user9876543211 · 01/03/2025 16:01

Scrubberdubber · 01/03/2025 15:14

I don't buy the let's give it everyone to get rid of the stigma arguement tbh. Even when I was at school I had free meals and no one knew because you paid by finger print.
Now I have children in primary school and you order it online I believe this is the case in most schools. There is no way anyone knows who has free meals and who paid.

In my experience, there is stigma for the families. You'd be surprised by how any don't want the school to know how desperate the situation is at home.

@Mymanyellow

But that’s not poverty that’s bad parenting.

So, as a society, we're better for leaving that child to bear the consequences?

WellsAndThistles · 01/03/2025 16:00

It would be better if they allowed parents to pay e.g 50p or £1 as a voluntary contribution towards it.

I think we will all remember kids who weren't nutured like they should be and having some milk and cereal could turn out to be the one healthy meal they have all day.

BasiliskStare · 01/03/2025 15:59

SmileEachDay · 01/03/2025 13:54

If it’s free for everyone, it’s much, much more likely to be taken up by those who need it - there’s still stigma attached to poverty.

Children who are hungry cannot learn or play.

I believe this . My best friend's nephew was eligible for free school meals but he and his mother didn't take them because they felt a stigma. But I get there are costs etc to think about. Tricky.

Gcsunnyside23 · 01/03/2025 15:56

I think its a great idea but I also think all children should receive free lunch in primary also. There are many things tax payer money goes to that is pointless, I'd rather money going to all children in those important early years.

Completelyjo · 01/03/2025 15:52

@Scrubberdubber My point was shy should EVERY Londoner get it for free, imagine someone who's parents earn 100k gets free lunch because they live in London and someone who's parents earn 8k doesn't because they don't live in London. You see why I think it's bullshit?

No not really, what I think is that you don’t understand how the country operates politically.
The universal food policy in London was not a national policy and was paid by the Mayor of London. Any other local authority is free to do the same with their budget if they wanted to. Someone voting for the London Mayor has nothing to do with local policy elsewhere in the country.

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 01/03/2025 15:52

Simonjt · 01/03/2025 14:21

Children who receive FSM do get vouchers in the holidays, as well as HAF camp access, a lot of schools also provide uniform vouchers to PP pupils.

My borough has stopped doing them due to budget cuts

Edit

Universal free breakfast and lunch is not as good as free uniform and food vouchers - they could roll out fruit and veg vouchers for parents in need, so many better uses of the money tbh

MrsSkylerWhite · 01/03/2025 15:51

Children concentrate and learn at higher levels when they are not hungry. Many families can afford to give their children breakfast and do. Many who can may use the clubs because they’re very convenient if parents need to get to work.

The idea that only “poor” children should receive toast or cereal is awful. I remember the free school dinners tables at school. It was humiliating.

FrodisCapering · 01/03/2025 15:50

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WaahWaahWinston · 01/03/2025 15:42

@SockFluffInTheBath you seem to be missing the point that it's being offered to ALL primary school children. I will say it again - there are doubtless some who genuinely need this. But it is massively disproportionate and wasteful to offer it to all.

Exactly what I thought when free nursery hours were rolled out! How do you feel about them?

Mere1 · 01/03/2025 15:49

Sorry I quoted the wrong post. FrodisCapering was my target.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 01/03/2025 15:47

MagicPharmacist · 01/03/2025 13:56

Orphan Crushing Machine.

Not just the orphans, what about single parent kids, kids of addicts.
Oh, we will need a bigger crusher then.

Mere1 · 01/03/2025 15:47

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 01/03/2025 15:43

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People’s circumstances can and do change.

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JenniferBooth · 01/03/2025 15:42

DrCoconut · 01/03/2025 15:39

It depends how it will be used. As a supportive tool to help those who are able to and looking to go back to work/increase hours then yes it's good as there is a severe lack of childcare, at least here. If however it will be used as a blunt instrument to force people into working when their situation really needs them at home (illness, disability, carer etc) then it will be awful. There are many kids with SEND who do not thrive or even cope in childcare (my DS is one of them) and these are the ones who will really suffer if they are forced into inadequate breakfast clubs under threat of their mother's universal credit being cut. I fear we will see more of scenario 2 than 1.

I totally agree. Why dont they just lift the two child benefit cap. I know that wont be of help to those who do only have two kids or one but it would help a lot of families to lift that cap

WaahWaahWinston · 01/03/2025 15:42

@SockFluffInTheBath you seem to be missing the point that it's being offered to ALL primary school children. I will say it again - there are doubtless some who genuinely need this. But it is massively disproportionate and wasteful to offer it to all.

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Porcuporpoise · 01/03/2025 15:39

SockFluffInTheBath · 01/03/2025 15:36

My last post because my blood pressure is not doing well.

Those of you who oppose this I want you to play along with me for a few moments. Imagine your current situation ceased to exist. Your own child(ren) find themselves in poverty, no one is able to adequately provide or care for them, they struggle for food outside of a fsm at school. Is that 63p still the biggest waste of money you can think of? Is it still making you angry? Too many children live this reality. Be angry about that.

I am. I still don't think the answer is free breakfasts for all at primary school. I think that money could be better targeted at those children who are not being adequately fed by their parents.

DrCoconut · 01/03/2025 15:39

Pinkissmart · 01/03/2025 14:25

Why is that wrong?

It depends how it will be used. As a supportive tool to help those who are able to and looking to go back to work/increase hours then yes it's good as there is a severe lack of childcare, at least here. If however it will be used as a blunt instrument to force people into working when their situation really needs them at home (illness, disability, carer etc) then it will be awful. There are many kids with SEND who do not thrive or even cope in childcare (my DS is one of them) and these are the ones who will really suffer if they are forced into inadequate breakfast clubs under threat of their mother's universal credit being cut. I fear we will see more of scenario 2 than 1.