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To think Britain should have nothing to do with this war

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Foodtimeisit · 01/03/2025 12:54

After yesterday's news, Britain shouldn't be the one funding war as USA has said they are out now. There's no chance Britain can fight this war alone with Ukraine against Russia.
Since this war started, our life has only become miserable with CoL increase.
AIBU to think we shouldn't have anything to do this war and we should fix our own problems first before giving away our tax money?

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Itisjustmyopinion · 01/03/2025 15:09

Foodtimeisit · 01/03/2025 13:13

I didn't realise there are so many war hungry people here.
I think the solution should be diplomatic negotiations and peace.

And I can’t believe that after 3 years there are people so informed or naive (or both) that you think our COL will be solved by stopping supporting Ukraine

ThatOtherAustenSister · 01/03/2025 15:08

Foodtimeisit · 01/03/2025 13:13

I didn't realise there are so many war hungry people here.
I think the solution should be diplomatic negotiations and peace.

Maybe pop over to Russia and have a chat with Putin.

Livelovebehappy · 01/03/2025 15:07

Arrivals4lucky · 01/03/2025 15:03

And Israel have bombed the fuck out of millions of innocent Palestinians, killed over 40k of them and seem bent on genocide. So yeah, you’re right. Not quite the same thing.

Yep, all because the terrorists (Hamas) refused to return the hostages they took in October 2023. How many Palestinians could have been saved by Hamas just releasing the people they kidnapped back to their families? But instead they went to war sacrificing their ‘people’ for what? Nothing. Just ended up with a pile of rubble and 40k deaths. And stop trying to derail this thread by bringing Israel into it. Start your own thread…..

juldan · 01/03/2025 15:06

Hwi · 01/03/2025 14:38

I DO understand - he won't touch the UK - all his cronies have their children in our boarding schools and at UK universities, he is not going to bomb his own, is he? If you dislike the fact, you should have protested numerous PMs, who allowed dirty Russian money and their corrupt Russian families settle here since 1992 and buy our politicians since 1994.

@Hwi
You are so ignorant. Do you think Putin cares about his people? How many has he got killed in his ‘special operation’? Do you think he is loyal to anybody? He’ll be happy kill anybody for the ‘greater good of Mother Russia”.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 01/03/2025 15:05

Livelovebehappy · 01/03/2025 15:03

It’s becoming increasingly apparent that Zelenskyy wants us to up our contribution to the war. Financial aid is no longer helping. He wants feet on the ground - wants us to provide human fodder for their war. How many on here baying for Russia to be destroyed would be happy with their sons, husbands, brothers going to fight in Ukraine? Not many I’ll bet. Financial aid can only help so far, but then you need actual foot soldiers. Money won’t buy soldiers, only finance weapons. Russia will win eventually without Europe providing people to fight for them.

It’s a good job our forebears didn’t take that attitude in 1939 isn’t it.

SunDash · 01/03/2025 15:05

Defending Europe is cheaper and safer in the long term than letting the Red Army march back to Berlin.
Putin could be ousted at any time, as everyone knows what a rubbish idea invading Ukraine was...he could fall out his window, and the guy who comes after might be more friendly.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 01/03/2025 15:04

Hwi · 01/03/2025 14:36

I am speaking for myself and quite a few people I know - and of course I respect your right to donate to the cause, house those who seek refuge in your home, send your wages to the cause altogether, fly whatever non-UK flag you want to fly, etc. etc. I just don't care enough for foreign problems, that is all.

Blimey Nigel, tone it down a bit, you sound quite racist.

Livelovebehappy · 01/03/2025 15:03

It’s becoming increasingly apparent that Zelenskyy wants us to up our contribution to the war. Financial aid is no longer helping. He wants feet on the ground - wants us to provide human fodder for their war. How many on here baying for Russia to be destroyed would be happy with their sons, husbands, brothers going to fight in Ukraine? Not many I’ll bet. Financial aid can only help so far, but then you need actual foot soldiers. Money won’t buy soldiers, only finance weapons. Russia will win eventually without Europe providing people to fight for them.

Arrivals4lucky · 01/03/2025 15:03

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 01/03/2025 14:56

Hamas is a terrorist organisation, so not quite tge same as one country at war with another.

And Israel have bombed the fuck out of millions of innocent Palestinians, killed over 40k of them and seem bent on genocide. So yeah, you’re right. Not quite the same thing.

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 01/03/2025 15:02

dottiehens · 01/03/2025 13:46

Regardless of your posture. Where are be getting the money for the war? 60 percent of the U.K. is in some sort of benefits? Most people would say happy to pay more in taxes but we know most are not even net contributors.

Need to get people in work ... to many being paid to sit at home, or elsewhere doing nothing. I'm not talking about people who are really dusabled here!

Biscuitsnotcookies · 01/03/2025 15:02

I am not going to support the abandonment of Ukraine.

I sincerely hope all sides will find a landing strip, so we can avoid an escalation.

SallyWD · 01/03/2025 15:01

Foodtimeisit · 01/03/2025 12:54

After yesterday's news, Britain shouldn't be the one funding war as USA has said they are out now. There's no chance Britain can fight this war alone with Ukraine against Russia.
Since this war started, our life has only become miserable with CoL increase.
AIBU to think we shouldn't have anything to do this war and we should fix our own problems first before giving away our tax money?

It's not just Britain and Ukraine against Russia, it's most of Europe.

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 01/03/2025 15:01

mugglewump · 01/03/2025 13:32

Britain is the 8th largest contributor to the Ukraine war, but the British media seem to promote the idea that this is Britain alone support Zalensky. The largest support for Ukraine's war are the contries that border Ukraine and Russia, all less wealthy countries than the UK (Latvia, Lithuania, Estonia and Poland). Denmark, a much small country than ours tho' wealthier, also makes a larger contribution than us. However, despite not having a land border with Ukraine or Russia, we are all threatened by Putin through cyber attacks (ever wondered why banks and NHS systems go down?), meddling in elections and corrupt oligarchs. We should not bury our heads in the sand.

And Trump ... a friend recently went to South Africa, very difficult to get Internet. Starlink?

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 01/03/2025 15:01

BlackEyedFrozenPeas · 01/03/2025 14:40

I don’t think it’s a very good idea for us to piss off the Americans.

Some of you are asking us to think about history. Ok then. From what I remember the Italians and Germans were the aggressors in WW2, and the French let the Germans walk through to get to us. Then the Americans joined in and were pivotal in saving our arses.

Of course there was more to it than this, however I really don’t believe the Americans would stand by and ever let anyone bomb the UK. I think they’d react to protect us immediately.

The rest of Europe….France, Germany, Spain, Italy…..hmmmmm I wouldn’t hold my breath.

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You don’t seem to remember it correctly.
Italy didn’t become involved until June 1940 because Mussolini thought he could appease Hitler by being on his side. If you don’t know what happened to Mussolini then I suggest you look it up, it wasn’t good. Italy then declared war on Germany in 1943 and joined the allied armies.

The US repeatedly refused to help until 1940 but only supplied aid and not troops, but after the Japanese bombed Pearl Harbour in 1941 they declared war on Japan, and later on Germany. So in actual fact the Americans DID stand back and allow us to be bombed, for two years.

Oh and you’ve also forgotten that Russia was on our side. Stalin had also tried to appease Hitler and spoiler alert, it didn’t work, you can’t appease dictators.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 01/03/2025 15:00

sahmtoosen · 01/03/2025 13:08

I disagree . I think Putin only wants Ukraine. It’s clearly always been about the natural resources and he thought it would be easy as Zelensky isn’t an experienced politician or leader. I think a lot of countries backing Ukraine were hoping to help and get something in return (access again to those natural resources) but now it’s gone on so long that Trump has steamrollered in and made it clear what it’s always been about, thought he could get it sorted asap and is now losing his temper as he can’t. He will be warning us off next and telling any country that backs Ukraine that they are also going to be responsible for WW3

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Aye and Adolf only wanted Poland!

Hwi · 01/03/2025 14:57

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 01/03/2025 14:56

Hamas is a terrorist organisation, so not quite tge same as one country at war with another.

Sorry, then all those Palestinian children were killed by the non-terrorist ISL or whatever they are called?

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 01/03/2025 14:56

Have you read the poem "First they came" by Pastor Martin Neimoller?

Hwi · 01/03/2025 14:56

Milkmani8 · 01/03/2025 14:47

But wait, aren’t Eastern European and Polish migrants propping up the benefits payouts economy for the lazy native Brits 🤭 You know, the ones who came over here and stole all the jobs from the chain smoking, big telly, tracksuit wearing, ‘hard’ British workers - the ones who never had a job since they left school and now they’ve got at least 9 children.

EE families in social housing doing the menial job fat lazy Brits won't do? OK. One child (conservative estimate) is 9K pa for a state school - 2008 data. If they have 2 kids - you calculate how much these costs the taxpayer, just to put them through school. And now let us speak about them 'paying taxes' - they don't even cover the cost of their offspring schooling! And then the social housing, top ups, credits or whatever they are, plus NHS services - great, isn't it?

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 01/03/2025 14:56

Arrivals4lucky · 01/03/2025 13:16

I mean you are right in some respects of course- why don’t you pop over to the Middle East and mention that to the Israelis too.

Hamas is a terrorist organisation, so not quite tge same as one country at war with another.

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 01/03/2025 14:54

You are being absolutely a d totally unreasonable abd deluded

HeadacheEarthquake · 01/03/2025 14:54

ThePearlBee · 01/03/2025 14:51

I never said shit about my children "experiencing the world." They live where we live and work. Don't try to make me your straw man.

The "unfortunate abroad" (ew) do actually need the money to be got there and programs need to be administrated and carried out and checks and balances done and for that to be done UK workers do need to be there, sometimes. Wtf are you on about "leeching," you don't want aid to happen at all! Massive hypocrite.

I don't have a "brood." I have kids. Thanks.
I'm out anyway. I don't need either your ugly goady communications or your horrible selfishness raising my blood pressure any more.

If you are in fact professing to be a Christian, that's the most hilarious and tragic thing I've heard in a while.

Don't let Hwi bother you they clearly have a room temperature IQ

Dotjones · 01/03/2025 14:54

YANBU to think that now the US are pulling out, we should do the same. There's no point taking on Russia without American backing. It's bad for Ukraine, and will be bad for Poland, the Baltic states, Romania (ex-USSR in general to be honest), probably Germany and possibly Finland, but Russia can easily manage to bomb the UK out of existance. At best we could destroy Moscow in retaliation.

Pulling out now and allowing the Russian slaughter machine to move slowly westwards will at least buy us some time to build up our own armed forces and prepare the population for war. We need weapons and we need training (as civilians), we need to start building bunkers and fallout shelters. They may well not be enough but at least we'd have tried.

Best case scenario is Putin is statisfied once Russia has recovered the territory formerly occupied by the USSR. If that's the case, that's kind of a result for the West. Yes it's a shame for people who had hoped for a more stable world after the fall of communism, but if Russians don't want that to be the case, we can't change their minds.

Purplebunnie · 01/03/2025 14:52

BlackEyedFrozenPeas · 01/03/2025 14:40

I don’t think it’s a very good idea for us to piss off the Americans.

Some of you are asking us to think about history. Ok then. From what I remember the Italians and Germans were the aggressors in WW2, and the French let the Germans walk through to get to us. Then the Americans joined in and were pivotal in saving our arses.

Of course there was more to it than this, however I really don’t believe the Americans would stand by and ever let anyone bomb the UK. I think they’d react to protect us immediately.

The rest of Europe….France, Germany, Spain, Italy…..hmmmmm I wouldn’t hold my breath.

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The current administration in America would not piss on us if we were on fire

Also the French didn't let the Nazis walk through, they just didn't have much of an army to stop it. Once they were occupied they did everything in their power to disrupt the Nazis. Do you know how many people would have died if not but for the resistance,

Nanny0gg · 01/03/2025 14:51

Foodtimeisit · 01/03/2025 13:22

By negotiation involving Russia, Ukraine, USA and other allies.

Have you been watching how that's going?

ThePearlBee · 01/03/2025 14:51

I never said shit about my children "experiencing the world." They live where we live and work. Don't try to make me your straw man.

The "unfortunate abroad" (ew) do actually need the money to be got there and programs need to be administrated and carried out and checks and balances done and for that to be done UK workers do need to be there, sometimes. Wtf are you on about "leeching," you don't want aid to happen at all! Massive hypocrite.

I don't have a "brood." I have kids. Thanks.
I'm out anyway. I don't need either your ugly goady communications or your horrible selfishness raising my blood pressure any more.

If you are in fact professing to be a Christian, that's the most hilarious and tragic thing I've heard in a while.

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