on a mini break with my (fairly new) partner and he isn’t feeling great and is in some discomfort.
I’m trying to give him space and to only chat when he feels like it.
After he complained for the 10000th time about the pain (which is fine, he’s totally entitled), I said “I’m sorry babe. I really feel for you You must be so uncomfortable”.
He snapped back “can you just stop saying that. You’ve said it way too many times”.
It was a real slap on the face. He’s spent two days complaining about pain and I have basically run out of different things to say in response. Not to mention I DO feel for him, and was just speaking my thoughts.
Maybe I have said that a few times and I’m sure it’s unhelpful but what else am I supposed to do? Smile and nod every time? (I have done lots of smiling and nodding too, incidentally, at some points).
His sharp response was really biting.