In new relationship but with someone ive known a long time. I know he has always had female friends, i also know he has slept with at least one, although i dont know or want to know who is who.
Anyway im away this week. He mentioned yesterday his old pal was in the area and coming over for a catch up tonight. Assumes im ok with this and assures me unprompted that no one is a threat to me, he adores me.
Im totally fine with that. I feel adored. I know he loves me.
Chatting tonight he mentioned what he'd made them for dinner. He's a great cook. It sounded a lovely meal.
Got off phone and been feeling a bit uneasy ever since. Wtf is wrong with me.... Its just dinner. He loves to cook for folk. He didn't have to tell me. But if im honest it has made me feel a bit fucking miffed. He doesn't make a nice meal if a male pal visits. And he said popping up for a catch up.... Not im making her dinner.
Aibu? Am i being a dick? Fwiw my last relationship broke me and this has been a big step. Also i absolutely trust it was innocent but it still makes me feel weird