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Starmer did well yesterday

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oceanflow · 28/02/2025 11:06

I mean, he was never going to magic a Trump personality transformation in the space of a couple of hours. But he walked the Trump tightrope well. I found the whole thing fascinating - particularly the contrived flattery. The mode of these US diplomatic visits now reflects the way you would visit a senile, elderly relative - any other leader would find it patronising, but it's all totally lost on Trump. The flourish if the state visit invite was hilarious. I was never a fan of Starmer particularly and thought he lacked charisma as a leader. But now I'm glad to have a leader who is about the tasks at hand, not simply his own ego. AIBU?

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Skibbidee · 28/02/2025 12:32

Is trump expecting anything back for the hillions that have been given to Israel? Why does he only want something back from Ukraine?

PandoraSox · 28/02/2025 12:31

spuddy4 · 28/02/2025 11:57

I'm just going to repeat what I said on one of the other Starmer worshipping threads. Interesting how people perceive things differently. I saw it as an embarrassing, desperate move because Starmer knows Trump doesn't think much of the UK and the special relationship the two countries once had is long gone. I don't think for one moment Trump will forget the comments that various Labour MPs have made about him. It's just mind games and they are all playing each other.

He forgot Vance's comments.

JoyousEagle · 28/02/2025 12:31

I don't think for one moment Trump will forget the comments that various Labour MPs have made about him.

I doubt he much cares. Vance once called him America's Hitler.

JoyousEagle · 28/02/2025 12:28

Chuchoter · 28/02/2025 11:17

Starmer just admitted Britain is being taken for a ride—again!

When Trump was talking about Ukraine, he made it clear: America has been giving away billions and getting nothing in return—but that’s about to change with a minerals deal. Then up pipes Keir Starmer to proudly declare that Britain’s billions were a gift!

So, let’s get this straight—while others are looking out for their national interests, securing deals, and making sure their money isn’t wasted, Britain is just handing over taxpayer cash with no expectation of anything in return?

Starmer isn’t negotiating for Britain—he’s grovelling. No wonder our country keeps getting mugged off on the world stage. - Darren Grimes.

He did exactly what Macron did. When Trump said Europe loaned the money, Macron interrupted to say that actually no, it was not loaned, it was given.

Peripop · 28/02/2025 12:26

I think Starmer is treading this line very well and i'm pleased he's in charge for this moment.

endofthelinefinally · 28/02/2025 12:18

oceanflow · 28/02/2025 11:49

Ha ha, yes that is exactly what it was like. The way he was mirroring Trump's speech patterns there was a classic.

It has been fascinating to observe just how much they have all been studying body language, mirroring etc with a fair bit if emergency psychology thrown in.
I and my colleagues had to work with some very difficult men sometimes and we had it all down to a fine art. It is tiring though.

PiggyPigalle · 28/02/2025 12:12

Chuchoter · 28/02/2025 11:17

Starmer just admitted Britain is being taken for a ride—again!

When Trump was talking about Ukraine, he made it clear: America has been giving away billions and getting nothing in return—but that’s about to change with a minerals deal. Then up pipes Keir Starmer to proudly declare that Britain’s billions were a gift!

So, let’s get this straight—while others are looking out for their national interests, securing deals, and making sure their money isn’t wasted, Britain is just handing over taxpayer cash with no expectation of anything in return?

Starmer isn’t negotiating for Britain—he’s grovelling. No wonder our country keeps getting mugged off on the world stage. - Darren Grimes.

We have not been taken for a ride. Ukraine was invaded by our shared enemy and is Europe's front line in the war.
We are supplying them with aid and weapons as though we were fighting, though we should have supplied more and faster. Consider therefore that we are supplying ourselves but without our soldiers dying. Nothing to charge them for.

The US on the other hand would not be directly affected. Suited them for the Ukrainians to lessen the might of the Russian army. Now that's been achieved, Trump asks for payment in the form of a terrible deal for Ukraine.

The knowledge that NATO has gained from Ukraine over the past three years is incalculable. Doubt Trump will consider that when presenting his invoice however.

Idontknowhatnametochoose · 28/02/2025 11:57

Starmer is clever. He knows what he's doing.

spuddy4 · 28/02/2025 11:57

I'm just going to repeat what I said on one of the other Starmer worshipping threads. Interesting how people perceive things differently. I saw it as an embarrassing, desperate move because Starmer knows Trump doesn't think much of the UK and the special relationship the two countries once had is long gone. I don't think for one moment Trump will forget the comments that various Labour MPs have made about him. It's just mind games and they are all playing each other.

oceanflow · 28/02/2025 11:49

Comedycook · 28/02/2025 11:39

I agree...he did a good job.

I loved the ...this is a very special letter...line. It was like a reception teacher talking to a five year old who had brought something in for show and tell 😂

Ha ha, yes that is exactly what it was like. The way he was mirroring Trump's speech patterns there was a classic.

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latetothefisting · 28/02/2025 11:49

Chuchoter · 28/02/2025 11:17

Starmer just admitted Britain is being taken for a ride—again!

When Trump was talking about Ukraine, he made it clear: America has been giving away billions and getting nothing in return—but that’s about to change with a minerals deal. Then up pipes Keir Starmer to proudly declare that Britain’s billions were a gift!

So, let’s get this straight—while others are looking out for their national interests, securing deals, and making sure their money isn’t wasted, Britain is just handing over taxpayer cash with no expectation of anything in return?

Starmer isn’t negotiating for Britain—he’s grovelling. No wonder our country keeps getting mugged off on the world stage. - Darren Grimes.

giving something VOLUNTARILY isn't being 'taken for a ride'
Do you think you are 'taking your mum for a ride' and she is being 'mugged off' if she gives you a birthday present?

being taken for a ride would be if Ukraine had promised something in exchange and didn't deliver.

ArthurtheOtter · 28/02/2025 11:47

His outburst "we do have free speech" was embarrassing. We don't. Look at all the people locked up for posting mean things on Facebook and the women questioned by police for understanding biology.

NormasArse · 28/02/2025 11:47

lovemyflipflops · 28/02/2025 11:36

Exactly what I thought - the way he was touching Trumps arm !

Did the trick tho

I do that when someone starts to rant/ramble. It’s to bring them back to the conversation.

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 28/02/2025 11:47

Chuchoter · 28/02/2025 11:17

Starmer just admitted Britain is being taken for a ride—again!

When Trump was talking about Ukraine, he made it clear: America has been giving away billions and getting nothing in return—but that’s about to change with a minerals deal. Then up pipes Keir Starmer to proudly declare that Britain’s billions were a gift!

So, let’s get this straight—while others are looking out for their national interests, securing deals, and making sure their money isn’t wasted, Britain is just handing over taxpayer cash with no expectation of anything in return?

Starmer isn’t negotiating for Britain—he’s grovelling. No wonder our country keeps getting mugged off on the world stage. - Darren Grimes.

You think we're getting nothing back? Entire generations of Ukrainians are getting massacred to protect the safety of the rest of Europe. I'd say that's worth a few billion quid in the long run

AnneShirleysNewDress · 28/02/2025 11:45

He did a good job in difficult circumstances which, I imagine, were massively outside his comfort zone.

The invite from Charles will have helped too.

Jellycatspyjamas · 28/02/2025 11:45

I think he did the best he could under very trying circumstances. The only way to play things with Trump is to massage his ego a bit - the “very special letter” was a clever move though cringing to watch him need to manage Trump in the way he needs to. Totally not in Starmers comfort zone but what’s needed to get anywhere with Trump. What a world we live in.

ThighsYouCantControl · 28/02/2025 11:43

Comedycook · 28/02/2025 11:39

I agree...he did a good job.

I loved the ...this is a very special letter...line. It was like a reception teacher talking to a five year old who had brought something in for show and tell 😂

Yes exactly! I was cackling. And it worked.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 28/02/2025 11:43

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 28/02/2025 11:42

I watched Macron on Monday and was anxious that Starmer wouldn't stand a chance by comparison. He clearly doesn't have the natural charm and charisma of the French President. However, when it came to it, I was surprised by how well he managed the situation. Yes, his style is very different from that of Macron, but he had clearly done his homework and it seemed to work.

Plus of course, having a shiny invitation from the King in his pocket clearly helped!😂

Yes, Trump is easily impressed by a bit of bling. How the monarchy has fallen ;)

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 28/02/2025 11:42

Tryingtokeepgoing · 28/02/2025 11:37

I think Starmer played a blinder by appearing with Trump… ;) Next to Macron however his inadequacies are cruelly obvious…

But, moving forward on Ukraine is critical. Given we already have a trade deal with the US on many things I’m unclear what new things are proposed, and fear that we will easily be out negotiated by a president who is very clear that USA comes first. As for the Chagos islands, isn’t it a moot point as it’s not at all clear that they are happy with the proposed deal post elections? It would however neatly consume some of the recently announced increase in defence spending…

I watched Macron on Monday and was anxious that Starmer wouldn't stand a chance by comparison. He clearly doesn't have the natural charm and charisma of the French President. However, when it came to it, I was surprised by how well he managed the situation. Yes, his style is very different from that of Macron, but he had clearly done his homework and it seemed to work.

Plus of course, having a shiny invitation from the King in his pocket clearly helped!😂

Comedycook · 28/02/2025 11:39

I agree...he did a good job.

I loved the ...this is a very special letter...line. It was like a reception teacher talking to a five year old who had brought something in for show and tell 😂

DrummingMousWife · 28/02/2025 11:37

I would say he did a good job, but I would need to be in the room for that. Who knows what the hell got agreed behind close doors ? I’m not that trusting of a government leader who came straight in and screwed all the pensioners they persuaded to vote for them.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 28/02/2025 11:37

I think Starmer played a blinder by appearing with Trump… ;) Next to Macron however his inadequacies are cruelly obvious…

But, moving forward on Ukraine is critical. Given we already have a trade deal with the US on many things I’m unclear what new things are proposed, and fear that we will easily be out negotiated by a president who is very clear that USA comes first. As for the Chagos islands, isn’t it a moot point as it’s not at all clear that they are happy with the proposed deal post elections? It would however neatly consume some of the recently announced increase in defence spending…

lovemyflipflops · 28/02/2025 11:36

Ablondiebutagoody · 28/02/2025 11:35

Top level brown nosing and very uncomfortable to watch. I was contorted into a full body cringe.

Exactly what I thought - the way he was touching Trumps arm !

Did the trick tho

hairbearbunches · 28/02/2025 11:35

POSTC123 · 28/02/2025 11:21

I am proud we are donating rather than wanting something back.

Who on earth thinks it’s appropriate to loan in these circumstances! Thats pretty much extortion. This is not a game, a trade deal or a business negotiation! This is for a country at war with someone who keeps threatening to blow us up with nuclear weapons!

It's a shame the US didn't take have this stance after WW2. We only just paid back their loan to us. FFS.

Is there anything British tax payers aren't made to contribute to with no expectation of a return? Whoop. Crack on.

Ablondiebutagoody · 28/02/2025 11:35

Top level brown nosing and very uncomfortable to watch. I was contorted into a full body cringe.

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