Would you judge this in someone’s house?

@Bingbopboomboomboombopbam they’re not my cup of tea but if you want them up on your walls then go for it.

Does it matter if other people judge you for it? That’s down to you, if you don’t care what people think, put them up. If you do care then pick something else.

Eccentric is creating a folly in your garden, decorating your living room to recreate Tutankhamen's tomb or cutting holes in all the walls to accommodate your ever expanding model railway. Putting up a poster with the word fuck in it is not.

The meds one is hugely passive aggressive—in fact they all are. Why not just put up in 80 point bold, Fraktur typeface

”JUDGE NOT LEST YE BE JUDGED” and call the job of simultaneously instructing and silencing your visitors done?

If you have to ask 'is this OK', you already know this is not OK.

I wouldn’t judge you. I’d assume you’d teach your children what’s appropriate to say and what’s only for adults.

its not that deep. The meds one would go above their head anyway.

in actually shocked how everyone else is judging this badly. I just see it as personal taste ‘art’ so you don’t censor it. And children need to learn to live in a mixed world. Like would you censor the paintings with boobs out in an art gallery or just walk by and answer questions of they came? But clearly we’re going to be outcasts on this!😬 @Rainbows678 might have to rethink a couple of my pictures or my child might never get a play date again!

Really dreadful - not because of the children (although thats an added factor) they are just totally naff

I'm struggling to see why you care what other people think and why you asked for opinions, going by this and your other responses?

I would be cringing for you.
Its very try hard. Sorry!

I would find them tacky and wonder why you had put them up especially with kids.

I'd judge you both on the quotes and on the swearing!

So well articulated. Exactly this.
I am afraid the phrase " Our house is full of love and fun" irritated me.
What is everybody else's house full of?
Misery and weeping?
The whole sayings on wall reminds me of Fisk!

They're pretty naff and "done to death".

I wouldn't approve of the swearing either.

There's two different but related things going on here but both point to the same fundamental need, which is people seeking approval from others for their lifestyle:

• The snobbery or taste factor (depending on your perspective) around these "sayings" items (live, laugh, love/wine o'clock, whatever). Some people think they're inspired, others find them cringeworthy. It's subjective but very Marmite.
• The appropriateness or otherwise of swearing around children. Also very divisive.

One is a class/style consideration, the other is moral. But both are deliberate "antagonists": people know they will prompt judgement. Everyone knows that this sort of thing will be loved or hated, it's not middle ground.

If you're the kind of person who wants never to offend someone and to create calm, tasteful consensus you presumably care quite a lot about how other people perceive you and go out of your way to not upset the applecart. If you're the kind of person who doesn't care what people think of your decor or dress sense or the language you use at home you will just crack on and please yourself.

What is irritating is when people seek to have it both ways and advertise their "eccentricity" or "madness" or "straight talking" in a way which seeks approval and admiration from others (and I think this is partly why people are so irritated by the "live, laugh, love" phenomenon: it's the idea of seeking approval from others of a supposedly "unique" philosophy which actually isn't unique at all).

If you want to take the "please yourself" route, whether that's cheesy posters on the walls or walking around naked from dawn to dusk, do it and own it but don't expect people to give you a pat on the back for it. If you genuinely are as straight talking/speak as you find/insert cliche as you think you are, then you shouldn't expect people to congratulate you for it or be perturbed when they don't.

What I think about when someome says that they're "eccentric"

I have nudes all over the place. I always have. Classical nudes, Renaissance nudes etc. I have never considered art inappropriate, but I wouldn't have up a Francis Bacon. DD has flower pictures that make skulls in her house. It's what you like.
I tend not to put up slogans or quotes though, and I wouldn't put up the ones you quote because they are cliches and a bit naff, to be honest and also I don't like swear words on my walls.

I think the OP's choice in decor is dreadful too but you've taken that post totally out of context.

I would not comment but yes it’s naff and unacceptable and yes I would judge you

This is the millennial version of live love laugh and that bloody hideous colourful cow painting honest to god.

For a very sweary website, some people are ridiculously uptight about swearing on here!

I wouldnt think anything of the language but I do find those sort of things rather naff. Its trying too hard to prove you dont care what people think, which ironically highlights that you do.

Hers got tapestries tho

Like you know, tapestries...
On the walls!!

I mean.. I ain't not never known any one have tapestries I their house before.

So quirky and unique... Just like millions of other people that but from places like The Tapestry Shop..

Okay for small-ish fridge magnets.

In my experience, people who say 'we're all mad here!' are often fairly conventional.

I would guess your house is anything but eccentric.

I have children 4, 12, 18. I also have prints on the wall that are tongue in cheek or have swear words in them.
My favourite is my bathroom print. It's a photo of king Charles that says
"Please don't do Charlie in the bathroom"

Pretty sure I'll get roasted for it but I couldn't care less. Those who know me know our sense of humour and get it. I don't shelter my children from things like this and they're generally well mannered, moderately well behaved (as much as any other child of the same age) and they don't run around the house swearing.

(Glad I haven't mentioned the "live laugh toaster bath tee I've worn to the nursery...)

I think it takes more than one swear word on the walls to be inappropriate around kids. But if I heard your kids swearing and I saw that on the wall I'd probably be judging your parenting.

I'd probably judge your taste, and not as eccentric, but that's not really important, is it? Taste is one of those things that should be diverse. Wouldn't really want to live in a world where everyone liked my taste and I liked everyone else's. It's the variety and challenge that keeps things interesting.