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To despise the word 'comfy'?

133 replies

citylightsbehind · 27/02/2025 17:06

Urggggggh. I don't know why, but I hate it.

I personally will abide a bit of discomfort for aesthetic reasons, but would never look askance at those who choose comfort over fashion.

I just have a, possibly unreasonable, hatred of the word.

OP posts:
GoodToBeHome · 27/02/2025 17:47

ItGhoul · 27/02/2025 17:42

But the OP was talking about the word 'comfy', I think, rather than the actual concept of comfort?

From the OP'S post:
I personally will abide a bit of discomfort for aesthetic reasons
I love to be comfy too much to abide a bit of discomfort for aesthetic reasons!

BallerinaRadio · 27/02/2025 17:46

Bizarre

TerrifiedandWorried · 27/02/2025 17:45

When I was at school my friend did her gcse art project around the word comfy. Only, she spelt it cumfy.

ItGhoul · 27/02/2025 17:42

GoodToBeHome · 27/02/2025 17:38

I love all things comfy! Huge soft sofas, king-size bed with memory foam mattress, soft dressing gown and loads of blankets.
Sorry but comfy is my happy place!

But the OP was talking about the word 'comfy', I think, rather than the actual concept of comfort?

GoodToBeHome · 27/02/2025 17:38

I love all things comfy! Huge soft sofas, king-size bed with memory foam mattress, soft dressing gown and loads of blankets.
Sorry but comfy is my happy place!

ItGhoul · 27/02/2025 17:29

It doesn't annoy me, but at the same time I don't know why 'comfortable' gets its own abbreviation when other comparable adjectives don't. What's special about the concept of 'comfortable' that it needs a shortened version?

Oddly, 'veggie', as referenced above by @Lovageandgeraniums, really grates on me. I also hate it when people say 'roasties' and 'Yorkies' for roast potatoes and Yorkshire puddings. Oh and when people describe themselves as a 'foodie'. And when tennis commentators call left-handed players 'lefties'.

I appreciate this is very much my problem and not theirs, though. I make no claims to rationality over this.

Hitherzither · 27/02/2025 17:27

And 'pamper'. Yuk, it is so infantilising. Makes women sound like they want to be babied and back in nappies.

Lovageandgeraniums · 27/02/2025 17:21

I hate it too. Horrible cosy laziness. I also hate 'veggie'.