To think it’s wrong of the school to do this?

All true but then the school has to make that decision as to whether to go ahead or not. It’s tough. We had pupils whose parents wouldn’t/couldnt pay for the annual residential trip but we as governors took the decision to fund it.

Absolutely. Surely as a teacher you would be marching up to the Head and complaining not passively sitting there while 5 year olds don’t get to see Santa.
and if the school knows that many parents are unwilling or unable to pay then paid activities should only happen after school so the other kids don’t know they are being left out as much.

I agree. Children should not be excluded from seeing Santa or the theatre show because parents can’t or won’t pay a contribution.

Here’s the thing. It isn’t the children’s school trip money. It’s the parents’ money that the school would like to spend on a trip.

The law provides for state primary and secondary education to be free at point of service. The parents have paid as much as they are obliged to in their taxes and should be able to rely on that if they want to and spend their own money on electricity or alcohol or a trip with their kids without having to be obliged to fund a more expensive education than the state budget allows for at the school’s whim.

I’m almost always glad when my kids’ school puts trips and activities on and I pay for them and donate to fundraisers. But parents who don’t want to pay for a more expensive education should not be expected or pressured to do so just because I and lots of other parents and teachers want it. And in a state school their children should not be excluded because their parents only want the education their taxes fund.

As a single parent teacher I always paid for my child’s lunches and educational visits. As a free school meals kid and then a teacher for 30 years, I know fine well that some parents are spending their children’s trip money on the energy meters and food or their alcohol/weed. Children don’t get a say.

They can’t do this. Having worked in a school it is infuriating when parents won’t contribute (even though they drive the latest car & go on several foreign holidays each year) and it’s usually the same ones who do contribute each time. We had to cancel trips/visits occasionally because only a couple people contributed. The trouble is schools don’t have very much spare cash.Children can’t be excluded from trips in school time if they don’t contribute.

If you’re a state school in England that’s atrocious and against the law. State schools are not given the authority to develop an enhanced curriculum for parents who want to pay a bit more and a crappier, second class curriculum for those who don’t.

This is done in my school. Our budget is so bad, there is zero funds left for anything so we always ask parents to pay. If a parent doesn’t pay the children go into a different class. We try and help if we know it’s a genuine can’t afford to pay but we have a number of parents who don’t pay and can definitely afford it.

It's not up to the school or a subset of parents to decide, since the government won't fund a richer education, everyone who attends your particular school will be required to. If you want to make people pay more for education, you need to change the law, not just foist it on a particular school.

That’s so wrong. I have worked in this kind of school, offered to pay myself as a teacher and been refused. I would not send my child to a school that does this.

Our school PTA fund these activities (I’m on it & Governor). However, It’s ridiculous how few families contribute to any activity from swimming, trips & activities. The majority are not in poverty, trips abroad multiple times etc & they actively say how they haven’t paid or won’t, same with PTA discos etc always attend but contribute zero, ever. We often discuss attendance at events they don’t contribute to but agree it’s not the child, & should always be included. As a parent I’m fed up with it. I can’t imagine any school excluding them.

Not an educational experience, but I'm a teacher (in reception this year), and at Christmas, only the children who paid £3 got the opportunity to go and visit 'Santa' in our main hall in the middle of the day. Half the class were called to line up, including some with very 'challenging' behaviours shall we say, while the rest were left in class. I had children asking 'why can't I see Santa?' while another child wailed and rolled around on the carpet, screaming to see Santa. The school hadn't even paid an actor to come in and dress up, and we used one of our male teachers. It was a PTA thing to raise money for the school. Appalling.

It is illegal under the education act

https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/media/5af99c8ae5274a25e78bbe30/Charging_for_school_activities.pdf

No, they can ask for voluntary contributions and they can say that if they don't get enough voluntary contributions the trip can't go ahead, but they can't actually charge for educational activities during the school day (i.e. make attendance conditional on paying).

The OP needs to follow the school complaints procedure and point this out. It's doesn't matter whether any other parents complain or not, the school is legally in the wrong.

The problem is that you get a load of CF not paying because it's voluntary. Two trips have had to be cancelled this year at my daughter's school because less than half the parents decided to pay. I don't mind if it's people who genuinely can't pay, but we are all fairly middle-class, with a plethora of nice cars thronging the streets at pick up. I sincerely doubt that half the year group cannot afford £12 for the bus hire and entry to our local castle! It's just that people hear the word voluntary and decide that they want something for free!

I was bursar and governor in a C of E primary. We had to ask for contributions for some events but we wrote into our school policies that no child would be excluded if the parents couldn’t or wouldn’t pay.
Maybe you could ask to see the school’s inclusion policy to clarify? I appreciate that your child won’t be missing out but in this day and age no school should exclude children from activities for lack of parental contribution.

It's unlawful in England except for musical instruments or if the parents have indicated in advance that they would like their child to bring home whatever they've made - in which case they can charge for materials (but only to cover the costs for the materials the child uses, they can't charge more to cover materials used by the teacher or other children in the class who can't pay).

Schools can ask for contributions but cannot deny the activity to children who do not pay. Even school cooking lessons should be available without children paying or bringing in ingredients if the child doesn't want to keep what they cook.

Really? Our kids school have done this multiple times, 'history buses' etc

But it's not the fault of the children and they shouldn't suffer because of it.
OP I didn't think schools were allowed to exclude children like this.

My kids school made people pay to see Santa and the kids that hadn’t paid didn’t get to see him. I thought that was terrible! They did change it this year though so the kids all saw Santa but only the paying ones got a present. Better but still not great.

It is a bit shit. Our school has an “enrichment fund”, voluntary overpayments by parents cover kids who can’t afford eg theatre/ museum trips etc. Whenever we have an event, I try and pay a couple of pounds extra into the fund, happy in the knowledge that no kid will miss out. Maybe you could suggest this to your school? We use ParentPay app and it appears permanently as an item for payment on there.

Not the first time? Crikey.

If these activities are part of the school’s educational offering, then it should be accessible to all students, not just those whose parents can spare the cost. If it is not part of the curriculum, then why is it taking place during the school day at all? In either case, punishing children for their parents’ financial situation is completely unacceptable.

If additional funding is needed, there are many other ways to handle it without singling out students and making them feel lesser than their peers.

I would be interested to hear how the school defended withdrawing from such positive principles as equal opportunities and inclusion in its position as their educator and yes, role model.

I'd be following the complaints procedure until it reached the governors and then onto the local authority if needed. I'd also be highlighting the position to OFSTED.

I had this with my daughter’s school but they actually did include everyone, even those who didn’t pay. They just didn’t advertise it.

But to actually exclude those who don’t pay, during a school day, would have me writing to the head followed by the governors. I’d rather my daughter miss out on this stuff than have other kids excluded due to money. What message is that giving the kids?

This makes me so angry.

I can't edit as I am on the app.
I see it has happened before
But I still think more information is needed.