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To find people's Holiday snaps so tedious?

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orangesandlemonssaythebellsofstclements · 26/02/2025 10:07

Don't get me wrong - I'm happy for people and I like to see a few key snaps of special moments and know that people are having a good time. But do we need to see every moment?

They're bad enough when people put them on Facebook but at least you can scroll past them. Or just click on a few.

A beloved family member is now retired and is doing a lot of travelling. The last few times she went somewhere, she's absolutely flooded the family group whatsapp chat with endless pictures. I counted a total of over 500 in the 10 days she was away. I'm not exaggerating. Ding ding ding ding. It's not like I could even mute the group because it's a family chat and I might miss something.

Now she's travelling round Australia for 3 weeks and she's set up a separate whatsapp group just to share her pictures. She's added everyone she knows. There are HUNDREDS of pictures, daily. Everywhere she goes, everything she sees, everything she notices on the streets, her room, her on the plane, her on a train, her in a car, and a picture of EVERY SINGLE MEAL SHE EATS!! and loads of comments from people I don't know.

I muted the group on day 1 and pop in now and then to make a comment so she doesn't think we're ignoring her.

Am I being an old misery or are holiday snaps just so boring? I love this person dearly but I do not care about every minute of her Holiday.

OP posts:
iliketobereasonable · 26/02/2025 10:21

I love people’s holiday pics! But this would be too much even for me.

Porkyporkchop · 26/02/2025 10:19

Completely agree. Oh my god how tedious.

Lentilweaver · 26/02/2025 10:18

This is why I left my family WA group
and Facebook. I am on Insta but I only follow art galleries and museums. Some of my friends on there post pictures of their morning cuppa every day!

ItShouldntHappenToMeYet · 26/02/2025 10:16

I'm sorry, I have no words of advice, but I feel your pain. A walking group member has to post stuff immediately - we can be on a vigorous hike, but then we have to stop to post a flower picture. Why can't they wait until they are at home!

IUnderstandTheWeird · 26/02/2025 10:14

😂 sounds a bonkers thing to do.
why oh why would they think anyone wants to see them all, it’s very self absorbed isn’t it? at least it’s on a separate group now I suppose.

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