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Do people drink water from the bathroom tap tap

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KW33 · 25/02/2025 18:58

Back story is I work in a perdomately male work place. We have a small coffee machine that needs to be filled up with water every so often. The unisex toilets are not too far from where the team sit. On two separate occasions, one male manager went into the bathroom to fill up the water. I interjected and said no, I will get water from the water despenser in the kitchen which is not close to where the team sit. Then the same thing happened today, another male colleague went to do the same thing. I again interjected and got the water from the kitchen water despenser. When I asked the colleague today, he said it's the same water tank so why wouldn't you use the tap water from the bathroom. I said no that's disgusting at which point another male colleague said there's no difference. He would use his tap water in the bathroom at home. Again I was lost.

So now I want to know is this a thing? I have never used the bathroom tap water as drinking water and never would. However this might be a me thing, or is it a woman thing. I have now started asking everyone....even though what one of them said about it being from the same tank may be true. In my head the kitchen tap water can be used for drinking and the bathroom tap water is for washing your hands etc. Has anyone else had a similar experience or thing to be amazed at what some people class as normal and you class as disgusting.

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MyLimeGuide · 25/02/2025 21:12

It's all fine, especially if it's getting boiled to make coffee.

JacqFrost · 25/02/2025 21:09

Can't say I ever fill a glass with water in the bathroom but it's all water from the same source at the end of the day isn't it.

Supsupsup · 25/02/2025 21:06

@KW33 having once been a cleaner in an office block , where the men’s toilets were rank in comparison to the female loos, I would -from a hygiene perspective- insist that they filled it from the kitchen tap! Taking communal food / drink items into a toilet when there is a kitchen available is unnecessary. In my own home it doesn’t bother me.

FindusMakesPancakes · 25/02/2025 20:25

I grew up with a header tank so don't drink from the bathroom tap out of habit.
I also have a water softener and the only unsoftened water is the kitchen tap. Although it is supposed to be safe, my brain says no and doesn't like the taste!

Rationally I know it should be ok, but actually I would not like to fill a coffee machine from a communal bathroom tap like that. Particularly in a male dominated environment, considering the associated poor hygiene!

Cnidarian · 25/02/2025 20:23

Not a sex-based issue. A tank or no tank issue.

wordler · 25/02/2025 20:20

LaPalmaLlama · 25/02/2025 19:11

Yes, the convention of not drinking bathroom water comes from UK houses often having gravity fed systems whereby the cold water upstairs was from a tank in the loft and the water downstairs was mains, so the cold water upstairs wasn't "fresh". But now not that many homes have that system (cold water is mains fed throughout) so the cold water is the same throughout.

Came to say this - OP your parent probably drilled it into you as a child but you don't have to worry about that anymore.

My DM was paranoid about the water that had been hanging about in the pipes so if you were filling a glass to drink you had to fill and dump three times before filling to drink. I can't shake that habit too even though I know it's not rational now.

sunshineandshowers40 · 25/02/2025 20:19

I don't but am aware that it is the same water.

user2848502016 · 25/02/2025 20:19

It all depends on your tank and pipes. In older houses bathroom water would come from a tank in the loft so would not be clean enough to drink, and also not necessarily from drinking safe pipes.
Modern houses usually have drinking water in the bathroom so it's fine to drink.
But "don't drink from the bathroom tap" has been passed down from previous generations.
As long as your work toilet tap water is drinking standard then it's fine.
Also if going to be boiled for hot drinks it's not an issue at all

iluwn · 25/02/2025 20:18

"I again interjected and got the water from the kitchen water despenser"

What is the kitchen water dispenser? Do you mean the kitchen tap or a specific tap for drinking water or one of those bottled water type things?

As many others have said, it depends how the system is set up. When I was a kid we weren't allowed to drink water from the bathroom taps because the water came from a tank in the roof with standing water in it. The kitchen tap was connected to the mains and so we had to use that.
I'd wonder in your case if the "kitchen water dispenser" is there specifically because the rest of the water is not drinkable and comes from a tank somewhere.

BalladOfBarryAndFreda · 25/02/2025 20:17

ExitPursuedByABare · 25/02/2025 19:02

Our bathroom tap is off the mains so yes.

When I was in hospital in London the water jugs were not filled from the sink on the ward 🤷‍♀️

Those sinks are strictly for handwashing. They shouldn't be used for any other purpose, for infection control reasons.

Bumblebeestiltskin · 25/02/2025 20:15

Tiswa · 25/02/2025 19:04

It used to be (and still can be) that the bathroom in houses was a tank so different and it can be on a separate system (in can say not drinking water) other than that it’s the same

Oh I had no idea this wasn't still the case 😂 I've grown up not drinking from the bathroom tsk because of this.

NattyTurtle59 · 25/02/2025 20:12

Yes I drink water from the bathroom tap - every night in fact - and your situation at work wouldn't bother me at all. What on earth do you think is going to happen Confused

WonderingWanda · 25/02/2025 20:10

On old houses the bathroom water might not be mains but in new houses it is. I do often refill my glass from the tap in my bathroom because I clean. I would be a bit repulsed at the idea of the kettle having been into the men's loos to be honest. I realise the water will be clean and have been boiled anyway but just thinking about people touching dooe handles and taps and then the kettle...and I've learnt from other threads that other people don't wash their hands!

crackofdoom · 25/02/2025 20:09

Anecdote incoming: the Midland Hotel at St Pancras had a header tank up in the attics the size of a swimming pool. A guest drowned in there once (I can only assume drink was involved) and nobody discovered the body until the tap water started tasting funny 😬

(this was about 100 years ago)

Recitalbouquet · 25/02/2025 20:09

We can only drink water from the kitchen tap because we have a water softener which “contaminates” all the other taps in the house with salt. Also, when I was a little child my mother put me off drinking water from the bathroom tap by telling me it was full of tiny little monsters, too small to be seen by the naked eye, so there’s that too.

ThePoshUns · 25/02/2025 20:05

At home I'd drink from my bathroom tap as I know my taps are clean.
At work though I would rather drink water from the kitchen tap as I wouldn't like to think how dirty the team would be in a unisex toilet.

LivingDeadGirlUK · 25/02/2025 20:04

Poshjock · 25/02/2025 19:47

It entirely depends on where your water comes from. All newer built homes have mains water throughout and plastic pipes, it literally is the same water throughout and potable at every outlet. Old houses would have been built with a water tank where the water was standing and therefore not fit for drinking and cooking. Only the kitchen tap would have been direct to mains. As many older houses have been renovated it is possible that the water tank has been removed so it is important to understand where your water is coming from.

Commercial premises are different in that it is much less common for mains at all outlets and it would be reasonable to assume that the water has come from a tank in toilet areas. Kitchen taps that are mains should be labelled drinking water otherwise potable water via bottled supply or filtered should be provided.

One of the things to bear in mind about tanked water is... how often is the tank inspected? Is it a plastic covered tank? Is it clean and undamaged? It would not be unknown for dead animals to end up in tanks.

Commercial storage tanks are sealed metal boxes though, not like the ones that used to be common in houses, no dust or insects getting in.

Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 25/02/2025 20:04

CoastalCalm · 25/02/2025 19:06

I would drink from bathroom tap at home but not in a public toilet where it could have faeces / urine etc on and unsure how throughly and regularly it is cleaned

Probably more frequently than the taps and sinks in your home. Professional cleaners are very careful not to cross contaminate and use separate cloths and mops.

steff13 · 25/02/2025 20:03

It's the same water. 🤷‍♀️

Do people drink water from the bathroom tap tap
LilacPony · 25/02/2025 20:03

I’m the same and grew up being told to only drink from the kitchen tap, never the bathroom. My DH promises me that the bathroom tap now is no different from the kitchen tap, but I still can’t get my head around it. I believe it may come from many moons ago when the bathroom water came from a tank in the loft, and no you wouldn’t want to drink that water. But now, bathroom water largely is from the mains so it is the same water as your kitchen tap.

Happyher · 25/02/2025 20:01

I regularly drink cold water from the bathroom tap and I’ve worked in places where the only water is from the sinks in the toilets.

LimeLime · 25/02/2025 20:01

Even though I know my bathroom tap is fed from the mains, I am still less than keen to drink from it because at Dad's the bathroom tap is fed from a tank in the loft, and we were on pain of death or worse not to drink from it. It tasted stale anyway, so we didn't.

Ribenaberry12 · 25/02/2025 19:59

I remember being told at school that the bathroom taps were not drinking water and we had to use the drinking fountains and this was because the tanks were on the roof and so dead birds could get in it and it wasn’t safe to drink.

I remember thinking how ick it was to wash my hands in water that dead birds were floating in and why that was okay!

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 25/02/2025 19:57

I do, at home, but I know that the bathroom tap is not fed from the loft tank, it's mains. Our tank just feeds the immersion heater and the bath tap.

I would be reluctant to drink even mains water from a 'public' loo as I don't know how often the taps are cleaned, and it's not outside the realms of possibility that someone has got something gross on the tap that's gradually being washed off as the water runs. Not an issue when you're washing hands with soap but I'd not want to drink it!

I'd also be cautious in case it is coming from a tank rather than direct from the main, both because of potential for germs and also physical contamination from a badly fitting lid. (a la fawlty towers with the pigeon!)

Sunseekingcat · 25/02/2025 19:55

ElfAndSafetyBored · 25/02/2025 19:03

I drink the cold water from my own bathroom (or that of friends/family/hotels etc) but I wouldn’t from the sinks in the toilets at work. I don’t know why.

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