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Why the fuck would you do this to yourself

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mommyfinger · 24/02/2025 20:20

Just why?
She was so pretty

I've attached pics for those who don't want to open the link

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AnotherDayComeMonday · 26/02/2025 00:55

Rainbow1235 · 26/02/2025 00:50

I cannot be arsed to argue with u xenobitch . If u think this is ok then u crack on with your beliefs ! I personally think destroying your body and most importantly your health is Wrong !!!!

Lip fillers, botox, hair extensions, never leaving the house without makeup and a 'routine'...what is the difference?

Rainbow1235 · 26/02/2025 00:54

As I said I’m not prepared to argue . U got your opinion I got mine . !!!!!!

XenoBitch · 26/02/2025 00:52

Rainbow1235 · 26/02/2025 00:50

I cannot be arsed to argue with u xenobitch . If u think this is ok then u crack on with your beliefs ! I personally think destroying your body and most importantly your health is Wrong !!!!

It is not your body and not your health

Rainbow1235 · 26/02/2025 00:50

I cannot be arsed to argue with u xenobitch . If u think this is ok then u crack on with your beliefs ! I personally think destroying your body and most importantly your health is Wrong !!!!

AnotherDayComeMonday · 26/02/2025 00:50

XenoBitch · 26/02/2025 00:24

Depends what you see as scary. I was in the Goth scene for years. I would not see this lady as scary at all.

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It really does depend on the people you know and hang out with. She's a very extreme example but wouldn't be seen as such on the scene, with goths or people who are alternative.
The thread had moved on a lot but actually what a pp said about face fillers, extensions, lip fillers rings true. It's just that this woman isn't doing body mods in that way and isn't acceptable and 'pretty' to their eyes, but what's the difference?

XenoBitch · 26/02/2025 00:45

Rainbow1235 · 26/02/2025 00:42

Because this lady is choosing to mutialte herself she’s not doin it for health reasons she’s doin it because she wants attention. Why on hells earth would u choose to have your nose amputated!!!!!

Do you know her to know she is doing it for attention?

imtheholidayarmadillo · 26/02/2025 00:43

XenoBitch · 26/02/2025 00:38

Well, yes. But people have their nose done because they don't like how it looks, all the time. How is this lady different?

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She isn't, I was simply responding to your statement that she wouldn't be at risk of death if she ended up having it reconstructed. That's not a given.

Rainbow1235 · 26/02/2025 00:42

Because this lady is choosing to mutialte herself she’s not doin it for health reasons she’s doin it because she wants attention. Why on hells earth would u choose to have your nose amputated!!!!!

XenoBitch · 26/02/2025 00:38

imtheholidayarmadillo · 26/02/2025 00:36

All surgery carries a risk, let's not pretend it doesn't.

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Well, yes. But people have their nose done because they don't like how it looks, all the time. How is this lady different?

Rainbow1235 · 26/02/2025 00:36

Thankfully it does not affect me at all but I am allowed a say .

imtheholidayarmadillo · 26/02/2025 00:36

XenoBitch · 26/02/2025 00:26

She had her nose removed. No one died from that, or having it reversed. People have their nose reconstructed all the time. If the time comes that she has to do that, she can. She wont be at risk of death due to it.

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All surgery carries a risk, let's not pretend it doesn't.

XenoBitch · 26/02/2025 00:34

Rainbow1235 · 26/02/2025 00:32

And having her nose removed is a bit different from reconstruction.

How does it affect you?

Rainbow1235 · 26/02/2025 00:32

And having her nose removed is a bit different from reconstruction.

Rainbow1235 · 26/02/2025 00:29

I’m sorry if I offend anyone but this is absolute madness .I have posted on this but the comments where peaple think this is ok !!!! Sorry it’s not ok and it’s not attractive or her eyes look beautiful it’s bloody wrong . Would we let anyone of our family members mutilate and put their health at severe risk no matter what their mental health is !!! I think the answer would be a firm no . I’m not body shaming anyone but this is not nice at all .

LavenderIsland · 26/02/2025 00:26

MrsTerryPratchett · 24/02/2025 20:28

Self harm.

Probably from trauma.

Maybe not putting it out there for judgement would be nice.

Agree

XenoBitch · 26/02/2025 00:26

imtheholidayarmadillo · 26/02/2025 00:20

I agree, if only because what she's done is so extreme and irreversible. She's already done some highly dangerous stuff to herself. If she decides on a different look a few years down the line and wants it all reversed... well, she can't. And although I don't know what the ins and outs of that scenario would be, I can't help thinking of the celebs who've died trying to put botched plastic surgery right. I can't see that she could safely reverse any of this if she suddenly decided she hated it. And where will that leave her in terms of her mental health, let alone the damage she's already done to her body?

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She had her nose removed. No one died from that, or having it reversed. People have their nose reconstructed all the time. If the time comes that she has to do that, she can. She wont be at risk of death due to it.

XenoBitch · 26/02/2025 00:24

imtheholidayarmadillo · 26/02/2025 00:22

Oh, come on. As a pp said, you can't possibly be saying Turkey teeth and fillers look as scary as this woman.

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Depends what you see as scary. I was in the Goth scene for years. I would not see this lady as scary at all.

imtheholidayarmadillo · 26/02/2025 00:22

XenoBitch · 25/02/2025 23:08

I think people who have extensive lip and cheek fillers look ridiculous. Combine that with Turkey teeth, and they look scary as hell.

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Oh, come on. As a pp said, you can't possibly be saying Turkey teeth and fillers look as scary as this woman.

imtheholidayarmadillo · 26/02/2025 00:20

fedup1212 · 25/02/2025 23:20

Really @XenoBitch? Of course her face would scare little kids. That's not horrible. That's being realistic.

Sorry but some things just shouldn't be allowed. This being one.

I agree, if only because what she's done is so extreme and irreversible. She's already done some highly dangerous stuff to herself. If she decides on a different look a few years down the line and wants it all reversed... well, she can't. And although I don't know what the ins and outs of that scenario would be, I can't help thinking of the celebs who've died trying to put botched plastic surgery right. I can't see that she could safely reverse any of this if she suddenly decided she hated it. And where will that leave her in terms of her mental health, let alone the damage she's already done to her body?

XenoBitch · 26/02/2025 00:19

fedup1212 · 26/02/2025 00:17

Comparing Bell's palsy which cannot be helped and is a medical condition to this is beyond ridiculous. 🙄

Not really... when you have kids making comments on it.
Teach your kids not to judge. That would be far easier than expecting others to not "be scary".

fedup1212 · 26/02/2025 00:17

Comparing Bell's palsy which cannot be helped and is a medical condition to this is beyond ridiculous. 🙄

BatchCookBabe · 25/02/2025 23:28

mintjim · 25/02/2025 23:24

@XenoBitch I think people who have extensive lip and cheek fillers look ridiculous. Combine that with Turkey teeth, and they look scary as hell.

That is really judgemental after what you've said the whole thread. You've let yourself down there. You're as bad as us Grin

😂

BatchCookBabe · 25/02/2025 23:28

BoudiccaRising · 25/02/2025 23:13

I agree they look slightly ridiculous but they are only exaggerating their natural features. This woman has turned herself into an alien species (an ugly one at that).

If you say you find turkey teeth scarier than tattooed eyes and no nose, then I’m sorry I don’t believe you.

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XenoBitch · 25/02/2025 23:27

mintjim · 25/02/2025 23:24

@XenoBitch I think people who have extensive lip and cheek fillers look ridiculous. Combine that with Turkey teeth, and they look scary as hell.

That is really judgemental after what you've said the whole thread. You've let yourself down there. You're as bad as us Grin

Ha, you got me there.
It is up to them though. I am not a fan of tan, turkey teeth etc. But I am not them. If they are happy, then they are winning. It is not hurting me...but it seems some people on this thread don't want this lady to exist.

mintjim · 25/02/2025 23:24

@XenoBitch I think people who have extensive lip and cheek fillers look ridiculous. Combine that with Turkey teeth, and they look scary as hell.

That is really judgemental after what you've said the whole thread. You've let yourself down there. You're as bad as us Grin