Since the kids weee born 7 years ago my marriage has turned to shit. My H became so selfish and lazy, started working mega long hours and going out whenever he pleased. If I’m honest there is a woman he works with who always goes out with them and I’m convinced something is going on. He says he doesn’t want to be at home because I don’t show him any affection, how can I? I just know when we split he will end up with this other woman and worried things might turn nasty.