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WTF has happened to Facebook?

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DoComeToMeKitty · 24/02/2025 18:36

Well I know Facebook has pretty much had it's day anyway. But lately, my feed is full of the most disgusting, racist hate videos and also videos of dogs apparently on their last day before being put down. It's sick

I keep clicking 'not interested' but it just keeps on coming. Why the hell are those stupid videos on Facebook anyway??? It seems to be completely impossible to get rid of them.

Whenever I report anything, nothing is done about it. Now it appears to have taken over as a propaganda platform for the far right.

AIBU to think if Facebook need to get a grip on this?

I think it needs to he shut down, all be it temporarily until they can get a handle on all the crap.

Not to mention the stupid videos of women cleaning their kitchens! What is the actual point?

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cardibach · 24/02/2025 21:30

I always think anyone having a bad time on Facebook has either a)crap friends or b)crap security settings or c) both

cardibach · 24/02/2025 21:29

spoodlesee · 24/02/2025 21:23

do people still use it?

Obviously.

WTF has happened to Facebook?
cardibach · 24/02/2025 21:27

PassingStranger · 24/02/2025 21:11

Funny, I was going to post about similar today.

It's the reels. I keep hiding them, but they keep coming. I'm.not interested in seeing these reels.

What reels? I don’t see any!

LemonFish · 24/02/2025 21:25

ChanelBoucle · 24/02/2025 19:29

I downloaded all my information and deleted my account permanently over six years ago. I was a big user of it at one point too but started to find it deeply tedious and shouty. My life has been all the better for leaving it.

Edited

I was 5 or 6 years ago as well. I forgot it's up and running still!

spoodlesee · 24/02/2025 21:23

do people still use it?

PlumpHobbit · 24/02/2025 21:22

I keep getting horse related videos even though I have no interest in horses any more, bog off. I click not interested and hide the page in question but still they come

Also various pages starting "dull mens"

Just fuck OFF!

Panterusblackish · 24/02/2025 21:22

So glad you posted this, I wondered if I was getting over sensitive in my old age!

Funnywonder · 24/02/2025 21:20

I get a load of old crap, but nothing nasty or sinister. I honestly wouldn't bother with Facebook at all, but my youngest son has two very challenging illnesses and I'm on support groups for both. They have been absolute lifelines for me. Oh and knitting and crochet groups😁

MyCatNamedCookingFat · 24/02/2025 21:20

I honestly don't get that kind of stuff but the interface is shockingly bad for such a megalith of social media. It just looks old fashioned, very hard to navigate.

I only use it for my groups.

I'd like an alternative but what?

PassingStranger · 24/02/2025 21:18

WingingItSince1973 · 24/02/2025 19:51

I'm not seeing any of this stuff. My feed is mainly homes, crafts, art and friends and family. If there's an ad I don't like I just click on the option to not see anymore of those types of ads.

I think we all do, but then they send another reel.

PassingStranger · 24/02/2025 21:12

Funny, I was going to post about similar today.

It's the reels. I keep hiding them, but they keep coming. I'm.not interested in seeing these reels.

PassingStranger · 24/02/2025 21:11

Funny, I was going to post about similar today.

It's the reels. I keep hiding them, but they keep coming. I'm.not interested in seeing these reels.

lljkk · 24/02/2025 21:03

I like my My FBk feed a lot. There are useless ads but there's more good than annoying content. You do have to actively curate.

Thisshirtisonfire · 24/02/2025 20:56

Erm I'm on Facebook and I've never seen a single one of those things.. and I use Facebook a lot.
I get videos of cute babies, flowers, feminist topics and comedy.
Your algorithm sounds messed up.. have you unwittingly liked a post or joined a group that is in someway affiliated with the far right?

anothernameanotherplanet · 24/02/2025 20:54

I'm getting a lot of holiday ads - mainly to the USA. I'm not going on holiday, haven't looked up holidays on any interwar sites.

About 1/2 - 1/3 are filled with comments along the lines of 'not for the next 4 years.'

BlumminFreezin · 24/02/2025 20:53

The algorithm shows you what it thinks you want to see. There is something in your viewing history, either on FB or more widely on the web, which causes it to show you this content

This.

I made the mistake of letting ds3 watch some Family YT stuff on my phone a couple of weeks ago...A for Adley, Ninja Kids etc.

Now I'm being absolutely bombarded with fucking awful, cringey family vloggers on FB.

WorkingHarder · 24/02/2025 20:51

I don't look any more. All my oldest friends are on there and a lot of my friends from my old job, but the horrible videos and images are too awful to look at. I just don't go to the site any more.

JimandPam · 24/02/2025 20:50

I started a thread about this the other day.

It is not a nice place now. On the recommendation of others on this thread I opened a Blue Sky account and it is a much nicer place

The more and more racist comments are being allowed to stand on FB http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/amiibeingunreasonable/5277814-the-more-and-more-racist-comments-are-being-allowed-to-stand-on-fb

lifeonmars100 · 24/02/2025 20:48

Davros · 24/02/2025 19:56

I don't have a problem 🤞 I don't post much, very rarely. I don't know if that makes a difference

I hardly ever post and never put up images and have yet to see any far right garbage but that said, I hardly ever log on so maybe they target people who use it a lot. Closed my Twitter account as it had become totally vile as opposed to quite vile and no way do I want to be in any way associated with anything that Musk is up to. I do like Instagram and Bluesky.

LennBob · 24/02/2025 20:43

What is it with cats on these websites, a few people on this threads have mentioned cats. I have also seen pictures of cats sometimes on here.

Bunny44 · 24/02/2025 20:40

I've not noticed this on mine... It might be what people you're connected with are watching... I tend to find that has an effect. I.e. I get loads of French videos since I'm connected with French people who presumably watch or like them.

VirginiaCreepers · 24/02/2025 20:36

Just gone on to look at my feed - restaurants, cookery, cats, theatre shows and books. Not seeing anything offensive except for an ad for the Daily Mail,

It is extremely clogged up with ads though- much worse than it used to be. As PP said, I think friends have stopped posting stuff so there is not much 'real' content. I'm using it for some community stuff and sales sites but it will become increasingly less relevant.

RawBloomers · 24/02/2025 20:32

I don't get disgusting content, but I get very little I'm at all interested in (and clicking not interested does SFA to change the content). And then news from friends and families turns up days or even weeks after it's been posted. It's not a social network for me anymore, just an advertising feed.

user1471550643 · 24/02/2025 20:30

I don’t have this problem but I have got the privacy locked down both on who can send friend requests, view my profile and see my posts, so I’m not sure if that helps

theresnolimits · 24/02/2025 20:30

I’m shocked. I never get hate speech or disturbing stuff. It’s all a bit dull to be fair. The odd post from friends, reminder pix and local news. I never post anything controversial or political or interact with posts like that. I’m just dull I think.