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WTF has happened to Facebook?

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DoComeToMeKitty · 24/02/2025 18:36

Well I know Facebook has pretty much had it's day anyway. But lately, my feed is full of the most disgusting, racist hate videos and also videos of dogs apparently on their last day before being put down. It's sick

I keep clicking 'not interested' but it just keeps on coming. Why the hell are those stupid videos on Facebook anyway??? It seems to be completely impossible to get rid of them.

Whenever I report anything, nothing is done about it. Now it appears to have taken over as a propaganda platform for the far right.

AIBU to think if Facebook need to get a grip on this?

I think it needs to he shut down, all be it temporarily until they can get a handle on all the crap.

Not to mention the stupid videos of women cleaning their kitchens! What is the actual point?

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biscuitsandbooks · 25/02/2025 08:26

My Facebook is the same as ever - I use it daily to run my business and keep in touch with friends and family.

I do get ads in my feed but they're mainly posts about cats, dogs, horses, photography and cruise ships!

Never seen anything about Russia or Putin, but then I never click on anything to do with that or read about it either. If your browsing habits show you're interested in that kind of thing then that's what Facebook will show you.

RatedDoingMagic · 25/02/2025 08:22

CurlyhairedAssassin · 25/02/2025 00:07

Or literally just don't search for anything just for something to pass the time. Only search for stuff if you really need to find it.

If you don't search for anything you will still get a stream of reels but it won't be influenced by things you actually like, and you are mpre likely to get negative things.

if you are not payimg you are not the customer

Facebook is free to use and you pay for it by having you attention drawn to "content" chosen by algorithm. You can't just "not have" that aspect - your attention is the product that they are selling. All you can do is influence the algorithm's choices.

lljkk · 25/02/2025 07:49

23yo DD considers anyone age 40+ to be a boomer (nb: that includes many millenials who I believe actually coined the word boomer). Poetic justice imho.

Just now, 1st 10 posts in my feed are

  1. 58yo cousin about politics
  2. ad for product I just purchased from same seller
  3. moan in hobby group
  4. 54yo friend about life lessons (spiritual)
5... aunt about politics 6...ad i can tolerate for hobby I have 7.... old family friend about politics 8... Family news from cousin born in '64: cute kiddies !, best post of the morning 9... random suggested group ad (politics) 10 ... Resistance account that was moribund until Jan 20th, news & updates

The political views I can tolerate or agree with.

B1indEye · 25/02/2025 06:51

spoodlesee · 24/02/2025 21:58

Ridiculous comment, of course they do.

It was a question? I don't use it anymore nor do my friends & the youngsters I know don't either.

But you didn't really think that Facebook wasn't a thing anymore because you and your friends don't use it did you?

Asking that on a thread where posters are describing their user experience comes across as a little sneery. Maybe you didn't mean it that way but you must be able to see it's a daft thing to ask

LennBob · 25/02/2025 06:49

Do adblockers not work, sometimes you have to try a few different ones.

LennBob · 25/02/2025 06:43

I don't use WhatsApp either as you have to agree to share with FB, I used to WhatsApp in the old days when it started

LaineyCee · 25/02/2025 00:33

If you’re 55+, Reform-curious and enjoy memes about days gone by when ‘we was poor but happy,’ then it’s for you.

If not, and you like photos go with Instagram. If you prefer video and have a limited attention span, there’s TikTok.

And if you enjoy shouting into the void, X or Bluesky could be for you.

Britneyfan · 25/02/2025 00:28

I did read that any interaction with stuff on there including to say you dislike it or want to see less of it, or any pausing to read something out of sheer shock/horror or whatever is taken as positive engagement and will end up showing you more of the same. So like a pp said just stop interacting altogether or even pausing to read the stuff you don’t want to see. And interact more with stuff you do want to see.

Britneyfan · 25/02/2025 00:27

I honestly haven’t noticed any huge difference in Facebook recently? Except that I do think some things are more likely to be shown to me because a friend has interacted with it these days. So maybe get rid of any racist friends 🤣 I don’t see any of that stuff? If there is anything political on there it’s mildly left wing, and basically right in line with my general political leanings.

Currently my feed shows me mostly posts from close friends and family, Facebook groups I am in and interact with a lot, adverts for books or local events I might be interested in (often they are right!) and reels from comedians or about ballet/dance generally, gymnastics, singing/music, crafting, travel, dogs, little kids being cute, TV shows or actors/comedians I like and other random stuff I aimlessly click on out of vague interest on Facebook 🤣

XenoBitch · 25/02/2025 00:26

I am more annoyed I don't see much of my friend's posts... it is seems to be mostly ads and sponsored stuff.

I also don't see what is "sick" about someone posting videos of their dog during their last day before being PTS. I think it is rather sweet.

JHound · 25/02/2025 00:25

DoComeToMeKitty · 24/02/2025 18:36

Well I know Facebook has pretty much had it's day anyway. But lately, my feed is full of the most disgusting, racist hate videos and also videos of dogs apparently on their last day before being put down. It's sick

I keep clicking 'not interested' but it just keeps on coming. Why the hell are those stupid videos on Facebook anyway??? It seems to be completely impossible to get rid of them.

Whenever I report anything, nothing is done about it. Now it appears to have taken over as a propaganda platform for the far right.

AIBU to think if Facebook need to get a grip on this?

I think it needs to he shut down, all be it temporarily until they can get a handle on all the crap.

Not to mention the stupid videos of women cleaning their kitchens! What is the actual point?

Yep. I rarely go on it now. I want the old Facebook where all I saw was stuff from friends and family.

It’s fast becoming a cesspit. They should have an option to not see ads and things for people you don’t follow.

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 25/02/2025 00:22

AnneLovesGilbert · 24/02/2025 19:46

I can’t relate to this at all. I get sewing videos, stuff relating to my work, parenting stuff. It’s gentle, relevant, interesting and completely inoffensive.

Similar - community info, things relating to hobbies or such that I've previously shown an interest in.

Nothing unpleasant.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 25/02/2025 00:17

NPET · 25/02/2025 00:13

I haven't had those but what I get every day now are sexist cartoons. I keep trying to get rid of them but they return from a supposedly "different" person. It's like msgs or emails from a creep who keeps changing his email addy to get round you blocking him.

don't even engage with the "see less of these" options. Literally just ignore them, don't click on anything within them, don't read any of the comments or click on any of the posters' names. Even just by trying to persistently get rid of them, you are still engaging with it.

Funnywonder · 25/02/2025 00:14

JuvenileGull · 24/02/2025 22:04

Only boomers use Facebook now

Well this Gen X'er has a sick child and finds the relevant Facebook groups a source of great support in what is a truly dire situation. But yeah, go ahead and make sweeping statements based on fuck all.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 25/02/2025 00:14

NortieTortie · 24/02/2025 22:17

The worst I get are AI animal rescue videos which are always quite funny to watch

Well, you won't find them funny to watch after a week or so, the novelty wears off and by then you'll just be pissed off and irritated by them. But by watching the first few you've invited more and more preposterous things to come to your account. With probably loads of rage bait comments with them, with plenty of fake posts expressing shock or surprise or delight and disbelief at the content, then another load of tiresome posts by gullible people wasting 20 minutes of their lives explaining that it's not real, it's just AI, blah blah. Not realising that by engaging with it AT ALL they're just going to get more of the same themselves.

Just look at your friends' photos of their nights out and you'll be reet.

NPET · 25/02/2025 00:13

I haven't had those but what I get every day now are sexist cartoons. I keep trying to get rid of them but they return from a supposedly "different" person. It's like msgs or emails from a creep who keeps changing his email addy to get round you blocking him.

DoComeToMeKitty · 25/02/2025 00:12

It does feel like an indoctrination attempt which is really, really worrying.

Why can't they just get rid of the pointless memes and videos. And as for all those young women who use that really annoying, generic Facebook accent who actually have the nerve to try to be authoritative about making a child's packed lunch - just why???🤷‍♀️

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CurlyhairedAssassin · 25/02/2025 00:07

RatedDoingMagic · 24/02/2025 23:21

You can influence your facebook video feed. Just regularly do searches within facebook for keywords related to things you do want to see, and within the search results click "reels" and watch a few videos. You get more of the same for the videos you watch for longest and which you click on. My facebook video feed is full of kittens and bunnies, mother cats who have adopted chicks as kittens and mother hens who have adopted kittens as chicks, people who are teaching their rats, hamsters and guineapigs to do obstacle courses, people doing interesting wood-turning and pottery projects, lesbian comedians, and occasional gripes/complaints or demonstrations from people with disabilities about the inadequacy of provision of reasonable adjustments for their additinal needs in various public places. If you are getting unpleasant stuff stop looking at it and search for something nicer.

Or literally just don't search for anything just for something to pass the time. Only search for stuff if you really need to find it.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 25/02/2025 00:05

I don't understand why some of you are getting that stuff. I don't click on ANYTHING that is a suggested post. I don't click on shared posts from FB friends that are not from a source I already know and/or follow myself. My mum is guilty of sharing absolute shit sometimes, you know - urban myth warning stuff, and when I asked her where she got it from she said that her friend Liz's daughter got sent it by someone who worked in a hospital "they were warned by their IT people so it MUST be a genuine virus warning". She doesn't get it, no matter how many times I've told her to be careful not to just press "share post" without thinking cos there's so much utterly wrong and idiotic stuff shared around.

I AM a member of a few groups like gardening groups or interior design. I take all their posts with a pinch of salt, stay out of any arguments,and don't join new groups based on the ones I've chosen to follow myself. My privacy is locked down. I don't follow any political stuff. All on purpose.

I regularly look on FB to see what's been happening in my friends' lives, I like seeing them posting pics of their kids growing up, or a few from their holidays. Just like FB was originally. It's easy to pick out the original stuff like that from the shared copy and pasted shit if you just think about the effect of each click you do.

suburberphobe · 25/02/2025 00:03

I don't have this on FB at all. thank fuck

Tortielady · 25/02/2025 00:01

A couple of weeks ago, I flooded my feed with items about books, cats, other animals, owls, other birds, environment, cheese, other food, Jewish interests, other religious interests, music, cartoons, property, gardening, art, pretty teapots, cute babies, and anything else that's nice and interesting and will hold back the racists, the cynics, the trolls and anyone else who peddles conspiracy theories, misogyny and other forms of filthy politics. I top up regularly with anything else I see that looks good and I'll keep doing it for as long as it works.

FutureFakingFucker · 24/02/2025 23:36

Blue Sky is loads better from what someone told me. Not owned by powerful billionaires.

Ginnyaletranger78 · 24/02/2025 23:35

Hattieandcake · 24/02/2025 19:33

It’s awful, I deleted it when it stopped being only
For people who were at university but had to make a basic account for one of my sons activities where they only post on there to notify about stuff !!??? I have no friends on there or activity other than this one group but still see a load of chavy crap. It’s so weird it needs deleting all together.

Ha ha! Twenty-odd years ago?

FutureFakingFucker · 24/02/2025 23:35

Mines full of gardening, nature, art and small AI generated houses that would never pass building regs but I dream of living in one all by myself anyway.

Maitri108 · 24/02/2025 23:30

They've stopped moderating it as various powerful men are pushing a far right and "free speech" agenda. People are being indoctrinated.

My Twitter feed did the same. One day I saw loads of lovely posts on books, films and nice stationery and then it was flooded with far right propaganda and violence.