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To think London has become a parody of itself?

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NattyBrickMember · 24/02/2025 08:32

Everything is overpriced, gentrification is out of control, and the chaos somehow feels unbearable and iconic at the same time. AIBU to think London has become a caricature of what it used to be - like a city pretending to be itself for tourists and TikTok?

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bostonchamps · 24/02/2025 09:57

Looking out of my very central window and I can't see one piece of chaos...which is a shame because I could use some excitement.

Peaceandquietandacuppa · 24/02/2025 09:57

I have lived in London all my life. I don’t think it’s “pretending to be itself”

I do think the divide between poor and rich is very apparent, although it has always been this way. But you can feel the difference moving between areas sometimes and it feels worse because of the CoL crisis currently. Is this what you’re getting at?

It doesn’t take much to get out of the touristy areas and get to the areas where “real” Londoners go. I wouldn’t really hang out at the Houses of Parliament or Big Ben for example, but I love going to galleries, museums, Kings Cross, East London etc.

Westfacing · 24/02/2025 09:56

bombastix · 24/02/2025 09:16

@peanutbuttertoasty - yes it's the sense of creativity which has been steamed out of it. Lots of music venues and clubs are gone.

I assume it is a cycle and eventually those things do revive, but at present it has lost a distinct edge. It seems very corporate.

Fabric is still going!

According to my 20-something hairdresser Smile

user9876543211 · 24/02/2025 09:56

lentilbake16 · 24/02/2025 09:35

I suppose it's like most of the UK, alright if you are loaded. If you can afford regular holidays, nice things , a superficial and comfortable life.

Why the assumption it's superficial?

FrenchandSaunders · 24/02/2025 09:55

Public transport in London is amazing .... I can't understand anyone slagging that off! Ok, can be a bit grubby but apart from that. Cheap and easy.

Also London is very walkable, things are much nearer than you think, if you're willing/able to walk a bit and you see so much more.

80smonster · 24/02/2025 09:54

NattyBrickMember · 24/02/2025 08:49

Lived in London all my life - 32 years. Maybe it depends on which part of London you’re in, but to me, the changes over the years have been hard to ignore.

Please share for everyone which bit of London, so we may fully understand the context?

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 24/02/2025 09:52

neverknowinglyunreasonable · 24/02/2025 08:45

I live in London and this is 100% what is happening. All London residents meet up once a month to make sure we all understand the plan and are sticking to it. Logistically this is a nightmare as we need a room big enough to hold 8 million people. We usually meet when Coronation Street is on because we know northerners are busy then so they won't notice.

We all then make sure that London, and everyone in it, is pretending to be London. A few people have asked if this is a waste of time as London is in fact London whether we pretend or not. We drive those dissenters to the north (someone just past St Alban's) and leave them there to fend for themselves. I could get in serious trouble for revealing this. Please tell nobody.

😂😂

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EdithBond · 24/02/2025 09:52

friendlycat · 24/02/2025 09:50

Public transport in London is just awesome. It is so connected. There are normally multiple choices of how to get from A to B and it is cheap.

It’s also very pleasant to walk. You can get from place to place via a string of green spaces.

LeticiaMorales · 24/02/2025 09:51

You don't realise how cheap and efficient it is until you try to travel elsewhere!

friendlycat · 24/02/2025 09:50

Catza · 24/02/2025 09:48

It's criminal, isn't it? Always makes me laugh when I hear people complaining about public transport in London. They clearly don't use it anywhere else in the country. They just think they have a much better deal because they swapped pt for a car.

Public transport in London is just awesome. It is so connected. There are normally multiple choices of how to get from A to B and it is cheap.

EdithBond · 24/02/2025 09:49

LaurieFairyCake · 24/02/2025 09:44

I love living in London and the expense of 'doing things' is balanced out by all the FREE stuff to do

I can get a bus anywhere for £1.75. And there are always cheaper places to eat out/get a drink

I've lived here 8 years and I'm nowhere close to running out of free stuff to do as it's always changing

(I've never been to Primrose Hill/notting hill Grin)

Agree, on any week of the year, you can have a wonderful free day out in London for the price of a bus fare (free for kids) and a packed lunch.

Museums, galleries, talks, parks, public spaces with free events, like the Festival Hall.

In many parts of the country the public transport is extremely limited and the only places to go in the winter have a charge or are shopping malls.

Catza · 24/02/2025 09:48

Patterncarmen · 24/02/2025 09:32

Come to Lincolnshire. The nearest bus stop is 3 miles away from me, and the bus runs once an hour. At least now it is only £3…I was paying £9 return to get to work. Thirty miles took 90 minutes on the rural roads.

It's criminal, isn't it? Always makes me laugh when I hear people complaining about public transport in London. They clearly don't use it anywhere else in the country. They just think they have a much better deal because they swapped pt for a car.

Barleysugar86 · 24/02/2025 09:48

lentilbake16 · 24/02/2025 09:35

I suppose it's like most of the UK, alright if you are loaded. If you can afford regular holidays, nice things , a superficial and comfortable life.

With the exception of housing costs, which I think are sort of in line with the inflated salaries, I think London is full of free or low cost things to do if you look for them. We visited the London Wetlands for the first time a couple of weeks ago on free tickets for World Wetlands Day- I've lived here 15 years and it was the first time I'd visited and it was really beautiful. I have a couple of National Trust things in London still to do on their free ticket offers, and on the Heritage open days in September (we used this to tour the Nunhead cemetery last year- fascinating and some stunning gravestones). There is still so much I want to see here. It's pretty cheap to take the kids on the train with me with their free travel- we usually take overgrounds rather than tube- and very cheap if I feel like taking the bus!

LaurieFairyCake · 24/02/2025 09:44

I love living in London and the expense of 'doing things' is balanced out by all the FREE stuff to do

I can get a bus anywhere for £1.75. And there are always cheaper places to eat out/get a drink

I've lived here 8 years and I'm nowhere close to running out of free stuff to do as it's always changing

(I've never been to Primrose Hill/notting hill Grin)

TorroFerney · 24/02/2025 09:43

NattyBrickMember · 24/02/2025 08:47

The general sense of disorder - constant strikes, packed tubes, insane rent prices, gentrification pushing people out while luxury flats stay empty. It feels like London is caught between being an unliveable mess and a glossy Instagram backdrop. Do you not feel it’s changed?

We were there last week, I couldn’t believe how quiet the tube was. I saw no disorder.

Somepeop · 24/02/2025 09:42

I find it cheaper here smack bang in nw than when I visit outside of London, I can’t believe how much bus fares are outside of London.

User746353 · 24/02/2025 09:41

I know what you mean. It's lost some of the genuine glamour and sheen from the 2000s and now everyone seems to be clamouring for fake lifestyles and luxury to post on social media.

A good example would be the NARS pop-up shop that happened on the weekend in Covent Garden. The event was widely publicised on Tiktok beforehand and hyped up by influencers who presumably received free PR goodie bags anyway without having to stand in line.

The actual event was a total shit show with people lining up from 3am and they changed the entrances forcing people who were already there for hours to lose their spot. There was no communication and seemingly just one security guard in charge of hundreds of people. Many ended up standing for 4-6 hours and only received a tiny sample pot, the sort of thing you get from the beauty counter anyway.

The sad part is that judging by the Tiktok videos and first hand accounts, the vast majority of girls standing in line were from more deprived backgrounds who were just desperate for the chance to receive free NARS products which sounded too good to be true. The actual influencers or people who could afford to buy NARS weren't anywhere near the catastrophic pop-up event.

EdithBond · 24/02/2025 09:40

NattyBrickMember · 24/02/2025 08:49

Lived in London all my life - 32 years. Maybe it depends on which part of London you’re in, but to me, the changes over the years have been hard to ignore.

I guess it depends on what you feel it used to be and how far back you want to go.

Only a few decades ago, London was branded ‘inner city’, which meant undesirable. London schools were failing, but then became a success story. Homicide rates were higher.

Victorian London was blighted by poverty. Post WW2 London was a bombsite.

But the cost of homes is a sick joke. And gentrification is rife. Number of examples of working class communities make neighbourhoods buzzing and desirable, then wealthy people move in to get a piece of the action and price them out. Council homes without a right to buy is the solution.

BatchCookBabe · 24/02/2025 09:40

NattyBrickMember · 24/02/2025 08:32

Everything is overpriced, gentrification is out of control, and the chaos somehow feels unbearable and iconic at the same time. AIBU to think London has become a caricature of what it used to be - like a city pretending to be itself for tourists and TikTok?

Fings ain't wot they used to be eh @NattyBrickMember ? 😢

YABU. London is not just Camden Town and The West End ya know!

MerryOliveFinch · 24/02/2025 09:39

It's far from what it used to be, let alone a caricature.

lentilbake16 · 24/02/2025 09:35

I suppose it's like most of the UK, alright if you are loaded. If you can afford regular holidays, nice things , a superficial and comfortable life.

noworklifebalance · 24/02/2025 09:34

Have to say, I love the hustle and bustle and general anonymity you can assume if you wish. I don’t really want to make small talk on my commute.

Weefreetiffany · 24/02/2025 09:34

Agree with the bit about chains. Its seems harder for businesses to start up or for independent shops to thrive. Probably due to the obscene level of rents in the commercial sector and the westfields. The centre isnt what it was and you need money to really thrive in a way you dont in major other european cities. Both rents and house prices are way beyond a normal family, I think time out said its 90k a year minimum, which goes up to £130k plus in the “better” boroughs… better meaning less crowding, more amenities, etc. park access is pretty consistent across boroughs though.

I spend a lot of time in another european capital and average families can live a primrose hill, or posh end of acton standard of life on a dagenham budget because the local govt has laws to make sure housing costs are controlled.

who are the winners in london? People in the streets (making the culture) or the landlords and developers looking to b£n£fit off the next walthamstow or shoreditch and filter money upward. Thats the bit of london I hate with a passion.

Patterncarmen · 24/02/2025 09:34

NattyBrickMember · 24/02/2025 08:32

Everything is overpriced, gentrification is out of control, and the chaos somehow feels unbearable and iconic at the same time. AIBU to think London has become a caricature of what it used to be - like a city pretending to be itself for tourists and TikTok?

I would agree on the overpriced. I go down now and again and stay at a friend’s holiday flat. Even without the lodging costs and cooking your own food, crickey, it is expensive.