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So fed up of stories like this every single year. Stupid bloody Skiing.

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ExcessiveNumberOfNinjas · 23/02/2025 23:00

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14427223/British-schoolboy-14-killed-skiing-accident-northern-Italy.html

This poor lad, only 14 years old, crashes headlong into a tree at speed and dies of chest injuries right in front of his parents.

What's so fucking great about skiing? Every year without fail there are stories like this and I'm sick of them. I know someone who became permanently disabled and slightly brain damaged after a skiing accident in his 20s.

As parents we don't encourage our kids to get into cars and drive them at speed round a race track with very little training every half term in February do we? We don't stick them on the backs of race horses and slap their arses and watch them go over hurdles. We don't encourage them to dive off high cliffs into the sea below and hope that they manage to miss the rocks as they land. So why do we continually let them hurl down mountainsides at god knows how many miles an hour, hoping that they manage not to collide with a tree or hit their heads on a rock?

I don't get it. I never will. However 'fun' it might be it can't possibly be worth the stupid level of risk.

OP posts:
BlueWhippetsForever · 24/02/2025 00:46

*Louisetheroux *
I added it in to show the holiday was about more than just skiing, for those who are incredulous at spending a holiday doing such a DEADLY sport 😅 There were loads of great aspects to it.

And seeing as you brought it up, DC is gcse level and fairly fluent so practised a lot. They did most of the talking as my language skills are sadly lacking in comparison.

Nonrienderien · 24/02/2025 00:46

What a tragedy. I despair of parents who encourage their children to participate in dangerous sports. Sport should definitely be encouraged but leave the dangerous sports to adults who decide to take the risk.

Louisetheroux · 24/02/2025 00:41

BlueWhippetsForever · 24/02/2025 00:30

*Hwi *
I assume that was aimed at me. You so realise that every child at school learns languages, yes? I presume you agree practising a language when given the opportunity to do so is a good thing? Not sure why it's so hilarious that if abroad I'd encourage DC to practice what they're learning at school 😆

I picked up on that in your post too and what's hilarious is that you felt the need to add it in. Especially as the reality is probably that they said merci a few times for their hot chocolate

JoyousGreyOrca · 24/02/2025 00:39

https://scientificorigin.com/top-15-most-dangerous-sports-in-the-world

Often hailed as the most dangerous sport in the world, base jumping involves jumping from a fixed object, such as a building, cliff, or bridge, and deploying a parachute to slow the descent. Unlike traditional skydiving, base jumping happens from significantly lower altitudes, which leaves very little time for the parachute to deploy. This makes it far more dangerous, as any equipment failure or delay can lead to fatal outcomes. The sport’s fatality rate is shockingly high, with an estimated 1 in every 2,300 jumps resulting in death. Even for experienced base jumpers, the risks are considerable, and factors such as strong winds, poor visibility, or technical malfunctions add to the danger. Injuries often include traumatic brain injuries, broken bones, and spinal cord damage from hard landings or collisions with objects.

PickledElectricity · 24/02/2025 00:36

ExcessiveNumberOfNinjas · 23/02/2025 23:27

It's the way people wang on as if it's so bloody marvellous that gets me. It's dangerous and irresponsible and even if statistically you might not have a high chance of dying, I think you have a pretty high chance of getting hurt. I realise life is to be lived and it's not completely risk free. I just don't understand why so many people would actively choose to let their whole family do something that is so high risk. When it goes wrong it's not just a broken arm or ankle, it's brain damage.

I'm sure there's something you do or allow your children to do that could be read as reckless etc.

Lots of people are adrenaline junkies etc.

HotCrossBunplease · 24/02/2025 00:35

SouthLondonMum22 · 24/02/2025 00:34

I've posted above the most common causes per ages of deaths in children.

Cancer is the most common cause of a child aged 10-17.

There is probably a Daily Mail article somewhere that claims that skiing causes cancer!

MrsTerryPratchett · 24/02/2025 00:34

EmeraldShamrock000 · 24/02/2025 00:32

It's extremely dangerous.

'Extremely' is doing a lot of heavy lifting.

We're not all heli-skiing off piste FFS. If you ski within your abilities, being honest about them, and take precautions, you can avoid most injuries. Not all, but then that's true of driving.

SouthLondonMum22 · 24/02/2025 00:34

JoyousGreyOrca · 24/02/2025 00:31

Those accidental deaths are largely very old people.

I've posted above the most common causes per ages of deaths in children.

Cancer is the most common cause of a child aged 10-17.

Pelot · 24/02/2025 00:33

@JoyousGreyOrca children under 5 are one the groups at most risk in their own homes from harm. Deaths of under 5s skiing is vanishingly rare.

BlueWhippetsForever · 24/02/2025 00:33

So much inverse snobbery on this thread! What on earth has money, or class, or whatever else people have a problem with have to do with the OP's question?

Skiing can be pricey. And?

EmeraldShamrock000 · 24/02/2025 00:32

It's extremely dangerous.

WhiteLily1 · 24/02/2025 00:32

OP stop being so bloody ridiculous and scare mongering. To be honest your post smacks of jealous and envy that you can’t afford to go so you sensationalise a very unfortunate accident.
Thousands and thousands of people ski every hour of the day in season. In the area I live most kids go skiing once or twice a year at least, it’s just the done thing. Most schools here offer a ski trip with proper ski instructors on nursery slopes for beginners.
Yes, accidents can and do happen, as with any sporting activity on wheels / fast motion.
If you’ve never been you will never know the thrill and exhilaration.
Ice skating can also lead to injury as can horse riding, driving a car down the motor way at 70mph, swimming in the sea is something that causes many deaths each year in summer sadly.
There are precautions you can take with all these activities to much lessen risks

Pelot · 24/02/2025 00:32

I wish people would learn to read statistics and not use a news article to fulfil some strange narrative. Any sport has risk. Want a kid with a head injury? Sign them up to football or rugby. Or is that acceptable because it's more common? Should we not teach our children to ride bikes? Lots more people die every year riding bikes.

JoyousGreyOrca · 24/02/2025 00:31

Pelot · 23/02/2025 23:36

Over half of all accidental deaths happen at home. It just doesn't make the news when Bob slips getting out of the tub. Skiing at least keeps you in great shape and being up on the mountains in the fresh air is glorious.

Those accidental deaths are largely very old people.

TheFormidableMrsC · 24/02/2025 00:30

I have been skiing many times and have never had nor witnessed an accident fortunately. However, you do get people who behave stupidly, or drink at lunchtime and then feel brave about skiing down the side of a mountain. For me, despite my extensive experience, each trip started with a ski school refresher. You don't drink alcohol during the skiing day. You don't go outside of your comfort zone or abilities, especially not off piste. You stop when you're tired or if the weather takes a turn. It's a fantastic sport if you are careful and properly equipped. Now I'm in my mid 50's with a recurring knee injury (unrelated), I probably won't go skiing again but I have no regrets at the many fun holidays I had.

BlueWhippetsForever · 24/02/2025 00:30

*Hwi *
I assume that was aimed at me. You so realise that every child at school learns languages, yes? I presume you agree practising a language when given the opportunity to do so is a good thing? Not sure why it's so hilarious that if abroad I'd encourage DC to practice what they're learning at school 😆

AubernFable · 24/02/2025 00:29

MsVi · 23/02/2025 23:29

Serious accidents can happen in many sports. Horseriding, water sports, rugby, cycling, rock climbing, diving…. Maybe we should all stay at home in our little boxes and never do anything.

I agree. Reading the post, I was confused because, AFAIK, people do still send their kids go-karting. I was off (unsupervised!) on my pony as a young child and still see little kids about riding on the roads, and I’m sure professional free divers learned sometime.

I understand the sentiment; I’m an anxious person, but as someone raised doing sport, the risks just have to be minimised because there are so many benefits and skills you won’t get from playing at the park or using the iPad.

If you tried to mitigate every single risk to your DC’s safety they’d be a prisoner, unable to cross the road or eat solid foods. Sports are okay, just ensure proper safety guidelines are being followed and when necessary supervised by a professional.

Yoheresthestory · 24/02/2025 00:28

Some very silly people on this thread. Don’t ski then if you’re so sure it’ll lead to certain death or injury. 🤷‍♀️

Just don’t go on any boats abroad, or ride a horse, or get in a vehicle either.

Beenaboutabit · 24/02/2025 00:28

A quick google gives this response to ‘most dangerous sports kids uk’. Skiing doesn’t feature

According to most studies, the most dangerous sport for kids in the UK, as in many other places, is football (soccer), due to its high risk of contact injuries, including concussions, particularly at younger ages; making it the top concern for potential head trauma and musculoskeletal injuries.

Other sports considered relatively high risk for children in the UK include:
Rugby: High contact sport with potential for serious injuries.

Hockey (field or ice): Risk of collisions and stick-related injuries.

Gymnastics: Potential for falls and landing injuries due to complex maneuvers.

Horse riding: Risk of falls and related injuries, especially for young riders.

Cycling: High risk of accidents on roads, especially without proper safety gear.

Yellowhammer09 · 24/02/2025 00:25

But then trying to balance on skis or a snowboard whilst balancing a chip that size may be rather challenging.

Haha! Well said 👏

CautiousLurker01 · 24/02/2025 00:23

AnnaL94 · 24/02/2025 00:19

it seems a sort of aspirational thing to do for wealthy British people

I don’t know any plebs (like me) who have ever been skiing. I didn’t even know ski school trips were a thing until I went to university.

Every state school near me offers ski trips, it’s how my children started. DH and his mates went for a laugh in their early 20s and got the bug. They started on the ski train from London and stayed in Hostels.

The inverted snobbery around what is both a ‘sport’ and, in effect, an essential life skill in snow impacted nations is ludicrous.

But then trying to balance on skis or a snowboard whilst carrying a chip that size may be rather challenging.

Hwi · 24/02/2025 00:23

Louisetheroux · 24/02/2025 00:18

Oh yes, I'm sure the Alps are positively heaving with people on universal credit during half term 🤣

No chip on my shoulder I'm afraid.

Spot on, absolutely. And even here the half-term posts are positively heaving with mentioning dc practising their language skills on the slopes, not only skiing skills!

Hwi · 24/02/2025 00:21

I forgot to mention - Dr Fischer of Geneva. Experienced skier, based on a true story.

MrsSunshine2b · 24/02/2025 00:19

I know a 15 year old who broke her back on a school skiing trip.

Shockingly, she was given a detention after she returned to school for falling asleep in a lesson, due to the heavy duty painkillers she required to even make it to school.

She has more or less dropped out of school now, due to the pain she's in and the lack of understanding shown due to an accident on a trip they organised.

AnnaL94 · 24/02/2025 00:19

Tabbsi · 23/02/2025 23:35

I am Scandinavian and we are taught to ski very young and it’s always been a part of life. I live in the UK now and find it so weird that British people love to ski, it’s not part of their landscape like in Scandinavian countries of parts of France or indeed elsewhere so it’s odd to me, it seems a sort of aspirational thing to do for British people I guess

it seems a sort of aspirational thing to do for wealthy British people

I don’t know any plebs (like me) who have ever been skiing. I didn’t even know ski school trips were a thing until I went to university.