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Should I have paid my cleaner when she was unwell?

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JMSA · 23/02/2025 18:48

I have a cleaner who comes to my flat for 3 hours every fortnight. She's great and I value her. Always pay on time, always have the place tidy for her (as to leave it messy would be disrespectful), always give her a lovely Christmas present, am flexible with her, always realistic in my expectations, etc.
She let me know on the day of the clean that she wouldn't be able to come this week. She wasn't feeling well. Obviously I told her not to worry, to rest up and get well soon. I also messaged her the following day, to check on her (not with a view to the cleaning, purely out of concern!). She didn't reply. I didn't pay her for the missed clean and I'm wondering if she's annoyed at this.
It goes without saying that I would have her over another time, at her convenience and whenever she feels better. But I have to wait until my usual slot a fortnight later, as she doesn't do this. Naturally I have to clean the place myself in that case, as it can't wait another two weeks.
Should I have paid her, or is it part and parcel of being self-employed?

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Moonnstars · 23/02/2025 18:55

I wouldn't unless you have a contract stating this. If she is unwell and cancels she should offer an alternative time if she wants payment for that week. If it was you who was unwell and cancelled then I would pay.

JMSA · 23/02/2025 18:55

Ok, thank you all.

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LIZS · 23/02/2025 18:52

If she wanted paying she would offer another time. She is self employed and that is one of the risks.

eatsleeptutor · 23/02/2025 18:51

Maybe she's still unwell. Maybe she doesn't want to discuss her health with you. Maybe she's busy.

I doubt she expected to be paid and us now annoyed with you. I'm self employed and I don't expected to be paid if I cancel.

Pancakeflipper · 23/02/2025 18:51

If it's not in a contract to pay her then you do not need to pay her.

I don't pay my cleaner when she cancels. I would pay her if I cancelled with less than 24hrs notice.

Adhikv · 23/02/2025 18:50

I don’t pay if she’s unwell; she’s self employed and I don’t pay for anything else if the service isn’t provided

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