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Trans men are women according to Gender Critical Movement

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ThisPinkWyvern · 22/02/2025 02:04

Under Trump's transgender policy, which echoes the ideology of the Gender Critical Movement, trans women are men and trans men are women. This view denies and rejects as worthless and baseless the lived experience of millions of men and women in the US who identify as trans. As a result of having their lived experience of themself ignored and denied by law, millions of trans men as well as trans women are now experiencing deep psychological trauma and living in abject fear and terror in the US. Many are trying to leave the country because they are so terrified.

The almost total silence of the Gender Critical Movement and it's supporters about the effect that it's ideology has had on those hundreds of thousand of women who self identify as men is deafening.It's whole argument about banning trans women from female public toilets and other ' women only spaces' is based on the argument that denying trans women the right to access these spaces is needed to protect the safety of women and girls. Given the fear, terror and trauma that hundreds of thousands of women( trans men) are now experiencing in the US, as a result of the government putting into practise Gender Critical Movement ideology, the sense of safety and well-being of hundreds of thousands of women has been devastated. This makes the infinitesimally small number of cases where women have been or ever would be assaulted by a trans woman in a women only space pale into insignificance by comparison.

In short, the Gender Critical Movement is directly responsible for harming the well being of hundreds of thousands of WOMEN according to it's own ideology.The damage done by implementing it's ideology makes a sickening mockery of it's claim that it's ideology protects the safety of women and girls.

When the number of men( trans women) in the US who are now living in fear and terror in the US is taken into account as well, the Gender Critical Movement and all those who support it are directly responsible for terrorising millions of people. It is impossible to claim that we are supporting women's rights and protecting the safety of women if we support the Gender Critical Movement.

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Surf2Live · 22/02/2025 10:07

Rosie8880 · 22/02/2025 09:37

Thanks for your response. What often is shared when talking about gender is that it is intrinsically linked to biology, and that there are only two biological sexes present in nature, in humans - male & female. That to think otherwise, is unnatural. In nature, biological sex and gender - is not rigid. It can and does change. In humans we also have in biology, intersex - as well as male and female. We have people born with both male and female sex organs. Using this fact, We can see we have at least three genders, based on biology. It’s really challenging to unpick
gender constructs that we have created - it seems to be very upsetting for many and I can understand why. What I find interesting is the rationale based on biology is actually flawed. It isn’t factual. And then what is interesting is where does society go from there - that is the choice of society, something we have choices that connect to values and beliefs. - This is a useful article: www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/gender-identity/sex-gender-identity/whats-intersex

there is not one documented instance of a human with both a functional ovary and a functional testes

intersex is not a third sex, the vast vast majority of intersex people are either female or male

because humans really are a sexually dimorphic species, male and female, defined on the ability of each having developed on a pathway to produce small motile gametes (male) or large immobile gametes (female)

every single human being now and in our evolutionary history has been created from sexual reproduction, the fusing of a sperm and an egg

zero exceptions, ever

there are only two sexes

there is ZERO evidence that any human being ever now or in our evolutionary history has changed from a functional male to female or vice versa

stop with your nonsense

MinnieCauldwell · 22/02/2025 10:06

MakeYourOwnMusicStartYourOwnDance · 22/02/2025 09:46

Where to start with this?
I'm not trans, but it's not hard to imagine the difficulties a trans man (female at birth) may find themselves facing if they had to go into a female bathroom.
1 - no, you can't "always tell." Even if you insist your personal internal radar always can, women can and do get mistaken for men. Trans men are more than likely going to get stopped/harassed if they enter a women's bathroom.
2 - "women don't usually attack other women"
Are you having a laugh?! Not all women are sugar and spice, and secondary school girls toilets springs to mind.... could be horrendous places for bullying, certainly not a "safe space."

Transmen/boys rarely pass....least not the ones I have come accross in real life.

Helleofabore · 22/02/2025 10:06

Rosie8880 · 22/02/2025 09:37

Thanks for your response. What often is shared when talking about gender is that it is intrinsically linked to biology, and that there are only two biological sexes present in nature, in humans - male & female. That to think otherwise, is unnatural. In nature, biological sex and gender - is not rigid. It can and does change. In humans we also have in biology, intersex - as well as male and female. We have people born with both male and female sex organs. Using this fact, We can see we have at least three genders, based on biology. It’s really challenging to unpick
gender constructs that we have created - it seems to be very upsetting for many and I can understand why. What I find interesting is the rationale based on biology is actually flawed. It isn’t factual. And then what is interesting is where does society go from there - that is the choice of society, something we have choices that connect to values and beliefs. - This is a useful article: www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/gender-identity/sex-gender-identity/whats-intersex

'We have people born with both male and female sex organs. Using this fact, We can see we have at least three genders, based on biology. It’s really challenging to unpick'

Again, can I suggest that you read more widely and read the writings of evolutionary or developmental biologists or medical experts in the field of categorising sex.

What you are now doing, whether it is your intention or not, is to leverage a group of people's medical conditions (those who are born with differences of sex development, they are not 'intersex' in medical terms) to support gender identity theory. Every person can be categorised as either male or female through the modern testing techniques.

Even those few hundred that people like to leverage for their political gain.

Do you believe that this is appropriate?

'What I find interesting is the rationale based on biology is actually flawed. It isn’t factual.'

There are only two sexes in humans. Within those two sexes there are a huge range of body variations. And no person can change the sex they were born.

The only commonality that has been found in the group of people who declare that they have transgender identities is their philosophical belief. There is nothing that can be diagnosed using biology for transgender identities.

'And then what is interesting is where does society go from there - that is the choice of society, something we have choices that connect to values and beliefs.'

Why should one group's philosophical beliefs and values be prioritised above the needs of female people based on their very established safety needs and what they need to overcome millennia of negative sexist discrimination and oppression?

'This is a useful article:'

It really isn't. You really need to seek out the information given by developmental biologists, evolutionary biologists and medical doctors.

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 22/02/2025 10:06

Trans men are women
Trans women are men

Gender critical people are telling clear biological facts.

SalfordQuays · 22/02/2025 10:04

MakeYourOwnMusicStartYourOwnDance · 22/02/2025 09:46

Where to start with this?
I'm not trans, but it's not hard to imagine the difficulties a trans man (female at birth) may find themselves facing if they had to go into a female bathroom.
1 - no, you can't "always tell." Even if you insist your personal internal radar always can, women can and do get mistaken for men. Trans men are more than likely going to get stopped/harassed if they enter a women's bathroom.
2 - "women don't usually attack other women"
Are you having a laugh?! Not all women are sugar and spice, and secondary school girls toilets springs to mind.... could be horrendous places for bullying, certainly not a "safe space."

They should be grateful. Surely no one actually wants to use a male toilet, they’re disgusting , urinals stink!

Alucard55 · 22/02/2025 10:01

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 22/02/2025 09:09

Oh don't fall for this. Many trans people are backtracking in this way, trying to maintain access to female facilities for themselves now they see which way the wind is blowing.

I'm as gender critical as anyone but agree that Alexis Blake does make a lot of sense on this issue.

Igneococcus · 22/02/2025 09:59

What fallacious nonsense are they spouting in the plannedparenthood link? My computer won't let me get there because the site can't provide safe access.

SeethingHarpie · 22/02/2025 09:59

Rosie8880 · 22/02/2025 08:43

If someone is experiencing pain, mental agony due to them feeling they are physically the wrong gender - this must be incredibly traumatic. Can you imagine what it must feel like to feel you have the wrong gender, the wrong body? I can’t as I do not feel that way, but what business is it of anyone else to make judgement. All of us have male and female chromosomes, X & Y. Whats interesting is in nature, gender is not rigid - animals/ species change or flip btw genders, changing their gender from birth. Some species have both male and female characteristics and sexual organs. (As do some humans). Some species behave as if they were the opposite sex - the diversity is present in nature. It’s nothing groundbreaking, strange, nor unnatural. We humans have created a rigid concept of binary gender - which isn’t based on facts. I can appreciate this is challenging but look to nature to see the diversity. As a side note, following the fact that diversity is entirely natural, why can’t we allow others to live their lives in ways they want - it isn’t causing any harm. There seems to be some hysteria about men in changing rooms - I can’t recall prior to a few years ago anyone really getting up in arms about this. I struggle with why all of a sudden this issue has become to talked about. It’s strange and has a whiff of scapegoating and finding ways to create “otherness”’ rather than wanting to embrace diversity and live together peacefully, accepting others as they want to be accepted. This is a useful article about diversity in nature. www.snexplores.org/article/explainer-male-female-flexibility-animals

More rubbish. I truly despair at the anti-science rhetoric some people so confidently insist on.

Daisymae23 · 22/02/2025 09:58

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 22/02/2025 09:49

Honestly, with Alexis Blake if I saw her in a woman’s toilet I wouldn’t have a problem at all. Toilets have cubicles. But that is my feelings and it might make someone else uncomfortable and therefore feel third spaces are important.

what I would have a problem with is a biological male in a female changing room. That would make me incredibly uncomfortable abd that’s where I feel the focus should be on.

The problem is that you can't just open up female spaces to the men you feel comfortable with. You allow in the bad guys too. I would go so far as to say that even your pet transwoman is the kind of man who clearly is comfortable violating female boundaries and is not one of the good guys.

And ultimately yes, I agree with you.

i guess my point is that I have appreciated a more respectful discussion from someone who is not quite frankly mansplaining as I feel a lot of the trans activists are.

BodyKeepingScore · 22/02/2025 09:58

Trans men are women. And the kindest thing would have been for the people around them to tell them that they will always be women but that they are free to present in whatever way they choose. The trauma comes from having been fed the lie that the world will perceive them as men when they are clearly not.

There is no "Gender Critical Movement" - there are simply millions of people who, correctly believe, that biological sex trumps identity, that no human can change sex, and that single sex spaces, for both women and men ought to be protected.

Maray1967 · 22/02/2025 09:57

Perhaps the TR movement could do some self-reflection and consider that insisting that women have to share changing rooms with male persons or see them cheat at sport and take their trophies and competition places from them or call their rapist ‘she’ in court might not have been a very sensible way to encourage sympathy for the very small number of genuine trans people?

And no one would have encouraged my sons to think they’re girls without me removing them from that school.

Stepfordian · 22/02/2025 09:55

It’s gaslighting to expect people to use ‘she’ for someone they know is a ‘he’ and vice versa, would really struggle with this and find it humiliating and controlling, if someone’s sense of wellbeing depends on the rest of the world going along with a lie then it’s never going to end well.

Enough4me · 22/02/2025 09:55

More mental health support for dysphoria is clearly needed.
Lying to people, cutting them up and medicating them clearly doesn't work. No trans process has reached it's conclusion. Sex change is not possible. Time to end the experiment.

NotBadConsidering · 22/02/2025 09:53

Planned Parenthood are a child medical transition organisation who frequently sterilise children, so of course they have to post lies and propaganda to prop up their ideological practices.

It’s not likely they’ll have something on their website saying “sex is immutable and cannot change, gender is a social construct subject to variation in children. But despite this, we’re going to inflict irreversible changes on the bodies of children anyway”, is it?

If you’re going to be batshit, may as well go the whole hog.

TheKeatingFive · 22/02/2025 09:53

AlisonDonut · 22/02/2025 09:50

Can I add in 'women with large clitorises are not born with both genitals'.

Honest to goodness do we have to do this all every fucking hour of every fucking day?

Yes exactly

It's absolutely infuriating, yes 🤯

AlisonDonut · 22/02/2025 09:50

TheKeatingFive · 22/02/2025 09:48

Can we instigate a zero tolerance policy for nonsense on this thread.

There are two sexes. No third sex or in between sex exists.

Mammals cannot change sex. Your sex is encoded in every single cell of your body.

DSDs (not 'intersex') exist. They are sex specific and do not counter any of the above information. They have zero to do with the 'trans' debate and that community have asked not to be co-opted into the discussion.

Hope that helps.

Can I add in 'women with large clitorises are not born with both genitals'.

Honest to goodness do we have to do this all every fucking hour of every fucking day?

TheKeatingFive · 22/02/2025 09:49

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 22/02/2025 09:49

Honestly, with Alexis Blake if I saw her in a woman’s toilet I wouldn’t have a problem at all. Toilets have cubicles. But that is my feelings and it might make someone else uncomfortable and therefore feel third spaces are important.

what I would have a problem with is a biological male in a female changing room. That would make me incredibly uncomfortable abd that’s where I feel the focus should be on.

The problem is that you can't just open up female spaces to the men you feel comfortable with. You allow in the bad guys too. I would go so far as to say that even your pet transwoman is the kind of man who clearly is comfortable violating female boundaries and is not one of the good guys.

This

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 22/02/2025 09:49

Honestly, with Alexis Blake if I saw her in a woman’s toilet I wouldn’t have a problem at all. Toilets have cubicles. But that is my feelings and it might make someone else uncomfortable and therefore feel third spaces are important.

what I would have a problem with is a biological male in a female changing room. That would make me incredibly uncomfortable abd that’s where I feel the focus should be on.

The problem is that you can't just open up female spaces to the men you feel comfortable with. You allow in the bad guys too. I would go so far as to say that even your pet transwoman is the kind of man who clearly is comfortable violating female boundaries and is not one of the good guys.

TheKeatingFive · 22/02/2025 09:48

Can we instigate a zero tolerance policy for nonsense on this thread.

There are two sexes. No third sex or in between sex exists.

Mammals cannot change sex. Your sex is encoded in every single cell of your body.

DSDs (not 'intersex') exist. They are sex specific and do not counter any of the above information. They have zero to do with the 'trans' debate and that community have asked not to be co-opted into the discussion.

Hope that helps.

AlisonDonut · 22/02/2025 09:48

Booboobagins · 22/02/2025 09:47

People who transition to a gender other than their birth gender are trans. The rest of us are men and women. That's my first point all this cys crap annoys the f out of me.

But, their sex does not change, their gender changes. If we get the nomenclature right, everything else is easier.

I don't like what Trump is doing in terms of general discrimination, but trans women competing in sport against women is wrong on an absolutely fundamental level, so he has this spot on. Trans people need their own sports categories.

Trans people already have mental health impacts caused because they believe they are the wrong gender. We should, as another poster said support and help them. If they want to transition, that's their choice but they need to realise that not everyone is going to support them. Sexism is rife, and whilst that's not acceptable, trans people need to get in line with women, gay people & a small number of men who suffer sexism!

People cannot 'transition' to another gender as gender doesn't exist. And all of us are just men or women. Get the words right and everything else is crystal clear.

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 22/02/2025 09:47

Apologies rosie

it does say it…..but as others have said you are still only male or female

AlisonDonut · 22/02/2025 09:47

Fimofriend · 22/02/2025 09:34

Really? I have so far seen two surveys saying that suicide rates are higher for those who have transition through surgery than those who doesn't.

It is 'trans down' which means up.

Booboobagins · 22/02/2025 09:47

People who transition to a gender other than their birth gender are trans. The rest of us are men and women. That's my first point all this cys crap annoys the f out of me.

But, their sex does not change, their gender changes. If we get the nomenclature right, everything else is easier.

I don't like what Trump is doing in terms of general discrimination, but trans women competing in sport against women is wrong on an absolutely fundamental level, so he has this spot on. Trans people need their own sports categories.

Trans people already have mental health impacts caused because they believe they are the wrong gender. We should, as another poster said support and help them. If they want to transition, that's their choice but they need to realise that not everyone is going to support them. Sexism is rife, and whilst that's not acceptable, trans people need to get in line with women, gay people & a small number of men who suffer sexism!

WillIEverBeOk · 22/02/2025 09:46

Rosie8880 · 22/02/2025 09:37

Thanks for your response. What often is shared when talking about gender is that it is intrinsically linked to biology, and that there are only two biological sexes present in nature, in humans - male & female. That to think otherwise, is unnatural. In nature, biological sex and gender - is not rigid. It can and does change. In humans we also have in biology, intersex - as well as male and female. We have people born with both male and female sex organs. Using this fact, We can see we have at least three genders, based on biology. It’s really challenging to unpick
gender constructs that we have created - it seems to be very upsetting for many and I can understand why. What I find interesting is the rationale based on biology is actually flawed. It isn’t factual. And then what is interesting is where does society go from there - that is the choice of society, something we have choices that connect to values and beliefs. - This is a useful article: www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/gender-identity/sex-gender-identity/whats-intersex

Intersex people are still either male OR female. They are not in between or a third sex. You seem confused.

Also, intersex people have asked that they not be weaponised in this debate. Please respect their request.

Helleofabore · 22/02/2025 09:46

Fimofriend · 22/02/2025 09:34

Really? I have so far seen two surveys saying that suicide rates are higher for those who have transition through surgery than those who doesn't.

This point has been said for many years now.

There is no credible source of data that shows that medical transition reduces the suicides of those receiving cross sex hormones, puberty blockers and surgeries. Because often the patient realises that these treatments didn’t make them feel better. When they were under the impression that those were the key to feeling better.

Plus the issue is that the vast majority of the people receiving these treatments have underlying comorbid issues causing significantly poor mental health. And those conditions are not being diagnosed and treated.

There has been lots of discussion around some extreme transgender activist views that to treat some comorbid conditions should be considered ‘conversion’ therapy. This discussion is read and taken on by others who then refuse to explore these comorbities and instead insist that they want hormones and surgery. To find out that they needed to deal with those comorbities but have made their physical health now significantly worse.

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