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ivegotthisyeah · 21/02/2025 16:58

I am so mad I could cry!!
Had our work pay reviews this week.
I received and outstanding in my year end review ( very hard to get) and a promotion ( chose to stay at a lower level last year to gain more experience and more chance of decent pay rise this year) so I waited it out go over and above received fantastic feedback and I got the most appalling shitest increase of £900 a year. Wft !! I was gob smacked. Usual bullshit excuses goes on prior year you got double what everyone else got. It's private sector all on different pay so it's all irrelevant that I got double everyone else. My pay is low and I know it is but instead of complaining I've always tried to exceed my goals and work for a pay rise. It's seems they only had out decent pay rises when you leave or have another job waiting in the wings.
I am so mad and fucked off. Team leader said they are halting my promotion to go ahead with it in June as more chance of head office agreeing a pay rise out of pay review window.
I know my team leader is only the messenger but I actually want to laugh in her face at the fucking minimal shit £900 they think is ok.
I don't want to leave as it's flexible and benefits are good but I am so underpaid it's a joke.
I want to send her an email to say how dissatisfied and upset I am but not sure it will help. Do I want until June or voice my annoyance now - advice needed .
Been told this morning ( in confidence by a work friend) another colleague had gone in with another job offer and she got want she wanted but I am just not that kind of person to lie or make up a job offer pathetic aren't I

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Boysnme · 21/02/2025 18:20

ivegotthisyeah · 21/02/2025 17:08

Grand total of 3.92% 🤣🤣🤣

That’s more than my work have done this year.

It sounds like you feel undervalued in your role and that there are better options elsewhere. Have you considered moving company? Often the way to get continual increases is to move jobs every couple of years.

ivegotthisyeah · 21/02/2025 18:19

Wingingit11 · 21/02/2025 18:16

OP what’s your actual role though and what does the promotion involve?
some sensible advise above in terms of keeping above inflation pay award separate as a concept to pay increase arising from promotion anyway

It dealing with larger clients, more expectations , more problem solving solution finding - basically what I am doing now after working this year to achieve these goals within the higher band - hence why I am now ready for this role and title

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Doggymummar · 21/02/2025 18:19

That's actually a good percentage. I got nothing and my partner got 2.5, also on an outstanding end of year review.

anonhop · 21/02/2025 18:16

Explain to your manager that you aren't best pleased with it & ask for confirmation of what salary the promotion comes with in June.

If the promotion has been agreed & it's not that you're applying for it in June, but definitely happening, then just ask what salary it is.

I'd phrase it using job title. So instead of saying 'what will I be paid come June?' I'd say 'what is the salary range for the ~Team Leader~ position?' making it clear that you expect that to be different to the current role you're in (used as example)

ivegotthisyeah · 21/02/2025 18:16

Chonk · 21/02/2025 18:14

OP you're confusing people (me included) by talking about both a performance award and a promotion. Are you saying that when you start the new, more senior role in June, your salary for that role will be only £900 per year higher than your current salary for your current role?

No my new role is on holt until June apparently to give me more chance of a pay rise out of pay review window.
Like someone explained no pot to share out of pay review window
My £900 was for my year end review

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Wingingit11 · 21/02/2025 18:16

OP what’s your actual role though and what does the promotion involve?
some sensible advise above in terms of keeping above inflation pay award separate as a concept to pay increase arising from promotion anyway

Epli · 21/02/2025 18:14

I got more than 4% only once in my 13 year career (and I got 'exceed expectations' rating 8 times). There also used to be no pay reviews if promotion happened the same year. What you got is pretty standard.

As mentioned by others - the greatest leverage in pay/promotion negotiation is an offer from other company, ideally a competitor. It might not seem fair but it's business, and business's goal is not to be fair, but to pay you as little as possible, but at the same time enough to keep you discouraged from changing jobs.

Chonk · 21/02/2025 18:14

OP you're confusing people (me included) by talking about both a performance award and a promotion. Are you saying that when you start the new, more senior role in June, your salary for that role will be only £900 per year higher than your current salary for your current role?

ivegotthisyeah · 21/02/2025 18:11

Radionowhere · 21/02/2025 18:04

What do you do OP? Agree your full time salary is low. An above inflation pay increase is justifiable if pay is low for the job you're doing. In private sector they'll pay what they think they can get away with ime.

I work for a large insurance broker multi national. Huge.
Ashamed to say I have been there 20 yrs - I honestly appreciate all your views and advice it's giving me the courage to look elsewhere. Kids are a bit older now and don't need me as much have a good support network to, but I am a single parent to 3 so perhaps that's why I've stayed security good pension flexibility.
I need to grow up and put my big girls pants on

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PinkFrogss · 21/02/2025 18:11

That works out full time as about £1,125 which isn’t too bad at all.

If you think you should be paid more either negotiate or move companies to a higher paid role.

Companies will always try and get away with paying you as little as they think is possible, but that doesn’t mean you have to just accept it.

Kahless · 21/02/2025 18:11

ivegotthisyeah · 21/02/2025 17:32

Sorry I can imagine it won't come across as clear.
The 3.92% was on current level and year end review.
She then when on to tell me that they have decided in house ( so without head office knowing) that they are halting the promotion and doing it in June as will have more chance of a pay rise out side pay review window.
She also said something along the lines of if we have to make up another job then we will to get you more money.
It's just do I believe then and should I be getting something in writing now for June so it does actually happen.
I wanted 10% or above for a outstanding and promotion in my head

10% Christ, you'd be lucky to get that

Bearbookagainandagain · 21/02/2025 18:11

My best guess is that 3.92% is just above average, although obviously every company is different.

Do you understand how year-end compensation works? There is only 1 pot for everyone, including bonus if you have one and pay rise. Whatever they give you has to be taken away from everyone else, so if everyone has performed well in your team then the only fair way to manage the pot is to give an average pay rise to all. And if one person is more deserving than you this year, despite your glowing review, it will lower your own rate (the same way your high rise last year impacted the rest of your team).

Your manager is right to say that it will be easier to negotiate a higher rise outside of the year-end window, because then it's considered a one-off event that can be negotiated with HR.

isthatmyage · 21/02/2025 18:09

ivegotthisyeah · 21/02/2025 17:09

What for a an outstanding year end review and promotion? Standard

OP I received an outstanding year end rating which are like hens teeth in my company....pay review received today...2% 🙄

Radionowhere · 21/02/2025 18:04

What do you do OP? Agree your full time salary is low. An above inflation pay increase is justifiable if pay is low for the job you're doing. In private sector they'll pay what they think they can get away with ime.

CoffeeCakeAndALattePlease · 21/02/2025 18:03

I think the pay rise and the promotion should be considered completely separately.

In my experience, Pay rises are usually inline with inflation or on a scale etc. Promotions are usually offered with a new salary as it’s a different role. Bonuses are rewards for exceptional work.

I’ve never worked anywhere where the 3 are all jumbled together in a nonsensical way.

last year I got my annual pay rise which was £900. A few months later I got promoted and my new salary was 7k more than my old one. At Xmas I got a £2k bonus. All very clear what was the reason for each.

MsCactus · 21/02/2025 18:00

I think you should look for another role.

I wouldn't make up another offer tho - I knew someone who went in with another job offer, asked for more pay, they said no and he decided to stay.

The company called him in and sacked him that day. They didn't want someone not committed to the job.

He'd already turned down the other offer at that point and was left jobless for over a year. It's always made me think - if you want to use an offer to get a rise, you've got to be prepared to actually leave if they say no.

northernballer · 21/02/2025 18:00

I had the just before Xmas and I was so fucked off. Made worse by the fact my boss offered to take me to lunch to compensate, I mean what the fuck?

Anyway, I looked for a new job and have just handed in my notice, I suggest you do the same. They offered to match it but tbh the motivation to work for them was gone if they were prepared to go back on a promised payrise of 15% and give me 7%!!

AgnesX · 21/02/2025 17:59

All you can do really is vote with your feet. Look at the bigger picture in terms of benefits and career progression before you do anything though. Is anywhere else going to offer any better. Can you wait for a little while?

DoYouReally · 21/02/2025 17:59

In an annual pay review 3.92% isn't bad.

I've never had a annual increment of more than 5%. That's the max my employers does when doing annual increments.

I get my increases by promotion or either requesting an out of course pay review.

I think you need to be clear with them now about your expectations re increase when promoted (I typically ask for about 25% more than I really want) and be prepared to move it you aren't happy.

If you aren't prepared to move, then you have little room to maneuver here.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 21/02/2025 17:58

ivegotthisyeah · 21/02/2025 17:37

No these roles were evaluated last year and more streamlined so we were all given new titles with no money involved. Hence why I choose a lower one as knew I was nearly there with higher role

In that case there's no point at all in "wanting an email from my head of office saying this is what will happen in June and an amount then I would be willing to wait" because they're very unlikely to do that and commit themselves

They're probably just hoping you'll come to terms with this and carry on with them, so as PPs have said the only answer is to secure an offer elsewhere and negotiate hard

Blushingm · 21/02/2025 17:56

Lucky to get any pay rise - my DP is looking at VS!

changednameagain1234 · 21/02/2025 17:56

Rainingalldayonmyhead · 21/02/2025 17:39

What you wanted and expected are clearly hugely gapped by reality. Most companies never offer a 10% pay rise. Ever. Bonuses yes, pay rises absolutely not.

Pay rises almost always follow inflation rates and are calculated as such. Last year was 3% so you got above inflation pay rise.

A company won’t pay a huge rise based on performance - that is what your bonus is for. Pay rise =inflation. Performance = bonus.

Im a little surprised you don’t know all this OP and don’t understand how most companies work?

You turned down a promotion that would have paid you more and now they are delaying it by four money and you are angry that they haven’t mitigated the gap in pay to your promotional pay rise.

Your anger is misplaced and unwarranted.

Ffs 🙄. So what if op doesn’t get a bonus?

Smokesandeats · 21/02/2025 17:52

If you want a decent pay rise you have to look for another job. It’s always been this way.

Rockingroll · 21/02/2025 17:51

If you want more money you need to leave. Lay roses come by jumping ship regularly.

I went back to work 3 years ago on 43k, got a raise to 45k left to go to £52k and got a promotion to £60k. Next move is to about £70k and I will aim to start applying for those roles externally next year. Internally they’ll fob me off for the next 3 years regardless of how I perform

Littlebrownfreckle · 21/02/2025 17:50

”I don't want to leave as it's flexible and benefits are good”

there you have it. Your overall package is making the job worth it for you and you don’t want to leave. If you can’t find better elsewhere including the benefits or flexibility etc etc then it means you’re being compensated market rate for your work.

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