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ivegotthisyeah · 21/02/2025 16:58

I am so mad I could cry!!
Had our work pay reviews this week.
I received and outstanding in my year end review ( very hard to get) and a promotion ( chose to stay at a lower level last year to gain more experience and more chance of decent pay rise this year) so I waited it out go over and above received fantastic feedback and I got the most appalling shitest increase of £900 a year. Wft !! I was gob smacked. Usual bullshit excuses goes on prior year you got double what everyone else got. It's private sector all on different pay so it's all irrelevant that I got double everyone else. My pay is low and I know it is but instead of complaining I've always tried to exceed my goals and work for a pay rise. It's seems they only had out decent pay rises when you leave or have another job waiting in the wings.
I am so mad and fucked off. Team leader said they are halting my promotion to go ahead with it in June as more chance of head office agreeing a pay rise out of pay review window.
I know my team leader is only the messenger but I actually want to laugh in her face at the fucking minimal shit £900 they think is ok.
I don't want to leave as it's flexible and benefits are good but I am so underpaid it's a joke.
I want to send her an email to say how dissatisfied and upset I am but not sure it will help. Do I want until June or voice my annoyance now - advice needed .
Been told this morning ( in confidence by a work friend) another colleague had gone in with another job offer and she got want she wanted but I am just not that kind of person to lie or make up a job offer pathetic aren't I

OP posts:
EarthSight · 21/02/2025 20:40

fiorentina · 21/02/2025 17:11

They’ve given you only an inflation based pay rise, I’d lay out your expectations for your promoted pay rise. Research similar roles elsewhere so you’re fully up to speed.

Often the only way to get any decent pay rise is to change companies. You will have to weigh up the flexible benefits you currently get with a better paid role elsewhere that may or may not offer that flexibility.

My last 'rise' doesn't even cover inflation. They were saying it's budget related but are still hiring new people :(

Bambiisasillybilly · 21/02/2025 20:39

ivegotthisyeah · 21/02/2025 17:09

I have a vagina and work part time so that obviously outs me on a back burner

As a woman you have to be ruthless in the corporate world. It sounds like you've given up.

ThreeMagicNumber · 21/02/2025 20:32

Posyrosytoasty · 21/02/2025 18:27

I Work for the council. We are getting 1 percent ! They have scrapped performance related pay for a new system which means apart from a 1 percent rise each year - we don’t get a pay rise for 3 years ! Then we will get 1.5k.
Im on 28k! So will get 280 pounds !!!! My council tax has gone up double that .

That's absolutely shit, I work for the council, we have had over 3.2% the last two years and got it in November backdated to April. Does your union not fight for more? We also go up and increment in our pay scale every 6 months till you are at the top. Then I just start applying for jobs in the next level up.

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 21/02/2025 20:31

@Mynewnameis That's fairly standard unfortunately. Unless you move (see below )

@ivegotthisyeah even the national minimum wage is rising by 6.7% so that is actually going to be a drop in real terms!!!

MikeRafone · 21/02/2025 20:30

Bet you that when you hand over your resignation- they’ll offer you a pay rise. It’s cheaper for them to retain by offering you less than the cost of recruitment and training. If they do this though it shows they are reactionary and not proactive as a conpany

MikeRafone · 21/02/2025 20:27

https://www.statista.com/statistics/1272447/uk-wage-growth-vs-inflation/

wages are out preforming inflation presently, which frankly they need to do to catch up.

blueshoes · 21/02/2025 20:22

PoltergeistsStartLowKey · 21/02/2025 19:50

Agree. Years ago I started a job at 11k (high end of going rate then) and was being trained by a bloke that had been there 7 years and was earning 8k.

They had to match what I was on to get me but he had fallen back and back.

I bet he's still there and on 9.5k :(

Is this in 1970?

BrendaSmall · 21/02/2025 20:22

ivegotthisyeah · 21/02/2025 18:28

That was my first thought £900 won't even cover my council tax increase and other bill that has gone up ffs 🤦🏽‍♀️
Greedy private companies

You’re not alone!
Thats the average pay rise for a majority of people
if you don’t like it you’re free to go and work elsewhere!!

Carrotsandgrapes · 21/02/2025 20:19

I think 3-4% is about right for an annual pay increase in private sector at the moment. It's what I got.

As others have said, the only way to increase your salary is to go to a different company. The biggest annual pay rise I've got in a company is maybe 5%. The smallest pay rise I've got moving companies is 20% and the biggest was several times that.

Sometimes it makes sense to stay where you are, esp if you need flexibility. But then you're essentially "buying" flexibility by accepting lower pay.

Definitely make your case for promotion and a bigger bump in June. But I would then taken that higher salary and use it to bump up any offers you get when your move company!

SneakyLilNameChange · 21/02/2025 20:13

Vote with your feet and leave. Unless you’re in the arse end of nowhere I’m sorry but that’s a dreadful salary considering you’ve been there for 20 years I wouldn’t accept that. If you can earn £41k elsewhere hot foot is there immediately! Most companies are ok with flexibility etc and if your kids are older that’s not as important. I’m a nurse been qualified 12 years and on double your salary which is ridiculous- you deserve more!!!!

ivegotthisyeah · 21/02/2025 20:00

justasking111 · 21/02/2025 19:59

There were three in our department. One left, never replaced. The two left to pick up the slack. We each got a 2% pay rise.

See that does make me mad, they have saved a salary and the other two get 2%?!

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justasking111 · 21/02/2025 19:59

There were three in our department. One left, never replaced. The two left to pick up the slack. We each got a 2% pay rise.

justasking111 · 21/02/2025 19:57

Magnastorm · 21/02/2025 17:11

The reality of things usually is that if you want a really decent payrise you need to change jobs.

This is true. You do have to move.

PoltergeistsStartLowKey · 21/02/2025 19:50

anothermnuser123 · 21/02/2025 19:38

Honestly what ive observed a lot over the years, those who stick in a company for a long time often end up the poorest paid. There are exceptions to this, but I think when they bring people in from outside they pay market rate, but those who are there already get essentially a share of the pot available and if they can get away with little or nothing, they will.

From experience the ways to get a payrise are make yourself invaluable in a way no one else could easily do the role, find another job and then see if they are willing to match the offer or ask and hope they value you.

You could either look for like for like roles, see what the market rate is and show them that. Or you could apply for some of those roles and either find something new you love or get an offer to use to negotiate with.

I will say that more and more jobs have a level of flexibility these days so it doesn't hurt to see what is available in your sector, you may find something more suitable.

Agree. Years ago I started a job at 11k (high end of going rate then) and was being trained by a bloke that had been there 7 years and was earning 8k.

They had to match what I was on to get me but he had fallen back and back.

I bet he's still there and on 9.5k :(

CautiousLurker01 · 21/02/2025 19:47

In your shoes, I’d hold out until the promotion so that I can put it on my CV and then start applying for new jobs. Or apply to train as a train driver… they seem to be doing fine in the pay and pay rise stakes.

RH1234 · 21/02/2025 19:43

Reality is, with national insurance increases, a pay rise is a pay rise this year.

A firm I consult for, payroll has increased by just shy of £1m courtesy of the national insurance rises. To point out they are a charity and do not make profit of the services they provide.

anothermnuser123 · 21/02/2025 19:38

Honestly what ive observed a lot over the years, those who stick in a company for a long time often end up the poorest paid. There are exceptions to this, but I think when they bring people in from outside they pay market rate, but those who are there already get essentially a share of the pot available and if they can get away with little or nothing, they will.

From experience the ways to get a payrise are make yourself invaluable in a way no one else could easily do the role, find another job and then see if they are willing to match the offer or ask and hope they value you.

You could either look for like for like roles, see what the market rate is and show them that. Or you could apply for some of those roles and either find something new you love or get an offer to use to negotiate with.

I will say that more and more jobs have a level of flexibility these days so it doesn't hurt to see what is available in your sector, you may find something more suitable.

Rainingalldayonmyhead · 21/02/2025 19:36

changednameagain1234 · 21/02/2025 17:56

Ffs 🙄. So what if op doesn’t get a bonus?

You might not like it but that’s the way most big businesses work. Don’t shoot the messenger.

She said her company was private and most give a bonus unless the company is underperforming where in which case 10% pay rises wouldn’t be realistic either.

GnomeDePlume · 21/02/2025 19:36

I stayed with my previous employer. Always told there would be 'jam tomorrow'. The jam never came.

Then one day I applied for another job. Salary 50% increase on my then current salary plus much higher employer pension contributions. All for essentially the same job.

Told my employer. They were shocked. I was part of the furniture. I was asked 'Why?'. 'A lot more money' was my answer.

I stayed with my previous employer far too long.

user1471538283 · 21/02/2025 19:27

I've worked like a dog for years and I was so precious about my review ratings. None of it matters. Employers reward who they want to reward. Your award is insulting.

If I were you I'd get another job and see if they then match that salary.

BountifulPantry · 21/02/2025 19:24

Foot off the gas. Do the absolute bare minimum not to get sacked.

Look for another job.

ButIToldYouSoooo · 21/02/2025 19:23

Unfortunately, job hopping is the only way to get the pay rises most are seeking these days. Most employers gamble that employees won't take the risk of moving to get the pay rises because most can't be arsed to go through the hoops of searching, interviewing, starting over. OP, you're an example of that phenomenon... you don't want to move, your employer knows that, so you got the minimum rise....

ValentineValentineV · 21/02/2025 19:17

TBH it sounds like an average pay rise for an average job.

GoldenLegend · 21/02/2025 19:14

Hah. I had an employer who switched us to performance related pay and it turned out this was a euphemism for low pay rises. Think 1-2%. Any of us would have been delighted with what you got, and those who queried it were told to look elsewhere if they thought they could get better.

blueshoes · 21/02/2025 19:12

My experience is that once you are out there in the market preparing and psyching yourself up for interviews and researching the new employer, something in you dies about your current job. From being likewarm, you suddenly desperately want the new job and a change of scene.

Therefore, once you get the offer, just resign. No point playing games like stalking horse offers. I doubt you would be interested in any buy back by your current employer because your heart would have moved on by then.

Go out there and get a fair pay for your toil. Employers exploit your inertia and take you for granted especially part timers.

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