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Are you wary of travelling to USA currently?

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RosaMoline · 21/02/2025 14:42

I am sure you will tell me I’m BU, but that’s fine!
I’ve been to the states numerous times - Florida (all over, not just Disney/Orlando), New York City, California (los Angeles), Massachusetts and New Orleans.
Myself and 2 adult DCs were planning to go to Orlando again this October. Primarily for Halloween and DS (28) is autistic & very fixated with all things Disney.
DD (30) and I decided not to go ahead and take DS to Disneyland Paris instead. Yes, we’ve been there before, and it doesn’t really compare to the US version (IMO) not even close, but DS won’t mind.
it’s solely down to the current POS in charge and all his minions. America seems (to me) to be on a knife edge, very volatile, and DD being LGBT is understandably unsettled too.
I am not the sort of person who usually would even give a moment’s thought to something like this, but I just have a really uneasy feeling about going there. Chances are, at age 58, I may never go again.
AIBU or would you be thinking twice at the moment about travelling there? (especially Florida which is a red state)
I detest that man SO much!

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Rainingalldayonmyhead · 21/02/2025 17:43

Would I be weary? No.

Would I ever want to travel there again? Hell no.

So many other wonderful places in the world to visit without supporting their tourism economy.

You would be hard pressed to think of many things (except specific monuments like the Statue of Liberty for example) that you couldn’t find elsewhere.

Why on earth would you go there.

RaspberryRipple2 · 21/02/2025 17:42

We are going back soon, no concerns really (I am very anti-fascist btw), don’t expect anything to change in Florida which has always been conservative / random roadside anti abortion signs etc. don’t see how this affects a holiday?

There’s no more likely to be riots etc there than there is here (or in Paris for that matter). The US is extremely multicultural, much more so than here, no one is going to bat an eyelid at other races etc in Orlando.

I’d never cancel a holiday and lose my money unless the FCO advised against travel and it was therefore covered by insurance. I don’t go on holiday to support the political leanings of a country, usually I don’t have a clue what their politics are and I suspect the vast majority don’t either.

bumblefeline · 21/02/2025 17:42

I'm planning our usual summer two weeks to the USA at the moment and will be going. Hoping the flights come down in price a bit with everyone planning on not going.

PurpleThistle7 · 21/02/2025 17:41

aModernClassic · 21/02/2025 17:29

@Hoppinggreen - I don't know your DD's situation, but if you're referring to her maybe needing an abortion whilst on a two week holiday, I think you have bigger things to worry about.

That’s not the problem. The issue is ‘if’ you happen to be pregnant while in the states (some states) and you start to miscarry and need medical care, they can’t provide it. Women are dying. (And yes, when we go to the states we go for 3 weeks so it’s entirely possible that we’d be there for the entire stretch of time an abortion is a legal option. Many places have a time limit on that option - including 17 states where it’s illegal after 6 weeks pregnant, such as Florida)

I would hope we’d have enough time to fly home if my daughter wanted an abortion but an emergency could happen and I would never forgive myself if I put her in that situation.

RosaMoline · 21/02/2025 17:39

dottiehens · 21/02/2025 17:06

Yea, pls keep it handy. In the meantime may be check how much New York City and California get in revenue from tourists? Do you think that a pathetic little group of idiots trying to boycott by not travelling there would bankrupt the US? Specially as the OP came to said she went last in 2008. Laughable.

Also, does she knows Obama records in selling guns? Or the ramdom attacks happening in France. 🤣

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@dottiehens

if you’d bothered to read my post properly, I said I last went to FLORIDA in 2008.

My last visit was in fact 2018 - New Orleans.

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Parker231 · 21/02/2025 17:39

Ilovelifeverymuch · 21/02/2025 17:26

To be fair I think countries like the UK consume too much news about the US, an unhealthy amount of news about the US.

Yes it's good to get international news but balanced.

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I’m in Canada close to the US border - we are getting a huge amount of Trump news with his threats of making Canada the 51st state and imposing more tariffs. The majority of Canadians have no problem with the US public but we hate Trump. Booing the American national anthem is popular now.

Whereareyourshoes · 21/02/2025 17:34

Have loved our many visits to the USA but no plans to go back while the current administration is in place. Would rather spend my money elsewhere.

BellaCiao23 · 21/02/2025 17:34

I’m not going to America.

foureightnine · 21/02/2025 17:33

Ilovelifeverymuch · 21/02/2025 17:25

No they are not heading to a civil war. The media in the UK need to chill and leave the US alone, too much coverage of the US creating a the anxiety and weird statements that they r heading to a civil war.

It's fine if you don't want to visit, but people are not running around fighting on the streets for politics.

I feel sorry for those in charge of The Hall of Presidents at Magic Kingdom having to prepare for theTrump audio animatronic..

aModernClassic · 21/02/2025 17:29

@Hoppinggreen - I don't know your DD's situation, but if you're referring to her maybe needing an abortion whilst on a two week holiday, I think you have bigger things to worry about.

Dontlletmedownbruce · 21/02/2025 17:29

I'm travelling with kids on holiday there for Easter and it didn't occur to me to not go due to political unrest. We would be extremely unlucky to be at the exact place and time of a riot, which to my mind is the biggest risk. For example the Southport riots made international news, would it be fair to say UK is too dangerous and racist based on this? I don't think so. Cities like Paris have riots quite frequently. There have been random stabbings or murders everywhere, it doesn't make daily life more dangerous unless it's a very dangerous area with ongoing problems.

Ilovelifeverymuch · 21/02/2025 17:27

Talkinpeace · 21/02/2025 17:17

DOGE have sacked lots of Air Traffic control staff.
DOGE have sacked lots of traffic safety staff
DOGE have sacked ALL seasonal workers from the National Park (fire wardens, first aiders, parking attendants etc)
DOGE have sacked as many FEMA staff as they can

and its only February

I'd rather visit a country that values the safety of its citizens
which DOGE does not

Lots of made up statements in your post 😂

NeedthatFridayfeeling · 21/02/2025 17:26

Not worried, we're going in summer to Oregon and Washington for a road trip, can't wait

CryingAtTheDiscotheque · 21/02/2025 17:26

No, will be spending my money elsewhere

Ilovelifeverymuch · 21/02/2025 17:26

Parker231 · 21/02/2025 17:15

Unfortunately many Americans are very insular and don’t follow national or international news.

To be fair I think countries like the UK consume too much news about the US, an unhealthy amount of news about the US.

Yes it's good to get international news but balanced.

JorgyPorgy · 21/02/2025 17:25

Bring back the ‘Trump Baby’ blimp! That was so good! 😅

user9876543211 · 21/02/2025 17:25

I'm American but live abroad. We travel back and forth pretty frequently to see family, in blue states, without fear or worry. I don't like gun culture, but have honestly never seen one other than on a police officer.

That said, if I was a tourist, choosing where to spend my money, I would not be choosing to the spend it in the US right now. I particularly would not be keen to spend it in Florida, whose governor I find repellent.

Disney has also been extremely craven in their dealings with Trump as they've prioritised their business interests over any kind of principles.

Ilovelifeverymuch · 21/02/2025 17:25

RosaMoline · 21/02/2025 14:44

That’s what I’m thinking too.

No they are not heading to a civil war. The media in the UK need to chill and leave the US alone, too much coverage of the US creating a the anxiety and weird statements that they r heading to a civil war.

It's fine if you don't want to visit, but people are not running around fighting on the streets for politics.

Hoppinggreen · 21/02/2025 17:21

aModernClassic · 21/02/2025 17:03

Are you serious, I'm unsure if you're taking the piss or not?

Competely serious

foureightnine · 21/02/2025 17:21

OonaStubbs · 21/02/2025 17:12

I have friends and relatives in America and they aren't worried at all. I don't think the average American really cares about Trump being president.

Even worse then. Living in a bubble.

JoanOgden · 21/02/2025 17:19

I visited the West Coast last year and it was pretty depressing - city centre full of drug addicts wandering around hopelessly and very run down. While hotels and restaurants were very expensive. So I wasn't keen to visit again soon anyway, and the political developments have made me even less so.

Talkinpeace · 21/02/2025 17:17

DOGE have sacked lots of Air Traffic control staff.
DOGE have sacked lots of traffic safety staff
DOGE have sacked ALL seasonal workers from the National Park (fire wardens, first aiders, parking attendants etc)
DOGE have sacked as many FEMA staff as they can

and its only February

I'd rather visit a country that values the safety of its citizens
which DOGE does not

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 21/02/2025 17:16

OonaStubbs · 21/02/2025 17:12

I have friends and relatives in America and they aren't worried at all. I don't think the average American really cares about Trump being president.

I think you're probably right. This is one of the reasons why I won't be supporting the US economy if I can help it.

Parker231 · 21/02/2025 17:15

OonaStubbs · 21/02/2025 17:12

I have friends and relatives in America and they aren't worried at all. I don't think the average American really cares about Trump being president.

Unfortunately many Americans are very insular and don’t follow national or international news.

BalladOfBarryAndFreda · 21/02/2025 17:13

I won't travel to the USA whilst he or any of his ilk are in power. I don't support the regime.

The only* sad thing is the suffering of the livelihoods of people living in the USA who rely on tourist income. Many of those won't support the sitting government either (moderate Reps or Dems) and will still suffer the fallout. Utterly crap.

*"only" in relation to the drop in tourist income. There is a LOT I find utterly soul destroying about the current global political situation