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Are you wary of travelling to USA currently?

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RosaMoline · 21/02/2025 14:42

I am sure you will tell me I’m BU, but that’s fine!
I’ve been to the states numerous times - Florida (all over, not just Disney/Orlando), New York City, California (los Angeles), Massachusetts and New Orleans.
Myself and 2 adult DCs were planning to go to Orlando again this October. Primarily for Halloween and DS (28) is autistic & very fixated with all things Disney.
DD (30) and I decided not to go ahead and take DS to Disneyland Paris instead. Yes, we’ve been there before, and it doesn’t really compare to the US version (IMO) not even close, but DS won’t mind.
it’s solely down to the current POS in charge and all his minions. America seems (to me) to be on a knife edge, very volatile, and DD being LGBT is understandably unsettled too.
I am not the sort of person who usually would even give a moment’s thought to something like this, but I just have a really uneasy feeling about going there. Chances are, at age 58, I may never go again.
AIBU or would you be thinking twice at the moment about travelling there? (especially Florida which is a red state)
I detest that man SO much!

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TheNumberfaker · 22/02/2025 21:58

We are just back from the States and it was fine. We booked the trip months ago when we just assumed that there was no way Trump would get back in. We had a good time but it was way more expensive than we remember.

NoEnemiesManyPatios · 22/02/2025 21:09

Haven't read all (at time of posting) 11 pages, but I hope I'm not the only one frankly terrified by the catastrophic breakdown of infrastructure in that hellhole? More than 8 air traffic incidents since the mango Mussolini took office and his boss fired air traffic controllers, so, any flights at all, especially internal ones? No thanks.

nearlylovemyusername · 22/02/2025 20:40

PurpleThistle7 · 22/02/2025 09:31

How would they ever know if someone was travelling with a same sex partner?

I mean… many ways. Same sex partners hold hands, kiss each other, coparent, book a hotel room with a double bed? That is one of the more odd comments on this thread. Unless you go out of your way to hide it, many random people you come across while living your life will know who your partner is. At the moment, it’s unfortunately a safety issue in far too many places so people are being secretive but that’s a bad thing and not something to encourage.

This is EXACTLY the same as in russia! My LG friends were abused so many times when travelling there! and US are becoming the same... this is terrifying.
I'm most definitely boycotting everything American now, SM and Amazon first of all. Google will be very difficult to avoid unfortunately

thepariscrimefiles · 22/02/2025 18:52

dottiehens · 22/02/2025 12:44

Yes, they are so worried over there about the boycott from the people on benefits in the UK. 🤣

So anyone that thinks that Trump is a danger to democracy must be on benefits? The fact that you think that you're funny is utterly tragic.

TizerorFizz · 22/02/2025 18:08

Well we are going to the USA in May. Too late to back out! We always enjoy the USA but for the first time, we are going to one Democrat state and two Republican states. We had a chat only last night about avoiding politics!

We were in Arizona and Utah in 2016 and a few people asked us what Brits thought about Trump. They then declared themselves to be Democrats. We had pleasant conversations with them and listened to their concerns. This time!! ? Who knows. We are coming up with a phrase to respect their decision. My DH is potentially a loose cannon and we are so angry about the rubbish being spouted about Ukraine and support for Russia.

We might have been unhappy about being a poodle to the USA but now we are literally irrelevant. I guess we don’t have minerals. Nothing for Trump here and he’s not going to listen to anyone in the UK. No idea what happens about our “soft power” now? Can Charles and Camilla save the day?

user17353 · 22/02/2025 17:49

dottiehens · 22/02/2025 12:44

Yes, they are so worried over there about the boycott from the people on benefits in the UK. 🤣

You’ve really shown your true colours there.

FWIW our joint income is £780k. We spend a lot of money when we go.

user9876543211 · 22/02/2025 16:43

RosaMoline · 22/02/2025 13:32

Jesus, you’re pathetic. I wish you wouldn’t pollute these boards with your nonsense.
FWIW, I’m not on benefits, and never have been. No problem with anyone that is though. Why shouldn’t they have a holiday?

I would suggest giving @dottiehens the attention he/she (it?) deserves. Pretty much the same semi-literate ranting on almost every political thread. I always just think this when I see the name pop up

Are you wary of travelling to USA currently?
ForestAtTheSea · 22/02/2025 15:47

proporop · 21/02/2025 15:55

As a protest against the current administration and what is going on, I've cancelled all plans to go there for forseeable.

Canadians are cancelling their hols as well I see - lots of potential lost tourist revenue.

Not to mention the air safety issues - Trump has fired a load more aviation officials - which I understand means commercial flights will be less safe:

www.rollingstone.com/politics/politics-features/trump-musk-faa-firings-purge-air-safety-1235271233/

The problem with the approach of "we didn't fire anyone in a safety critical post" (to the best of Elon's knowledge) is that even if that were true, all the other work for which they fired people still needs to be done, which means those doing safety critical jobs might have to take on extra things.
This then reduces their focus on the critical elements and increases their stress.

It's extremely shortsighted.

TankFlyBossW4lk · 22/02/2025 14:57

Overtheatlantic · 21/02/2025 14:55

For those who believe the US is headed for a civil war May I ask why you believe that? Not just a feeling but actual facts that lead you to reach that belief. Many thanks.

There's massive wealth inequality in America. This is a fact. Historically, wealth tends to be redistributed by wars or plague or collapse of state or revolution (I guess). See Ww2, plague making labour scarce and therefore more lucrative.

The current US administration will make wealth inequality worse. They are planning on reducing access to benefits and healthcare. They will give the very rich tax cuts.

This situation is ripe for civil war.

alwaysdeleteyourcookies · 22/02/2025 14:53

I'm going to Canada instead.

Drylogsonly · 22/02/2025 14:50

Crikeyalmighty · 22/02/2025 11:58

@LakieLady yep- we are likely going to Quebec at new year- love Canadians too -

We’ve changed our planned Xmas family visit from the US to Canada. The US relatives are going to come to Canada and we’ll have a big family get together there. Can’t wait.
US family live in the South… and we said we aren’t bring the grandkids there, so this is the chance to have something different.

BIossomtoes · 22/02/2025 14:39

dottiehens · 22/02/2025 12:44

Yes, they are so worried over there about the boycott from the people on benefits in the UK. 🤣

If this kind of nastiness is what being wealthy does for you give me a benefits claimant any day of the week. Money is the same, regardless of its source. Every boycott hurts.

Parker231 · 22/02/2025 13:57

Crikeyalmighty · 22/02/2025 11:58

@LakieLady yep- we are likely going to Quebec at new year- love Canadians too -

Quebec is gorgeous - particularly in the winter. In laws live there - we’re south in Montreal. Have a great time!

RosaMoline · 22/02/2025 13:32

dottiehens · 22/02/2025 12:44

Yes, they are so worried over there about the boycott from the people on benefits in the UK. 🤣

Jesus, you’re pathetic. I wish you wouldn’t pollute these boards with your nonsense.
FWIW, I’m not on benefits, and never have been. No problem with anyone that is though. Why shouldn’t they have a holiday?

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proporop · 22/02/2025 13:13

dottiehens · 22/02/2025 12:44

Yes, they are so worried over there about the boycott from the people on benefits in the UK. 🤣

Aww did the direct action upset you into throwing pathetic insults around? Diddums.

LakieLady · 22/02/2025 13:00

Crikeyalmighty · 22/02/2025 11:58

@LakieLady yep- we are likely going to Quebec at new year- love Canadians too -

Sadly, I've never been, despite having cousins on Vancouver Island. My DF, who'd worked overseas in loads of different countries, spent nearly 2 years in Nova Scotia and said that of all the places he'd been, Canada was the one he'd most like to live in.

dottiehens · 22/02/2025 12:44

Yes, they are so worried over there about the boycott from the people on benefits in the UK. 🤣

Crikeyalmighty · 22/02/2025 11:58

@LakieLady yep- we are likely going to Quebec at new year- love Canadians too -

LakieLady · 22/02/2025 10:07

proporop · 22/02/2025 09:49

Well said! I encourage people to avoid supporting US owned companies.

I'm no longer using Amazon, Airbnb and also cutting down on social media (FB, Insta etc). I was in the supermarket the other day and ignored the US products (there was a promotion of US groceries in Lidl).

I will also be joining in the No Buy days - first one upcoming is 28th Feb. They urge you to spend no money on Amazon and other big US companies, and to only shop very locally only if you need to with small businesses.

I've only used Amazon as a last resort for years, since I heard about the appalling employment practices in their distribution centres, but I wouldn't use Airbnb now and I'm boycotting Mars products and many others (Heinz, Kraft etc). Johnson & Johnson is a tricky one, as their products aren't immediately obvious, but I'm never buying anything where it's obvious, or those brands I know of, eg Neutrogena.

My FB account was disabled due to lack of use years ago and I don't use Twatter, Insta or Tik Tok.

proporop · 22/02/2025 09:49

LakieLady · 22/02/2025 09:43

I wouldn't dream of going to the US while the fascist megaloon is in charge, not because of fear of unrest, but because I don't want to do anything that will benefit a country that can elect someone who is both stupid and malign. I'm doing my utmost to avoid buying stuff produced by US-owned companies, too.

If I was minded to have a long-haul trip any time soon, I'd go to Canada.

Well said! I encourage people to avoid supporting US owned companies.

I'm no longer using Amazon, Airbnb and also cutting down on social media (FB, Insta etc). I was in the supermarket the other day and ignored the US products (there was a promotion of US groceries in Lidl).

I will also be joining in the No Buy days - first one upcoming is 28th Feb. They urge you to spend no money on Amazon and other big US companies, and to only shop very locally only if you need to with small businesses.

LakieLady · 22/02/2025 09:43

I wouldn't dream of going to the US while the fascist megaloon is in charge, not because of fear of unrest, but because I don't want to do anything that will benefit a country that can elect someone who is both stupid and malign. I'm doing my utmost to avoid buying stuff produced by US-owned companies, too.

If I was minded to have a long-haul trip any time soon, I'd go to Canada.

PurpleThistle7 · 22/02/2025 09:31

How would they ever know if someone was travelling with a same sex partner?

I mean… many ways. Same sex partners hold hands, kiss each other, coparent, book a hotel room with a double bed? That is one of the more odd comments on this thread. Unless you go out of your way to hide it, many random people you come across while living your life will know who your partner is. At the moment, it’s unfortunately a safety issue in far too many places so people are being secretive but that’s a bad thing and not something to encourage.

Drylogsonly · 22/02/2025 09:01

TemporaryPosition · 21/02/2025 18:00

I honestly don't think anyone cares about people's private sex life. How would anyone even know

Well our kids calling us both mother would give it away quite quickly. We have had to be careful or had horrible comments made before in the USA PRE-Trump so I don’t think it’ll be improving any now.
And unfortunately some people DO care that others are in a same-sex relationship. They care very much. They’re called bigots or homophobes and they can be nasty, and down right dangerous.

thepariscrimefiles · 22/02/2025 08:56

CornishIrish · 22/02/2025 08:02

Very quickly the government is descending into fascism.

Trump has just removed the heads of the military but some kind of resistance isn’t unlikely.

it took less than two months in Germany.

People that scoff at the idea seem a bit naive to me.

People that scoff at the idea that the US is descending into fascism probably think that they are not part of a group that will be targetted to lose their jobs/Medicare/Medicaid/be deported and have no empathy for the people who will be targetted.

Lots of people are loving the cruelty, but there are people who voted for Trump who are in the targetted groups and they are outraged that it is happened to them.

CornishIrish · 22/02/2025 08:02

Overtheatlantic · 21/02/2025 14:55

For those who believe the US is headed for a civil war May I ask why you believe that? Not just a feeling but actual facts that lead you to reach that belief. Many thanks.

Very quickly the government is descending into fascism.

Trump has just removed the heads of the military but some kind of resistance isn’t unlikely.

it took less than two months in Germany.

People that scoff at the idea seem a bit naive to me.

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