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Kids eat free discrimination

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BigBaoBun · 21/02/2025 13:50

Some restaurants offer a kids eat free/ kids eat for £1 offer during the half term but this is usually (not always) when one adult buys a main meal the restaurant allows one free kids meal. I have noticed a lot of parents with multiple children complaining that certain restaurants are being unfair as they only get one free kids meal. Particularly single parents saying it's discrimination against them. One woman was complaining that she has 3 kids and it isn't fair because only one can eat free and the restaurant should be giving them all a free meal. Aibu to think that this isn't discrimination and you can't expect all kids to eat for free?

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Othermentions · 21/02/2025 14:35

I have noticed a lot of parents with multiple children complaining that certain restaurants are being unfair as they only get one free kids meal.

on the basis of a few comments underneath an ad 😀

MargaretThursday · 21/02/2025 14:35

Fluffylizard1 · 21/02/2025 14:12

Don’t see how this is discrimination.

What I always thought was unfair was when restaurants offered free / discounted meals to children below a certain height, rather than based on age. That arguably is discrimination for taller families. Not sure how that’s allowed.

Actually (having had 2 tall dc and 1 average) I think that's fair enough because so many people lie about the child's age. I saw someone once with a very embarrassed teen with broken voice swearing he was under 10 and just "well developed".

The one below I spotted locally made me laugh though.

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yourmaw · 21/02/2025 14:35

@RainingRoses -presumtious? Just because a single lady was chance her luck at every kid with her being "entitled"to eat for free - doesnt mean she can not afford to feed her children.!!!
Realistically she could potentially approach other adult diners without children +if they are willing request the "freebie"entitlement is served to her table.
In which case -i think id probably let 2 extra kids meals slide....swings and roundabouts.

DalzielOrNoDalzielAndDontPascoe · 21/02/2025 14:35

I'll bet they already see the offer abused - or at least stretched as far as possible - with parents deliberately having the cheapest possible adult meal/combo and then choosing the dearest free kids' one for their child.

DalzielOrNoDalzielAndDontPascoe · 21/02/2025 14:33

TomatoSandwiches · 21/02/2025 14:01

It's not discrimination but if I was running a business I would probably allow twins to get free meals with one parent paying.

You'd deffo get people lying and abusing that, though, if they have any kids with similar-ish ages.

"Yes, isn't it strange how these things work: Jimmy has always been by far the bigger twin and Katie much, much smaller having been born 6 years after her brother!"

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 21/02/2025 14:28

Surely that's like saying if toilet rolls are on a BOGOF offer you should be able to buy one and get two free if you've got two toilets in your house?

MeowCatPleaseMeowBack · 21/02/2025 14:27

Aye of course you've seen this a lot and aren't just shit stirring.

overthinkingandworried · 21/02/2025 14:23

Surely the woman with 3 dc could have just got 1 adult and 1 child meal and asked for 2 extra plates and shared it out ?

chaosmaker · 21/02/2025 14:22

Rosebud12345 · 21/02/2025 14:05

Just a polite reminder that some people who have children, or multiple children situation does change. My friend was absolutely fine going about life with 2 kids until her DP left her suddenly for someone else, would you tell her she shouldn’t be having 2 if she now struggles to get by sometimes?

Does she think she should get free meals for both of them with one adult meal purchase? If not then it's not about her, is it?

PheasantPluckers · 21/02/2025 14:22

BigBaoBun · 21/02/2025 14:18

Sorry to clarify this isn't a friend I was reading the comments under an add for the restaurant and there was lots of parents angry that it didn't include all children and saying that it's discrimination to single parents. Lots of "I'm a single parent to 3/4/5 so what am I suppose to do..." pay?!

Did anyone reply 'make them a sandwich at home?' 😅

TheEyesOfLucyJordon · 21/02/2025 14:21

Rosebud12345 · 21/02/2025 14:05

Just a polite reminder that some people who have children, or multiple children situation does change. My friend was absolutely fine going about life with 2 kids until her DP left her suddenly for someone else, would you tell her she shouldn’t be having 2 if she now struggles to get by sometimes?

I do have some sympathy for your friend but ... yes, I'd be telling her that she couldn't have two free meals.

PheasantPluckers · 21/02/2025 14:20

Some people just want everything fo free. That's their problem!

BigBaoBun · 21/02/2025 14:20

yourmaw · 21/02/2025 14:17

Seriously for real? youve noticed that instance repeatedly coming up?....in multiple eateries.?...then subdivided into single parents of multi troops? !!!
one lady. ok
i doubt that.
I think providing any advertisement details one free kids meal with every adult meal theres no room for confusuion.

Comments under adds for multiple restaurants yes

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BigBaoBun · 21/02/2025 14:18

Moonnstars · 21/02/2025 14:14

These 'deals' are just a marketing ploy. Unless you have already planned on taking the kids out for a meal, then you are actually spending more than you intended. They are never a good offer. If your friend wants help with food, she should check out local community centres (one near me has a cafe that does free soup on a Thursday, and another runs a 'holiday club' in the school holidays where they offer lunch and arts and crafts - parents need to stay and also get a free lunch, again usually soup or pasta).

Sorry to clarify this isn't a friend I was reading the comments under an add for the restaurant and there was lots of parents angry that it didn't include all children and saying that it's discrimination to single parents. Lots of "I'm a single parent to 3/4/5 so what am I suppose to do..." pay?!

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TickingAlongNicely · 21/02/2025 14:18

I think part of the problem is the whole school holidays cheap meal deals got muddled into the Free School Meal debate. So its seen by some as a right, not a special offer.

ButIToldYouSoooo · 21/02/2025 14:18

It's not even close to 'discrimination', it's a BOGOF deal. Someone just didn't want to pay for their children to eat out, which is a privilege not a right.

Can you imagine? I take groups of students into town on occasion to a museum. Should we just rock up to one of these places and demand all the kids eat for free if I buy a meal? I'd be laughed out of the place.

whatonearthisgoingonnow · 21/02/2025 14:18

Everyone knows you can't complain about getting something free. Unless it's herpes.

yourmaw · 21/02/2025 14:17

Seriously for real? youve noticed that instance repeatedly coming up?....in multiple eateries.?...then subdivided into single parents of multi troops? !!!
one lady. ok
i doubt that.
I think providing any advertisement details one free kids meal with every adult meal theres no room for confusuion.

KilkennyCats · 21/02/2025 14:15

MargaretThursday · 21/02/2025 14:10

It's not discrimination, but I do think the "Kids eat free/cheap this half term" notices put out as though it's going to mean children whose parents can't afford to eat can now be fed should be genuinely children eating free (or very cheap) with no strings attached.

I printed one off for someone who was struggling, and then read through them, and all barring one would have cost more to feed their children (even if it had been all children with one adult) than just getting stuff from the supermarket.

Well, it’s eating out…
It’s always going to be more expensive than buying the ingredients yourself from the supermarket 🤷🏻‍♀️
That’s not news.

LardoBurrows · 21/02/2025 14:14

If that woman with the three kids can't afford to pay for her kids to eat in a restaurant, then she should eat at home or pack a picnic. No-one is forcing her to eat in a restaurant and it's not a god given right to be given free meals. She sounds an entitled bint.

Moonnstars · 21/02/2025 14:14

These 'deals' are just a marketing ploy. Unless you have already planned on taking the kids out for a meal, then you are actually spending more than you intended. They are never a good offer. If your friend wants help with food, she should check out local community centres (one near me has a cafe that does free soup on a Thursday, and another runs a 'holiday club' in the school holidays where they offer lunch and arts and crafts - parents need to stay and also get a free lunch, again usually soup or pasta).

butterdish93 · 21/02/2025 14:12

In Tesco you only have to buy two things to get two free kids meals.
So a meal and then a drink of water counts as seperate. Might be the same in other places

Fluffylizard1 · 21/02/2025 14:12

Don’t see how this is discrimination.

What I always thought was unfair was when restaurants offered free / discounted meals to children below a certain height, rather than based on age. That arguably is discrimination for taller families. Not sure how that’s allowed.

BarnacleBeasley · 21/02/2025 14:12

I don't think it's discrimination either, but it potentially is a bit misleading if the restaurant has KIDS EAT FREE plastered all over it in massive letters, and the requirement to purchase an adult's meal for every free child is buried in small print somewhere. Some restaurants are worse for this than others - I've just googled my local area, and many are very clear, but Bella Italia (for example) puts it right down at the bottom of the FAQs.

CherryVanillaPie · 21/02/2025 14:11

They wouldn't stay in business if they provided unlimited kids' meals with each adult meal.

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