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Kids eat free discrimination

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BigBaoBun · 21/02/2025 13:50

Some restaurants offer a kids eat free/ kids eat for £1 offer during the half term but this is usually (not always) when one adult buys a main meal the restaurant allows one free kids meal. I have noticed a lot of parents with multiple children complaining that certain restaurants are being unfair as they only get one free kids meal. Particularly single parents saying it's discrimination against them. One woman was complaining that she has 3 kids and it isn't fair because only one can eat free and the restaurant should be giving them all a free meal. Aibu to think that this isn't discrimination and you can't expect all kids to eat for free?

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Imisscoffee2021 · 21/02/2025 14:51

A familiar situation unflrtunately. I remember when the RHS offered two free kids to a show when I worked at a site that hosted one. A hugely irate woman spent ages complaining to me (who had nothing to do with the actual show) that it's discriminatory to her because she has triplets and only two will be free. Two freebies is pretty good considering the price, and if they gave three then the next parent along with 4 kids would complain too!

onwardsup4 · 21/02/2025 14:50

Asda is the best deal for this kids eat for £1 and no adult meal needed to be bought. Good deal!

GreyCarpet · 21/02/2025 14:50

My daighter used to work in a popular chain restaurant that used to offer this during school holidays.

It was the bane of her life and she hated it for this sort of thing. Those who assume it's a rare cheeky fucker would be mistaken.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 21/02/2025 14:50

TomatoSandwiches · 21/02/2025 14:01

It's not discrimination but if I was running a business I would probably allow twins to get free meals with one parent paying.

I agree but I can also see how you'd get people saying there's only a 12 month gap between their kids so their practically twins and so on...

JustMyView13 · 21/02/2025 14:50

RainingRoses · 21/02/2025 13:56

Perhaps if the lady with 3 children can’t afford to feed them, she shouldn’t have had 3. It’s not discrimination, it’s in same category as “human rights” that people complain about when they can’t get what they want.

So many unfair assumptions are made in your comment.

I agree with only one child being fed free, if that’s the policy.

But your comment makes out women choose to be single parents, when in the vast majority of cases that’s not true.

You could say - perhaps if the men stepped up and fed their children they created, then these people wouldn’t need to depend on freebies. That would arguably be a more fair and accurate representation of the situation many single mums find themselves in.

Snorlaxo · 21/02/2025 14:49

Of course it’s not.
I’ve seen someone try and claim the child’s meal for an adult which the shop is fair to deny.

2Rebecca · 21/02/2025 14:49

If anyone is discriminated against it's the people with no children who are subsidising the free/ cheap children's meals.

TheWayTheLightFalls · 21/02/2025 14:49

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Sure, but I agree with a PP - this is about eating out. Eating - food banks, community supermarkets, HAF programmes are all cheaper and more suitable.

I run a food bank and I hate the marketing of these “kids eat free” promotions. Not everyone is highly literate or even English speaking and can expect to parse the minor detail details of whether it’s better to eat out at the Tesco café or buy x ingredients and cook. You see an ad shouting kids eat free, you assume that kids eat free.

Othermentions · 21/02/2025 14:47

scotstars · 21/02/2025 14:46

Some people just think they are entitled. I went out over half term with a friend who has several kids I have one dc I told her the offer so she knew she was only getting 1 free kid meal yet when the bill came she took it and deducted both free kids meals from her share! I wouldn't mind but her financial situation is much better than mine

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And this was a friend?

you didn’t feel comfortable enough to
mention to her?

did you just split the bill 50/50?

caringcarer · 21/02/2025 14:47

People should be pleased they get 1 kids meal free, not whinge about not getting 3 meals free.

Bournetilly · 21/02/2025 14:46

They need to read the T&Cs but sounds like they have if they are commenting on Facebook posts. Some places do offer more than 1 kids meal for free, I’ve been somewhere today where you could get up to 3 kids meals free (plus ice cream) with 1 adult meal.

Still doesn’t work out cheap by the time you add drinks on and adult deserts if they want them. Unless you are already planning on going out you’re not really saving any money.

PheasantPluckers · 21/02/2025 14:46

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Eh? How rude!

Don't you think some beans on toast would be cheaper to feed a parent and kids than an adult buying a full priced meal? And since when were restaurants responsible for making sure children could eat?

Othermentions · 21/02/2025 14:46

where ive seen loads of people complaining

”loads”. Interesting 😁

scotstars · 21/02/2025 14:46

Some people just think they are entitled. I went out over half term with a friend who has several kids I have one dc I told her the offer so she knew she was only getting 1 free kid meal yet when the bill came she took it and deducted both free kids meals from her share! I wouldn't mind but her financial situation is much better than mine

Othermentions · 21/02/2025 14:46

BigBaoBun · 21/02/2025 14:40

Already said where ive seen loads of people complaining and it's under advertising for the restaurant 🤷🏻‍♀️

What’s the chances you’d paste the thread?

hint: nil because it was one comment and the op latched on to it

sashh · 21/02/2025 14:43

Rosebud12345 · 21/02/2025 14:05

Just a polite reminder that some people who have children, or multiple children situation does change. My friend was absolutely fine going about life with 2 kids until her DP left her suddenly for someone else, would you tell her she shouldn’t be having 2 if she now struggles to get by sometimes?

I know a woman who at 19 took on 3 of her sister's children. I'm sure she was judged when people saw a young woman with three under 10.

Maybe restaurants should offer a 'family meal' for up to 2 adults and 2 children that could be one adult and 3 children.

DaphneduMaureen · 21/02/2025 14:41

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BigBaoBun · 21/02/2025 14:40

Already said where ive seen loads of people complaining and it's under advertising for the restaurant 🤷🏻‍♀️

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DaphneduMaureen · 21/02/2025 14:39

DalzielOrNoDalzielAndDontPascoe · 21/02/2025 14:35

I'll bet they already see the offer abused - or at least stretched as far as possible - with parents deliberately having the cheapest possible adult meal/combo and then choosing the dearest free kids' one for their child.

How is that abuse of the offer someone buys the cheapest adult meal? The retailer can make exclusions if they see fit. The profits made on the absolute dog shit they serve mean they can do these free meal schemes and appear charitable. Why the fuck are we worried about the poor multi-billion corporations?

Spidey66 · 21/02/2025 14:38

Children don't have to eat out. When I was a kid, (50 years back, admittedly) eating out generally meant a picnic in the park, with some sandwiches in tin foil, fruit, crisps, and if we were lucky a can of pop each and maybe if we were very lucky an ice cream. The only time I remember eating out was going to Wimpy for my birthday! We weren't poor, it just wasn't the done thing.

I think it's nice if restaurants offer such a deal but it's mainly a marketing thing surely!

DalzielOrNoDalzielAndDontPascoe · 21/02/2025 14:37

MeowCatPleaseMeowBack · 21/02/2025 14:27

Aye of course you've seen this a lot and aren't just shit stirring.

I can well see how you'd observe this if you frequently went to a busy place that has this offer, especially in half term, at weekends or early tea time.

Lemonade2011 · 21/02/2025 14:37

I have 4 so one one could eat free however one is better than nothing some people just think they are owed something

DaphneduMaureen · 21/02/2025 14:36

BigBaoBun · 21/02/2025 13:50

Some restaurants offer a kids eat free/ kids eat for £1 offer during the half term but this is usually (not always) when one adult buys a main meal the restaurant allows one free kids meal. I have noticed a lot of parents with multiple children complaining that certain restaurants are being unfair as they only get one free kids meal. Particularly single parents saying it's discrimination against them. One woman was complaining that she has 3 kids and it isn't fair because only one can eat free and the restaurant should be giving them all a free meal. Aibu to think that this isn't discrimination and you can't expect all kids to eat for free?

Where have you “noticed” this? Where was this woman complaining?

Eldermilleniallyogii · 21/02/2025 14:36

Some people are so entitled. I'd throw them out.

Wonderfulstuff · 21/02/2025 14:35

It's a nice to have not an essential. And if people start throwing around terms like 'discrimination' then it's just as easy for the eateries to remove the offer.

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