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Kids eat free discrimination

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BigBaoBun · 21/02/2025 13:50

Some restaurants offer a kids eat free/ kids eat for £1 offer during the half term but this is usually (not always) when one adult buys a main meal the restaurant allows one free kids meal. I have noticed a lot of parents with multiple children complaining that certain restaurants are being unfair as they only get one free kids meal. Particularly single parents saying it's discrimination against them. One woman was complaining that she has 3 kids and it isn't fair because only one can eat free and the restaurant should be giving them all a free meal. Aibu to think that this isn't discrimination and you can't expect all kids to eat for free?

OP posts:
Sometimeswinning · 23/02/2025 10:01

KilkennyCats · 23/02/2025 09:56

Stop telling me what I can post 😂
Your opinion is ludicrous. In my opinion…
Shouldn’t have posted yourself if you only wanted a clap 🤷🏻‍♀️
This is a discussion board.

I only suggested you could have made a different post from the other few aimed at me. Just seems like a waste of both our times. 🐑

KilkennyCats · 23/02/2025 09:56

Sometimeswinning · 23/02/2025 09:52

Stop repeating the same point made. I listened and disagreed. Just give a poster above the thumbs up or a clap.

Businesses are there for the public, it’s whether they choose to do the odd nice thing. I just think they should. Sorry that seems to bother you.

Stop telling me what I can post 😂
Your opinion is ludicrous. In my opinion…
Shouldn’t have posted yourself if you only wanted a clap 🤷🏻‍♀️
This is a discussion board.

Sometimeswinning · 23/02/2025 09:52

KilkennyCats · 23/02/2025 09:37

Why would they do it as a nice thing?!
It would be a nice thing for you to cover the cost for the Mum who has two kids and is only getting one free kids meal, but would you??
Business’s exist solely to make profit, not to do nice things for the public at large.

Stop repeating the same point made. I listened and disagreed. Just give a poster above the thumbs up or a clap.

Businesses are there for the public, it’s whether they choose to do the odd nice thing. I just think they should. Sorry that seems to bother you.

KilkennyCats · 23/02/2025 09:37

Sometimeswinning · 23/02/2025 09:31

You’d be a bit naive if you didn’t realise they were trying to push the altruistic approach with here to help etc to make it appear so. Happy to use it but when someone questions it, it’s the staff who have to deal with it.

It doesn’t help me. Kids meals are portioned for much younger than mine and my lot prefer the choice of a whole menu these days. So I’ve zero skin in the game before anyone tries to call me entitled.

I just think wouldn’t it be nice if they did do it as a nice thing? They’d still be quids in on their overflated, expensive toastie. The idea a single mum of 2/3 children (as mentioned in op) could just that one time in the holidays take her kids out for lunch whilst shopping when a lot of posters on this thread feel if she can’t afford it, she doesn’t get to enjoy it ever!

Why would they do it as a nice thing?!
It would be a nice thing for you to cover the cost for the Mum who has two kids and is only getting one free kids meal, but would you??
Business’s exist solely to make profit, not to do nice things for the public at large.

Sometimeswinning · 23/02/2025 09:31

Farellyo · 23/02/2025 07:14

They're also businesses competing for customers, it's not an altruistic let's feed the hungry children scheme. Plenty of people do have money to go out for food, makes sense for a business to want to make its offering more appealing and secure the £££s. It isn't just supermarkets now offering this in the school holidays, quite a few chains like prezzo, bills, wagamama do.

You’d be a bit naive if you didn’t realise they were trying to push the altruistic approach with here to help etc to make it appear so. Happy to use it but when someone questions it, it’s the staff who have to deal with it.

It doesn’t help me. Kids meals are portioned for much younger than mine and my lot prefer the choice of a whole menu these days. So I’ve zero skin in the game before anyone tries to call me entitled.

I just think wouldn’t it be nice if they did do it as a nice thing? They’d still be quids in on their overflated, expensive toastie. The idea a single mum of 2/3 children (as mentioned in op) could just that one time in the holidays take her kids out for lunch whilst shopping when a lot of posters on this thread feel if she can’t afford it, she doesn’t get to enjoy it ever!

CosyDenimShark · 23/02/2025 09:31

People are rude and entitled beyond belief now.

At my old job (tourist attraction), they offered a very generous summer offer of 2 kids go free with a paying adult. We had every complaint under the sun & loads of negative trip advisers.

Some of the complaints I heard were:
Its discriminatory to single parents
I have 3/4/5 children its not fair
My children want to bring friends and now I have to pay for them
I'm bringing an adult friend can we just pay for 1 of us?
This is discriminatory of season ticket holders
We're blue light card holders so can we get in free as well as the children?
My child is an adult but still my child so can they be free?

Honestly, you couldn't make it up. I have no idea how these people think businesses work.

SD1978 · 23/02/2025 08:20

Nope, not discrimination, they are not oblidged to give you anything it's their choice. Same way as a single parent with o it one child, I never get a family discount as it's usually for multiple kids/ adults, so it's 'full' prices for me- and that's juts the way their discounts work and I've never tried to shout discrimination

Farellyo · 23/02/2025 07:14

Sometimeswinning · 22/02/2025 22:33

I mean most of these offers are made in the guise of making things easier/nicer in the holidays. The size of a kids meal would probably cover up to about 5/6 years old.

I can’t get too protective or worried about a company which could most probably afford to make a far more generous offer. I think Asda had a deal where kids ate for a pound regardless of whether an adult purchased a meal. That was nice.

I do agree staff should not suffer the headache of someone complaining.

They're also businesses competing for customers, it's not an altruistic let's feed the hungry children scheme. Plenty of people do have money to go out for food, makes sense for a business to want to make its offering more appealing and secure the £££s. It isn't just supermarkets now offering this in the school holidays, quite a few chains like prezzo, bills, wagamama do.

ZoeDavoMCR · 23/02/2025 07:11

People are just skint that’s all….sad really

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 23/02/2025 02:28

Sometimeswinning · 22/02/2025 22:33

I mean most of these offers are made in the guise of making things easier/nicer in the holidays. The size of a kids meal would probably cover up to about 5/6 years old.

I can’t get too protective or worried about a company which could most probably afford to make a far more generous offer. I think Asda had a deal where kids ate for a pound regardless of whether an adult purchased a meal. That was nice.

I do agree staff should not suffer the headache of someone complaining.

How do you know the restaurant can make a better offer. Restaurants have huge costs to cover.

PeloMom · 22/02/2025 22:58

It’s not a discrimination. Eating at restaurants isn’t a must or need. And the terms and conditions of the offer are clear- you take it or leave it.

Foostit · 22/02/2025 22:55

The sense of entitlement from some is astonishing. I used to see it as one free meal meaning I’d pay less than if I was paying for one adult and two kids meals. Discrimination would not have entered my head. It’s not compulsory to eat out if you can’t afford it. 🙄

User79853257976 · 22/02/2025 22:51

TomatoSandwiches · 21/02/2025 14:01

It's not discrimination but if I was running a business I would probably allow twins to get free meals with one parent paying.

Why though? Why does it matter that they are the same age?

BlondiePortz · 22/02/2025 22:47

These are commercial businesses not charities are they not?

Laura95167 · 22/02/2025 22:43

Really they should look at it as they got a discount.

If an adult meal is £10 a kids meal is £5 & youre a single adult and youve 3 kids its costing you £21 instead of £25

If you were 2 adults and 3 kids it would be £27.

It was actually £6 cheaper as the single parent buying 4 meals than the family buying 5

Stopsnowing · 22/02/2025 22:41

The other day I saw a ad for one free child holiday place per two paying adults. I think for single parent families they should get 50 per cent off one child to be fair.

theboffinsarecoming · 22/02/2025 22:38

RainingRoses · 21/02/2025 13:56

Perhaps if the lady with 3 children can’t afford to feed them, she shouldn’t have had 3. It’s not discrimination, it’s in same category as “human rights” that people complain about when they can’t get what they want.

Well perhaps she's a widow.

Sometimeswinning · 22/02/2025 22:33

I mean most of these offers are made in the guise of making things easier/nicer in the holidays. The size of a kids meal would probably cover up to about 5/6 years old.

I can’t get too protective or worried about a company which could most probably afford to make a far more generous offer. I think Asda had a deal where kids ate for a pound regardless of whether an adult purchased a meal. That was nice.

I do agree staff should not suffer the headache of someone complaining.

XenoBitch · 22/02/2025 22:19

imtheholidayarmadillo · 22/02/2025 21:19

But do you actually think that would have been a reasonable thing to do? I think harassing other diners would be just as entitled as trying to blag extra free meals.

That would be the ultimate in cheeky-fuckery.

Franjipanl8r · 22/02/2025 22:17

Nothing stopping them bringing another adult friend or relative to get another free kids meal.

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 22/02/2025 22:12

Differentstarts · 22/02/2025 21:47

Each restaurant usually set their own age limit usually 12

Oh dear, that's a bit of a nuisance.

I'll probably just have a slice of half raw toast then.😕

soupyspoon · 22/02/2025 21:50

Just because someone says something is discrimination or any other thing, or that they feel this and that about something, it doesnt mean they're right, it doesnt mean their comment or view has any validity to it, it doesnt mean it even needs to be debated. Some things are just obvious.

Differentstarts · 22/02/2025 21:47

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 22/02/2025 21:43

What are legal age paramenters for a 'kid'?

If my Dad is 84 and I am 60 I'm stll his 'kid',and so I wonder if can I get a free meal?
(I will, of cousre, wheel him along the counter so he can point at what he would choose before I load up my plate, some what akin to a model of the Matterhorn.)

Each restaurant usually set their own age limit usually 12

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 22/02/2025 21:43

What are legal age paramenters for a 'kid'?

If my Dad is 84 and I am 60 I'm stll his 'kid',and so I wonder if can I get a free meal?
(I will, of cousre, wheel him along the counter so he can point at what he would choose before I load up my plate, some what akin to a model of the Matterhorn.)

littlestrawberryhat · 22/02/2025 21:28

BigBaoBun · 21/02/2025 14:07

I said this but was called judgemental, I'm a single parent myself but I don't expect restaurants to allow them all to eat for free 😂

Bet you are for the death penalty and don’t believe in tvs in prison cells, and think people on benefits shouldn’t have sky tv. Probably one for shooting the boats too

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