To ask the worst thing you've ever done in anger?

A BF I was utterly besotted with shagged my friend. Said it was a one-off, he was pissed, yada yada... then did it again, same old excuses, but like a naive, lovesick twat I believed him.

One morning I had to go to work stupidly early, and took a detour to avoid a massive traffic jam. Went past her flat and saw his car outside, a bit before 6am, which was far too early for it to be a social call.

I felt sick, and pulled over, all tearful but also angry. I got angrier and angrier. Then I remembered that I had a bottle of brake fluid in the boot of my car ...... and that I'd picked up some paintbrushes on the way home from work, but not taken them indoors.

I painted the word "CUNT", in brake fluid, on the boot of his beloved Audi 100S coupe in letters approx 9" high.

It didn't achieve anything. They eventually married and are still together now, some 47 years later, but it made me feel better at the time.

I feel bad about the car though. The early 70s Audi coupe is now a classic car, and a thing of beauty.

Put toilet water in someone’s water bottle… after months and months of bullying… they were fine …

What?! Don’t be so judgemental.

Most children are in foster care because they have been neglected and abused. They are traumatised and struggled to trust in adults. They often test relationships because they don’t trust in them. They are often left from their early experiences as feeling not good enough and have often learned problematic behaviour from the adults that should have loved, protected and cared for them.

What the foster carer did here was wrong. Utterly wrong. it was probably re traumatising and made things far worse.

To be honest, I’m glad the OP did that.

I'm quite proud of mine..

Ex husband had, it turned out, more than 50 affairs. Most of them came out after we split.

Anyway.. found out about the last affair and kicked him out. Ended up paying for his rental house for a year up front to be rid of him and by coincidence the house was a few doors down from my close friend, mainly because she too was divorcing and it was a new build all rental estate.

Anyway he swore blind he wasn't still seeing this woman and he wanted to make it work. There was no chance of that but I was so sick of the lies.

One night about 7 weeks after he moved out when he "definitely wasnt" having anything to do with this affair partner woman, I had been on a night out to the theatre and dropped friend home around midnight (kids at grandparents). As we drove past his house, other woman's car is on the drive. So clearly he's still lying.

At this time, mostly for financial reasons, we still retained one amazon prime account so all his amazon echos and mine were on the same account we both had access to.

We were also due to take the kids to the panto together that afternoon.

So I set reminders on his amazon echos to go off at 6am at top volume.

Bing bong "I'm reminding you.. don't forget to send your whore home in time to go to the panto with your kids".

100 percent do not regret.

Not me, but a friend of mine had an affair and his wife found out and put every one of his electronics in a bath full of water.

A few things with my horrible cheating, violent ex. I put his phone in a bucket of water after discovering yet another set of messages from a woman he was shagging, I also sent a video of him receiving a BJ from a girl I found out he had been cheating with.

But I, like all normal, reasonable people, wouldn't like to be forced to read explicit sexual messages someone had sent to her.

But then, having read your previous comments on this thread, I'm not sure I'm dealing with a reasonable person here.

Surely you know what goes on in people's bedrooms. You wouldn't be naive enough to think your granddaughter was a sweet innocent virgin.

Books are actually really hard to burn..That would have taken a lot of effort.

So what...

When exH cheated I scratched ‘TWAT’ in foot high letters with a key across the bonnet of his Merc.

When I was asked to move out of a rental property I planted 20kgs of corn in the garden and in the outside drains.

The worst bullies are always the biggest snivelling little cowards. I 100% believe this story.

1. Teenage boy, not man. Skinny, not especially tall. I was much bigger.
2. I’d pushed him into the car and l slid him up the side of it. I don’t expect he was actually in the air, but certainly stretched and in his tiptoes at that point.

Now what YOU did is totally justified.

Of course you wouldn't judge the victim. But no one wants to know about the sex life of their daughter or granddaughter. I think most people would be upset and angry that they'd had to read it, even just the first sentence or two, and rightfully blame the person who'd forwarded them the emails, who'd put them through that unpleasant experience.

I've got to say, I'm staggered at the number of people defending what the OP did. Even she's not defending it!

Shagged my exes business partner. no regrets.

I collected all of my cheating exes fag ends from the garden (because they were still there despite me asking him constantly to pick them up) and put them in the black bags with his belongings.

Years ago my boyfriend cheated on me, more than once. He left his account details logged in to my phone and I went snooping. He’d been messaging girls behind my back, receiving nudes, planning meet ups etc. I know I know my fault for staying after the first time. I collected up all the things he’d left at my house, work uniforms, personal items, photographs of us, gifts he’d bought me. Put them in a bag and poured bleach over them, wrote things all over his work uniform, cracked eggs over them, all sorts. Took it over to his, dumped it on the floor. He put me up against a wall. I left when he let me go, when I got out of the door he shouted after me sarcastically ‘love you’ and quickly shut the door behind him. I saw red, ran back and kicked the door. Apparently hard enough to take it off its hinges. Panicked and ran away. He got his friends to message me telling me they were gonna call the police, made me feel really bad. Probably rightly so. Nothing came of it though. It was a toxic relationship on both sides from the get go. Shudder with embarrassment when I think of it now.

I split up from a BF and in a fit of rage he sent private emails to my family (not pictures). It was devastating to be honest. I moved on with my life and tried to put it behind me. Ex tried to contact me several times and rekindle things because his new relationship (with his affair partner) wasn't working out (someone else didn't want to put up with his BS either).

I thought fine so you won't leave me alone and you think it's fine to send private emails to all and sundry? OK I shall return the favour and I forwarded all his emails begging for me to come back to his family and new GF and copied him in.

Low I know but Karma is a bitch my only disappointment is I didn't get to see the look if horror on his face when he realised what I had done

I wouldn’t be ok with it. I’d stop reading when I realised what was going on and then my main concern would be the “victim”. I certainly wouldn’t judge them and I’d put it behind me very fast. Everyone has a sex life.

Mine now!

I threw a uni housemate out!!!

She stole straighteners and iPod and something else big, perhaps a hard drive from another housemate.

The housemate she stole them off was really scatty always losing things so we did think that perhaps this was just her losing items. But the more time went on the more suspicious I got.

There was one day when the thief housemate left her door open and on her bed were the three missing items. I got my digital camera to take a photo as evidence!

I was furious! As students we were poor and I mean rice and butter for tea at the end of term poor. The scatty housemate in question worked 2 jobs all summer to afford uni. These items meant a massive amount to her at the time. The thief housemate targeted scatty housemate because she calculated that she could get away with it. I was raging.

I then told my other housemates. We got together and booted her out very unceremoniously and I was so so angry!

Emotions can do strange things to our bodies. Adrenaline is a powerful drug.

I went to uni with someone transitioning out of the fire service. He said if you have a mother who believes her child/ren are in a house that is on fire it can take two bulky fire fighters to hold her back.

You had him lifted against your car door by his throat...? The rules of gravity don't even allow that to make sense. Not to mention a woman lifting a man off the floor....