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Ex’s GF stopping him seeing our Son!

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hugsandpugs · 20/02/2025 21:15

Long story short one of her sons (around age 16) has moved out of the home she shares with my ex and has gone to live with his dad.

She has messaged/called me saying he’s moved out because of my ex - apparently they don’t get on.

Whether that is the reason he moved out who knows.

She is obviously not happy he has moved out and is now trying to hurt my ex by stopping him from seeing our Son as a way of getting back at him!

She has literally texted me tonight and said ex will no longer be seeing our son until she gets her own place so he can hurt like she’s hurting!

I’m absolutely fuming that she’s trying to use my son as a way of getting back at my ex!!

AIBU for thinking she’s off her head and not wanting my son to be anywhere near her as she seems unstable?!

Obviously I don’t want my son to not be able to see his Dad but I have had no communication from him and can’t believe he’s just letting her call the shots!

OP posts:
Changeissmall · 20/02/2025 21:27

Is she keeping him prisoner? What a pathetic man. If he can’t bring your son to his latest woman’s house he just gives up?

DaniMontyRae · 20/02/2025 21:26

This has nothing to do with the gf. It is entirely up to your ex if he decides not to see his son for any reason. If the gf had any sense she would have kicked your ex out long before it got to the point of her son moving out.

GoldNewt · 20/02/2025 21:25

He is choosing not to see his son.

hugsandpugs · 20/02/2025 21:23

I don’t really speak to ex other than to sort out arrangements for when he’s seeing our Son but I get the sense she’s very controlling over him. He should be putting his son first IMO

OP posts:
Londonrach1 · 20/02/2025 21:17

Ex the issue not the gf here

Hoppinggreen · 20/02/2025 21:17

I think you are angry at the wrong person.
If your ex wants to see his son he will

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