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To ask what the strangest thing you did online as a teenager was?

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Username73638 · 20/02/2025 20:31

I’ll go first… when I was about 12 or 13 (mid-00s) I signed up to a UK mum/baby forum - I can’t remember what it was called but it was a bit like Mumsnet but way, way smaller, everyone knew everyone - and created a whole fake life and made a load of ‘friends’ on there who were presumably women in their 20s-40s. This was when the internet was a very different place and everyone had their kids’ names and DOBs on ‘tickers’ I think they were called in their signatures. There was minimal anonymity. I had a fake husband and a couple of fake kids with names and back stories and then ‘got pregnant’ and tracked a whole pregnancy and birth. All of my online ‘friends’ were really excited to hear the birth announcement and helped me pick the baby’s name. I made up a fake birth story. There was actually an in-person meet up with all the kids that I was invited along to but obviously I couldn’t go, I pretended that one of my kids was sick.

I still remember some of the names of the women and their kids and think about how old the kids would be now (in their 20s!)

Anyway after 1-2 years, can’t remember exactly how long, a group of them realised I was fake and ‘confronted’ me online. I didn’t confess but deleted my account and never went back.

I had a difficult home life and I think I wanted to imagine the happy family I might have when I grew up. It was a bit of an obsession though and I spent so many hours on there, basically every afternoon and evening after school. I’ve never done anything similar since, my catfishing days were over after that!

Did anyone else do anything similar online as a teenager, pretending to be anyone else or something?

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WellsAndThistles · 20/02/2025 20:42

I was reading More magazine, no Internet then.

I'm lucky enough to remember life before the Internet and my "first time" in 1997, still am in total awe of it and how much life has changed.

Createausername1970 · 20/02/2025 20:42

VickyEadieofThigh · 20/02/2025 20:40

I turned 13 in 1971. The most radical thing we did involving 'technology' was to go to a phone box, put 2p in and listened to that day's 'Dial a disc' choice. None of us had a phone at home so we had to go to call boxes.

This - and you'll laugh - was a record out of the top 30 that you could listen to down the phone.

Wild, eh?!

Oh yes! I remember that! Spotify in it's infancy 🤣🤣

xRobin · 20/02/2025 20:41

This is hilarious 😂 no harm, no foul.
I didn’t do it on the internet but I had a late night taxi home from work once (worked in a nightclub) and the driver asked if my husband was looking after the kids… I was 18 and childless (I’m early 30s now).
So I went with it, I explained how we’ve got 4 kids and DH puts them to bed and I’m home in time to have a quick sleep and do the school run in the morning 😂

Anon501178 · 20/02/2025 20:41

Hoppinggreen · 20/02/2025 20:34

No such thing when I was a teen BUT I did get up to all sorts on my CB radio and me and my friends used to make up outrageous stories to send into newspaper Agony Aunts (which we used to physically post)

This reminds me of when circa 2000 aged 12/13 I secretly used to listen to Graham Torrington's 'Late night love' on the radio with my headphones 😂 I was an only child with older religious parents so they would have been mortified if they knew, but it taught me all the juicy bits about romance and relationships that they would never have done and was probably more useful than the PHSE lessons at school for setting me up in such areas! 🤭😂

Createausername1970 · 20/02/2025 20:41

Nope, didn't exist in the 70s/80s. Was spared that anxiety.

VickyEadieofThigh · 20/02/2025 20:40

I turned 13 in 1971. The most radical thing we did involving 'technology' was to go to a phone box, put 2p in and listened to that day's 'Dial a disc' choice. None of us had a phone at home so we had to go to call boxes.

This - and you'll laugh - was a record out of the top 30 that you could listen to down the phone.

Wild, eh?!

Ilovegoldies · 20/02/2025 20:40

Baby centre? I caught a troll out there who faked a premature birth.

readingmakesmehappy · 20/02/2025 20:39

I am very glad that dial up internet meant I did not use it much when I was a teenager. I plan to keep my kids off it as long and as much as possible.

Username73638 · 20/02/2025 20:37

Togglebullets · 20/02/2025 20:35

Baby greenhouse? I wonder if I was catfished by you if so.

Like a previous poster I'm too old to answer your actual question but it's interesting to read why people do stuff like that.

Hopefully your life is a bit happier now

No, not me! But good to know other people were doing something similar haha. Yes I now have the family that I wanted ☺️ Very different baby names though…

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Ilovelowry · 20/02/2025 20:37

When I started university in the mid 90s, chat rooms on the Internet had just started. I remember randomly chatting to an American person at 3am online.

It was so novel I couldn't quite believe it.

Only worked if there was space on the computers, there were only ten in the halls of residence!

AgnesX · 20/02/2025 20:36

RampantIvy · 20/02/2025 20:32

😂😂😂😂😂

Online didn't exist in the 1970s, nor did mobile phones Grin

Edited

Or the 80s thank god

Togglebullets · 20/02/2025 20:35

Baby greenhouse? I wonder if I was catfished by you if so.

Like a previous poster I'm too old to answer your actual question but it's interesting to read why people do stuff like that.

Hopefully your life is a bit happier now

Hoppinggreen · 20/02/2025 20:34

No such thing when I was a teen BUT I did get up to all sorts on my CB radio and me and my friends used to make up outrageous stories to send into newspaper Agony Aunts (which we used to physically post)

RampantIvy · 20/02/2025 20:32

😂😂😂😂😂

Online didn't exist in the 1970s, nor did mobile phones Grin

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