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To ask what the strangest thing you did online as a teenager was?

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Username73638 · 20/02/2025 20:31

I’ll go first… when I was about 12 or 13 (mid-00s) I signed up to a UK mum/baby forum - I can’t remember what it was called but it was a bit like Mumsnet but way, way smaller, everyone knew everyone - and created a whole fake life and made a load of ‘friends’ on there who were presumably women in their 20s-40s. This was when the internet was a very different place and everyone had their kids’ names and DOBs on ‘tickers’ I think they were called in their signatures. There was minimal anonymity. I had a fake husband and a couple of fake kids with names and back stories and then ‘got pregnant’ and tracked a whole pregnancy and birth. All of my online ‘friends’ were really excited to hear the birth announcement and helped me pick the baby’s name. I made up a fake birth story. There was actually an in-person meet up with all the kids that I was invited along to but obviously I couldn’t go, I pretended that one of my kids was sick.

I still remember some of the names of the women and their kids and think about how old the kids would be now (in their 20s!)

Anyway after 1-2 years, can’t remember exactly how long, a group of them realised I was fake and ‘confronted’ me online. I didn’t confess but deleted my account and never went back.

I had a difficult home life and I think I wanted to imagine the happy family I might have when I grew up. It was a bit of an obsession though and I spent so many hours on there, basically every afternoon and evening after school. I’ve never done anything similar since, my catfishing days were over after that!

Did anyone else do anything similar online as a teenager, pretending to be anyone else or something?

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Andsoitbeganagain · 20/02/2025 21:30

Handbag.com.. Met my soul mate. 25 years later and he's still on my mind every single day.

RaveToTheGrave1 · 20/02/2025 21:29

Me and my best friend would use her dad's Packard Bell (amazing pc) to go on chat rooms, pretend we were older, add the creepy much older men on msn then screenshot them wanking off and send it to their family (if we could find them)

I don't know why but we thought we were doing a good service.

StMarie4me · 20/02/2025 21:29

@Anon501178 he still presents in Boom Radio! What a voice!

Shopaholic88 · 20/02/2025 21:28

I was only 11 when we got our first computer me & my friends used to go on random chat rooms having cyber sex with a load
of weirdos. Every time my mum came in the room we used to the monitor off so she couldn’t see what we were up to 😆

roseymoira · 20/02/2025 21:28

How did they realise you were fake, what gave you away?

OVienna · 20/02/2025 21:27

Hoppinggreen · 20/02/2025 20:34

No such thing when I was a teen BUT I did get up to all sorts on my CB radio and me and my friends used to make up outrageous stories to send into newspaper Agony Aunts (which we used to physically post)

Me too re CB radios! Prank telephone calls too.

GrandTheftWalrus · 20/02/2025 21:27

A/S/L?

FlowerUser · 20/02/2025 21:26

I remember calling 100 for the Operator in the 80s to ask who sang Goodness Gracious Me because my boyfriend and I couldn't remember. It was Peter Sellers. Now we would Google it.

AppleKatie · 20/02/2025 21:26

AOL chat rooms were the place to be for a fake persona.

And Yy to getting all your pshe info from Graham Torringtons late night love before then.

blimey it’s a wonder I have managed any functional adult relationships at all 🤣

ghostyslovesheets · 20/02/2025 21:25

VickyEadieofThigh · 20/02/2025 20:40

I turned 13 in 1971. The most radical thing we did involving 'technology' was to go to a phone box, put 2p in and listened to that day's 'Dial a disc' choice. None of us had a phone at home so we had to go to call boxes.

This - and you'll laugh - was a record out of the top 30 that you could listen to down the phone.

Wild, eh?!

Born 1970 - we used to ring a Mr Zebedee from the phone book with our emergency 2p and shout ‘time for bed … boing’ down the phone

heady days!

Echobelly · 20/02/2025 21:25

Late teens/early 20s I did meet up with one or two older guys from the internet - with no romantic intend on my side - who, while they did luckily take no for an answer, made me slightly uncomfortable.

Redpeach · 20/02/2025 21:24

It3s all a bit apple cider vinegar

littleluncheon · 20/02/2025 21:24

I also did loads of fake personas on websites as a teenager!

Talkinpeace · 20/02/2025 21:23

Walking down to the phone box with a handful of 2p coins was the nearest to "online" when I was a teen

Snowmanscarf · 20/02/2025 21:23

RampantIvy · 20/02/2025 20:32

😂😂😂😂😂

Online didn't exist in the 1970s, nor did mobile phones Grin

Edited

First post nails it!

AmiablePedant · 20/02/2025 21:23

MayaPinion · 20/02/2025 20:57

Sorry, that had nothing to do with the internet, it it’s still cringe 😬 😂

No it isn't! It just shows what happened when we had to make our own entertainment .......

Username73638 · 20/02/2025 21:22

verysmellyjelly · 20/02/2025 21:20

@Username73638 I really regret doing it, but the person in question has now died.

No judgement here! You’ve maybe topped my story though!

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Packingcube · 20/02/2025 21:22

The internet in it's early days was such a wild place 😆
I was always
18 F London Art student or similar I definitely was not.
Or
Mid 20s teacher from the North. I definitely was not
Had online relationships they used to send me gifts 😆
I distinctly remember an adult version of PayPal I had money pigs 😆

propllop · 20/02/2025 21:21

Had daily chats with an American man called Roger and thought I loved him. Stayed up all night once cos he said he would ring me, we never spoke on the phone 🤣 seems crazy now to think I was so invested.

verysmellyjelly · 20/02/2025 21:20

@Username73638 I really regret doing it, but the person in question has now died.

DobbyTheHouseElk · 20/02/2025 21:20

There wasn’t internet when I was a teenager, we didn’t even have mobile phones.

I did record the Top 10 off the radio onto a cassette by pressing play and record at the same time though…..

HowAmYa · 20/02/2025 21:19

I'm made a 'love website' dedicated to the guy I loved online (barf - I know!) we met in a chatroom 22 years ago. It was like a Myspace page but not quite.

He, in turn, made an entry into the now infamous 'urban dictionary' with an explanation of what my name meant. At the time it wasn't a huge site...

My name still comes up on there as does the 'definition' that he wrote 😂

A couple years after the 'love website', my first proper boyfriend found my page of love dedications and said I was fucking weird ended up dumping me....I hadn't realized those things lasted forever 😂 my friends couldn't stop pissing themselves over it!

Username73638 · 20/02/2025 21:18

@ShrimpBoil @Niknakcake nope and nope. It had the word baby in it I’m pretty sure.

@verysmellyjelly wow 🙊

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Soitis83 · 20/02/2025 21:18

I used a models picture and somehow ended up talking to Callum Best. I was 15 maybe 16. We exchanged numbers and talked loads. He wanted to meet but I blocked him when it got to that as I wasn't a skinny, adult model. I was a chubby, spotty teen 😂

verysmellyjelly · 20/02/2025 21:17

I emailed a murderer.