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Alifemoreordinary123 · 20/02/2025 20:14

I’m not highly educated or hugely politically savvy. But like many people, I’m horrified by Trump and Musk’s approach, propaganda and ideology. It’s increasingly possibly they will take the world to a very dark place. I keep thinking, surely there are enough counter powers - people with power and influence, leaders from business, media, the arts, politics across the Western world to try and counter some of their rhetoric. I’m not naive to the immense power they hold, but surely reason, sense, logic and hope will win over?

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neverthelastone · 20/02/2025 22:20

rabbitwoman · 20/02/2025 22:13

I said trump seems 'a little more dignified' than he was before and I gave a reason. And you didn't read what I said and went straight to telling me I was an idiot and hadn't seen his speeches and all the crazy things he has said.....

And I think that proves my point.

David Lammy called me a dinosaur, hoarding rights. Keir starmer told me I shouldn't say only women have a cervix. I get safeguarding training on how to spot FGM, forced marriages, how to spot CSA, but heaven forbid anyone should even mention grooming gangs.

Should I vote for them anyway? Despite the contempt they have for me?

No, I’ve read your “reason”, and I’ve seen a lot of Trump’s recent speeches and appearances and they are even less dignified and humble than the last time he was around. What on earth do you think is humble about them? Was it the calling himself a king? Was it the threatening of US allies? Or the bits about tariffs?

It’s possible to dislike fact-free fantasy nonsense about gender, and also when it comes in the form of lying shysters who’ve traded on popular ignorance, you know!

Whimsicalgrape · 20/02/2025 22:15

rabbitwoman · 20/02/2025 22:13

I said trump seems 'a little more dignified' than he was before and I gave a reason. And you didn't read what I said and went straight to telling me I was an idiot and hadn't seen his speeches and all the crazy things he has said.....

And I think that proves my point.

David Lammy called me a dinosaur, hoarding rights. Keir starmer told me I shouldn't say only women have a cervix. I get safeguarding training on how to spot FGM, forced marriages, how to spot CSA, but heaven forbid anyone should even mention grooming gangs.

Should I vote for them anyway? Despite the contempt they have for me?

But to go from "being a socialist at heart" to admiring someone who gives zero fucks about anyone but himself...?

neverthelastone · 20/02/2025 22:14

And we aren't chained to the BBC or the guardian or even the times or the mail now for information on which to form our opinions.

Sure. Now, millions of people can beam fact-free conspiracist nonsense straight into their brains from social media without a shred of the merest fact-checking getting in the way.

Sure, the BBC and the Guardian have their issues with gender/Palestine (I don’t read either any more). The Telegraph can be a foaming mass of Reform gubbins. But that doesn’t make the absolute lying nonsense churning around the rest of the internet any better. It’s far worse.

Only the terminally gullible would think that a great antidote to the mainstream media is the sheer idiocy that makes up the average social media “opinions”.

rabbitwoman · 20/02/2025 22:13

I said trump seems 'a little more dignified' than he was before and I gave a reason. And you didn't read what I said and went straight to telling me I was an idiot and hadn't seen his speeches and all the crazy things he has said.....

And I think that proves my point.

David Lammy called me a dinosaur, hoarding rights. Keir starmer told me I shouldn't say only women have a cervix. I get safeguarding training on how to spot FGM, forced marriages, how to spot CSA, but heaven forbid anyone should even mention grooming gangs.

Should I vote for them anyway? Despite the contempt they have for me?

neverthelastone · 20/02/2025 22:08

rabbitwoman · 20/02/2025 22:00

I saw some very dangerous and absolutely crazy ideologies take hold in education - I work in a school. I was given lesson plans showing that if girls wanted to cut their hair they were boys, and that George Floyd was murdered because he was black. Noone said a word when kids started to come into school wearing cat ears and pony tails, and despite there being readily available evidence that Iamne Khalif was a man he was still being reported by the BBC as a woman, and a marginalised one at that.

I blundered quite unsuspectingly into a conversation on Gaza - no expert am I, but I was amazed at how people were angrily and vehemently calling me a Nazi at the same time as supporting people who kidnapped and murdered Israelis. Honestly, it was baffling to me.

And we aren't chained to the BBC or the guardian or even the times or the mail now for information on which to form our opinions. I read, and listened, and frankly I think they are all a bunch of liars. I have faith and confidence in a very few independent journalists and commentators. They inform, present evidence, listen and consider, they don't align strongly with a tribe, they are respectful to people with opposite views and challenge those who they do agree with.

People change their minds when given decent arguments that hold water after respectful debate, they change their minds when given evidence and facts, and I see a lot of lying, obverscation and downright bullying from people I previously aligned with.

The same as millions of others, I will bet.

You want the pendulum to start swinging back the other way? Bloody well listen. Don't call me an idiot. Even if I didn't have an elevated IQ, I won't be won over by people telling me I am stupid and I should shit up and just think and do what they tell me.

I too think that gender ideology is stupid and idiotic. Pro-Hamas nonsense too. That doesn’t mean I have to think Trump is a good thing. He’s probably a far bigger danger to the world than anything else right now.

Much as I hate pronoun nonsense, you’ve got to have your priorities wrong if you think throwing your lot in with liars and dictators is better. Trump and Putin will wreck the postwar peace and democratic rule of law we have maintained for eighty years. You want Russian jackboots in Europe again and this time the US cheering them on?

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Aren't they just.

Whimsicalgrape · 20/02/2025 22:03

Andwhoisasking · 20/02/2025 21:58

Did I say they were? No. It’s not my fault you don’t understand the nuances of history.

It's not my fault you don't articulate well when you keep referring to the "far left" in your posts even though the UK hasn't had a "far left" government in my lifetime. Not my fault you can't grasp that. If you didn't feel heard you should have written to your local MP assuming you live in the UK or set up your own petition or campaigned or whatever.

rabbitwoman · 20/02/2025 22:00

I saw some very dangerous and absolutely crazy ideologies take hold in education - I work in a school. I was given lesson plans showing that if girls wanted to cut their hair they were boys, and that George Floyd was murdered because he was black. Noone said a word when kids started to come into school wearing cat ears and pony tails, and despite there being readily available evidence that Iamne Khalif was a man he was still being reported by the BBC as a woman, and a marginalised one at that.

I blundered quite unsuspectingly into a conversation on Gaza - no expert am I, but I was amazed at how people were angrily and vehemently calling me a Nazi at the same time as supporting people who kidnapped and murdered Israelis. Honestly, it was baffling to me.

And we aren't chained to the BBC or the guardian or even the times or the mail now for information on which to form our opinions. I read, and listened, and frankly I think they are all a bunch of liars. I have faith and confidence in a very few independent journalists and commentators. They inform, present evidence, listen and consider, they don't align strongly with a tribe, they are respectful to people with opposite views and challenge those who they do agree with.

People change their minds when given decent arguments that hold water after respectful debate, they change their minds when given evidence and facts, and I see a lot of lying, obverscation and downright bullying from people I previously aligned with.

The same as millions of others, I will bet.

You want the pendulum to start swinging back the other way? Bloody well listen. Don't call me an idiot. Even if I didn't have an elevated IQ, I won't be won over by people telling me I am stupid and I should shit up and just think and do what they tell me.

ThenUm · 20/02/2025 22:00

Andwhoisasking · 20/02/2025 21:58

Did I say they were? No. It’s not my fault you don’t understand the nuances of history.

Rude

Andwhoisasking · 20/02/2025 21:58

Whimsicalgrape · 20/02/2025 21:54

The "far left" were not in power 5-6 years ago. Wtf are you on?

Did I say they were? No. It’s not my fault you don’t understand the nuances of history.

ThenUm · 20/02/2025 21:58

BIossomtoes · 20/02/2025 21:49

The working class thought they’d be saved and they haven’t. We are facing huge squeezes on living costs, on top of: job freezes, redundancies, wage stagnation, etc. People don’t feel heard

Like the 1930s. Facism wasn’t the answer then and it isn’t now.

💯

madamweb · 20/02/2025 21:57

rabbitwoman · 20/02/2025 21:39

@ThenUm he seems to have listened and learnt. He's a bit more dignified. I think he sees his political comeback as vindication and old Trump may have gloated, but this Trump is a bit more humble.

He takes so much criticism and ridicule and contempt on the chin, but I think because he is confident of public support behind him, and the comedians and actors and pop stars who take aim are out of touch with the real lives of the voters. He's done something amazing, whatever you think of his politics, and he's gracious in his victory.

And no matter how much anyone disagrees and voiced their feelings, the people voted for him. Do you agree with democracy or not? Or do you think only people who pass some kind of IQ test should be able to vote?

Ummm. Trump isn't even in control. He's doing what Musk /Putin tell him to do. He's a puppet dictator.

But it's sweet that you think he's in charge. Although somewhat staggering you think he is dignified.

Presumably you are fine with all the wildly unconstitutional/illegal things that Musk /Doge /Trump are doing? Just trivia I guess?

madamweb · 20/02/2025 21:56

rabbitwoman · 20/02/2025 21:39

@ThenUm he seems to have listened and learnt. He's a bit more dignified. I think he sees his political comeback as vindication and old Trump may have gloated, but this Trump is a bit more humble.

He takes so much criticism and ridicule and contempt on the chin, but I think because he is confident of public support behind him, and the comedians and actors and pop stars who take aim are out of touch with the real lives of the voters. He's done something amazing, whatever you think of his politics, and he's gracious in his victory.

And no matter how much anyone disagrees and voiced their feelings, the people voted for him. Do you agree with democracy or not? Or do you think only people who pass some kind of IQ test should be able to vote?

Ummm. Trump isn't even in control. He's doing what Musk /Putin tell him to do. He's a puppet dictator.

But it's sweet that you think he's in charge. Although somewhat staggering you think he is dignified.

Presumably you are fine with all the wildly unconstitutional/illegal things that Musk /Doge /Trump are doing? Just trivia I guess?

neverthelastone · 20/02/2025 21:55

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Whimsicalgrape · 20/02/2025 21:54

Andwhoisasking · 20/02/2025 21:13

Meh. The west have been moving to populism for quite some time. The issue is people haven’t spoken up and in fact tried to shut people down. The far left really need to look in the mirror there. No good hand wringing now. The damage is done. Not addressing people’s concerns around immigration, wealth, tax, jobs, etc, etc. People have moved to populism and people who think they will ‘hear them.’ It happening here in the UK and across Europe. We aren’t far behind voting in populist leaders. Especially with the car crash that is Labour. They aren’t the answer people hoped for.

People try to shut it down shouting racist, far right etc and it just fuels it further. It almost seems unstoppable now. The time to speak and listen was at least 5/6 years ago.

The "far left" were not in power 5-6 years ago. Wtf are you on?

Andwhoisasking · 20/02/2025 21:50

BIossomtoes · 20/02/2025 21:49

The working class thought they’d be saved and they haven’t. We are facing huge squeezes on living costs, on top of: job freezes, redundancies, wage stagnation, etc. People don’t feel heard

Like the 1930s. Facism wasn’t the answer then and it isn’t now.

Quite. Doesn’t mean history isn’t repeating itself because it is. No-one has learnt.

BIossomtoes · 20/02/2025 21:49

The working class thought they’d be saved and they haven’t. We are facing huge squeezes on living costs, on top of: job freezes, redundancies, wage stagnation, etc. People don’t feel heard

Like the 1930s. Facism wasn’t the answer then and it isn’t now.

BIossomtoes · 20/02/2025 21:46

madamweb · 20/02/2025 21:42

Yes I cant work this bit out. I am hoping it is a sign of lots of stuff happening behind closed doors.

This is interesting.

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/feb/19/trumpism-bernie-sanders

neverthelastone · 20/02/2025 21:46

rabbitwoman · 20/02/2025 21:39

@ThenUm he seems to have listened and learnt. He's a bit more dignified. I think he sees his political comeback as vindication and old Trump may have gloated, but this Trump is a bit more humble.

He takes so much criticism and ridicule and contempt on the chin, but I think because he is confident of public support behind him, and the comedians and actors and pop stars who take aim are out of touch with the real lives of the voters. He's done something amazing, whatever you think of his politics, and he's gracious in his victory.

And no matter how much anyone disagrees and voiced their feelings, the people voted for him. Do you agree with democracy or not? Or do you think only people who pass some kind of IQ test should be able to vote?

Have you lost your mind? Trump has grown gracious, humble and dignified?

Have you actually listened to any of his recent speeches? Like the ones threatening Zelensky by repeating false propaganda? Or the ones denouncing his political opponents? Or the ones spouting unhinged and fact-free nonsense about NATO? Or the ones in which he threatens to annex Canada and invade Greenland? Or the ones where he rants about immigrants and tariffs?

Do tell. I’m looking forward to the explanation of his very humble new aspirations to invade other sovereign nations. Liz Truss has just given a speech about how much we should admire and envy Trump.

Come to think about it … Liz, is that you…?

Andwhoisasking · 20/02/2025 21:45

neverthelastone · 20/02/2025 21:36

You think Trump and MAGA aren’t idiots and liars? And is there really a hard left in America? The Democrats are as soft left as they come -- more like our Tory party.

Sure, the left needs to dump the excesses of gender politics and so on. But none of that was in the wider public sphere in 2016, and Trump was still a mendacious thick liar then. He hasn’t improved in the intervening years.

Musk was on Twitter/X today telling a genuine NASA astronaut some total bollocks about how he had offered to send up SpaceX spaceships to rescue astronauts at the International Space Station, and Biden had refused. SpaceX can’t even get a rocket out of the atmosphere without it blowing up. That’s the level of total, absolute, ketamine-fuelled, copper-bottomed delusion that’s going on at the top of American politics. (Last month the man was caught pretending he was a top scorer in a computer game he hired other people to play for him.) The level of absolute delusion and batshittery is, if you’ll pardon the pun, out of this world. And this is who is running amok “advising” Trump, the man who thought you could cure Covid by injecting bleach into your lungs.

Again what is it with you guys? Why does this was obvious = Trump supporters.

I am centrist. I am FURIOUS with the far left and the shit show they have enabled. The US is only a couple of years ahead of us. What is it now? Reform are 2nd behind the Conservatives. This lurch is appearing all over the west. Why?

The ordinary person on the street have had their rights trampled on whilst being told to shut up and pay. We are in dangerous territory in this country. The working class thought they’d be saved and they haven’t. We are facing huge squeezes on living costs, on top of: job freezes, redundancies, wage stagnation, etc. People don’t feel heard. People who have had genuine concerns about immigration or gender politics have been told to shut up. Racist, bigots, knuckle dragger, thick, arse holes, the list goes on. Those people are now more disenfranchised than ever and are going to leaders who make them feel heard. It’s almost like people don’t understand our own history.

The politics in the west from all sides needs to have a good hard look at itself. One side fuelling hate and the other side dismissing concerns as racist bigotry. It’s like how a fold mountain forms. The two sides have smashed into each other and the rock is filtering out in a forceful manner away from either side. A visual metaphor if you liked for exactly what is happening now.

ThenUm · 20/02/2025 21:44

rabbitwoman · 20/02/2025 21:39

@ThenUm he seems to have listened and learnt. He's a bit more dignified. I think he sees his political comeback as vindication and old Trump may have gloated, but this Trump is a bit more humble.

He takes so much criticism and ridicule and contempt on the chin, but I think because he is confident of public support behind him, and the comedians and actors and pop stars who take aim are out of touch with the real lives of the voters. He's done something amazing, whatever you think of his politics, and he's gracious in his victory.

And no matter how much anyone disagrees and voiced their feelings, the people voted for him. Do you agree with democracy or not? Or do you think only people who pass some kind of IQ test should be able to vote?

Ok. I think we may have to agree to disagree because I don’t see any of that.

More humble? He recently referred to himself as ‘king’ and regularly says how great he is.

Narcissists don’t change. Ever.

HRTQueen · 20/02/2025 21:44

Isn’t that part of the problem calling Trump thick

Similar happened here calling Farage thick

when you call them thick you are calling their supporters thick and both have excellent political acumen

hence why they are where they are and we have now left the EU

Midnightlove · 20/02/2025 21:43

Ablondiebutagoody · 20/02/2025 20:19

Trump is just withdrawing the US from (expensive) stuff that he doesn't think they should be involved in. Totally fair enough. Every other country in the World can step in to fill the void if they want to.

I do agree with that part, I don't agree with all the complete lis he's been spreading about the situation though

madamweb · 20/02/2025 21:42

outerspacepotato · 20/02/2025 21:40

I'm in the US and the dead silence from every Democrat but Bernie and AOC has been notable and dishesrtening. The moderate Republicans too. They're all MIA.

Yes I cant work this bit out. I am hoping it is a sign of lots of stuff happening behind closed doors.

ThenUm · 20/02/2025 21:42

RoastDinnerSmellsNice · 20/02/2025 21:27

Bearing in mind the minute someone writes on here about their parent behaving uncharacteristically, many MNetters immediately say 'he/she may have dementia', I'm really surprised that no one has suggested this about Trump. After all, when you look at how Joe Biden went downhill, and Trump is only 4 years younger, and talking the amount of shit that it does, it certainly makes me wonder whether he's lost his marbles.

He spoke rubbish in his first term too. Drinking bleach as a cure for covid. Not being able to say ’origin’ are two that I remember easily.

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