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LOST CAMERA FILM/DEVELOPED PHOTOS

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Playingchesswithpigeons · 20/02/2025 18:29

My daughter got a retro disposable camera for her 18th Birthday and just before Christmas took these to be developed at a well known national store. She was told to not collect until end of January, due to time of year. She's been to collect in the last couple of weeks and they initially couldn't find. After two weeks have stated they are lost! The pictures included her 18th Birthday activities, family holiday and new born niece.
The Store manager has been in touch ( I asked her to request this ) he claimed this has NEVER happened in his 15 years as manager, apologised and said thankfully you don't pay until collection, so at least hasn't lost anything!
I prompted daughter to ask, what is the next stage and would there by any compensation and he said " well, like what?" He said he was going on holiday this week and will ask the staff to have one final look and will ring her back on his return.

AIBU to think of course compensation should be offered?
Could anybody please advise what my daughter should suggest?

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Playingchesswithpigeons · 20/02/2025 18:59

neverknowinglyunreasonable · 20/02/2025 18:31

Was this written in 1995? Maybe he could offer some Blockbusters vouchers as compensation?

What do you mean?

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IHopeYouStepOnALegPiece · 20/02/2025 18:49

WHY ARE YOU SHOUTING?

I guess a replacement disposable camera would be fair but what more would you want

TwentyTwentyFive · 20/02/2025 18:48

It's a shame but I don't think they necessarily owe your daughter compensation. It wasn't done maliciously and it seems unlikely these were the only pictures taken of the events so she's not actually lost anything?

SwanOfThoseThings · 20/02/2025 18:44

We all know the pictures would be rubbish anyway. Over exposed, bad lighting, no filters etc.

Not true - I had disposable cameras at my wedding (before the smartphone era) and I got some great informal shots, including one that was my favourite picture of the day to the extent I copied it as an oil painting.

I don't want sodding filters on my photographs even now - I want to remember people as they actually looked, not a load of identikit Barbie dolls.

Anotherparkingthread · 20/02/2025 18:43

Yabu. This used to happen all the time when film was more popular, or getting somebody else's pics back.

I have literally tens of thousands of pounds of old film stock because I love it as a medium. Loss and damage is something you accept when you work with physical media and a chemical process, instead of digital.

MuddyPawsIndoors · 20/02/2025 18:41

Tell her to ask for a disposable camera or the equivalent cost.

SwanOfThoseThings · 20/02/2025 18:41

I think a monetary gesture would be nice, as your niece can't replace the photos she took - maybe £20?

UpUpUpU · 20/02/2025 18:40

We all know the pictures would be rubbish anyway. Over exposed, bad lighting, no filters etc.

I am pretty sure there would have been other pic from the occasions too. Annoying but not something I could get to worked up about

Strawberryfruitcorner · 20/02/2025 18:38

I’d say maybe a gift voucher or a free disposable camera. That’s it.

BoilingHotand50something · 20/02/2025 18:37

I am not quite sure what the compensation would be for. And I don’t believe that no one else would have taken photos of these occasions.

Superhansrantowindsor · 20/02/2025 18:36

Surely other pictures were taken and not just those on the disposable camera?

RubberyChicken · 20/02/2025 18:35

The cost of the camera i would suggest as it puts you back in the same position before it was lost

neverknowinglyunreasonable · 20/02/2025 18:31

Was this written in 1995? Maybe he could offer some Blockbusters vouchers as compensation?