DD11 is going to her friend’s party this weekend. The party is escape room, back to friend’s house, sleepover. She can’t make the sleepover because she has a full day of swim meet starting early on Sunday and she’s ok with that.
Where I’m not sure if I’m BU is the escape room. It conflicts with her other sport (trampolining) which is a sport we only agreed to her doing because she begged and pleaded - she already has a huge amount of time swim training and already misses a lot of trampolining because of swimming. So if I work out how much we are paying per session, it doesn’t look good 😆 Plus we’ve done an escape room as a family and she wasn’t really that keen on it so it’s not like it’s a favourite activity.
I’ve said I’ll take her straight from trampolining to the friend’s house and she can stay there til late in the evening but she thinks this is VU.
So am I being too strict or is it reasonable for her to miss both ends of the party but still get about 6 hours with her friends?