People keep telling me to get angry, buck up, etc about my husband of 27 years I caught cheating 3 weeks ago. I'm crying lots still and going over ans over the flashbacks of the day I saw them and thr lies he told me. Swearing on my kids lives he wasn't cheating. Me having to go for sti checks. I can't just get angry. Im still on shock. People are getting fed up of me irl I thjnk. He moved out and I've filed for divorce. His mother thinks I've been a bit rash in filing so quickly but I can't get over the lengths he went to to cover up his affair. Even shouting at me for being paranoid ans blaming my meds. I can't shake off the shock.