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Parents who are just too protective.

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SleepToad · 18/02/2025 20:06

Following on from the unpaid nanny thread where the step mum left an 11 year old for 10 minutes and then later cooked a meal with her. I walked past the local comprehensive school today. It's half term and the artificial sports pitch is being used for all day long coaching sessions. kids about 10 years old. There were 2 parents sat in their cars watching the training...they were spending their day overseeing the coaching of their kids in a group situation of about 30 kids and 4 coaches. If they don't believe their kids to be safe why send them?

It is also very noticeable how much less traffic there is on the road...kids not being driven to the comprehensive.

Am I being unreasonable to worry that we will have a generation of adults unable to do anything alone, unable to evaluate risk, even to cross the road because their parents are not allowing them the chance to indulge in some independent life of their own?

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VikingLady · 18/02/2025 20:11

Two parents, 30 odd kids. Stats would suggest that at least a handful of those kids have SEN or other support needs abc could likely only access that event if their parents were near. I certainly know mine could.

Get over it, stop being so judgemental and offensive about other people's parenting when you have no idea about their lives.

SleepToad · 18/02/2025 20:10

sprigatito · 18/02/2025 20:09

Do you actually know why they were there? Did you ask them? You sound really nosy and judgmental.

Maybe the deck chairs were a give away?

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YoungGunsHavingSomeFunCrazyLadiesKeepEmOnTheRun · 18/02/2025 20:10

I watch one of my dds sports because its a pain to get home and back again.

Another of my dds has serious health conditions and I encourage her to live her life as much as possible but I have to be nearby at all times (until we get the right meds) in case she has a fit.

There's a million reasons why they could be there.

sprigatito · 18/02/2025 20:09

Do you actually know why they were there? Did you ask them? You sound really nosy and judgmental.

UninterestingFirstPost · 18/02/2025 20:08

Are you sure that’s why they were watching the training? Perhaps they live too far away to return home and were listening to an audiobook while looking out the window