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Is anyone else just stuck in debt and fed up?

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Catsarekings123 · 18/02/2025 14:55

I am actually owed a refund of £1500 from something which will be wonderful, but it's just a waiting game and could be another 2 months yet, however I know I will be getting it.

I'm not the worst with money but I'm not the best either. Every month before my wage comes in I calculate everything that's going out that month, and what ill have left.

I live alone. To give a rundown:
Mortgage- £440, boiler cover- £31.50, gas- £35, electric- £35, water not yet been billed as moved in last few months, ongoing orthodontic treatment- £54, petplan and insurance- £43, phone contract and handset- £32, gym- £14, YouTube/netflix- £22, wifi- £24, £300 on clearing debt atm across x2 credit cards and one loan.
Student loan- £30, then it's food, public transport etc.

I know i could cancel the gym but it's working out at around £3.50 a week and benefits me hugely. I don't have any Sky or anything like that and only have netflix so watch a lot of films etc on it.

If anyone sees any areas I could cut back on I'd be willing to take suggestions..I paid £300 alone on my credit card this month but then had an unexpected £190 repair bill.
It's living alone with a mortgage which is stressful as you have to plan for these unexpected emergencies.

I don't get expensive clothes, make up, hair etc. Everything is as cheap as I can make it.
I'm changing jobs next week and will be on 28k base salary and have got an evening job which will be £300 extra a month.
I don't drive, mainly use public transport but occasionally take an Uber, as waiting outside in blistering wind and rain is depressing a lot of the time.
I don't buy expensive food either, do what I can in terms of cheap or free hobbies. Used to do a dance class but now I just do one on YouTube. Will restart running once it warms up next week.

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CharSiu · 18/02/2025 15:03

I have never had boiler cover, I understand replacing a boiler is expensive but I just pay 55 per year for a service. I think in the past they were a lot less reliable.

I do not have pet insurance, I personally would never put an animal through an extensive course of treatment when they have no comprehension of what’s going on.

The orthodontic treatment will end, how many more months is this expected to go on for? How long before the debt is paid off because that is obviously your main problem.

876543A · 18/02/2025 15:03

I personally have never paid for boiler cover - never considered it necessary.
I've got a good local tradesman who comes pretty quickly if ever I've needed him and has replaced a few parts over the years, but they've not been massively expensive.

Catsarekings123 · 18/02/2025 15:01

MyFlightWasAwfulThanksForAsking · 18/02/2025 14:59

😮 I live alone and my mortgage is three times that! If you can afford to pay for TV and the gym and have pets (I have none of these things) you don't seem that badly off.

It depends how much you earn? My mortgage is that much because my flat is the size of a shoebox and needs work doing.

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discdiscsnap · 18/02/2025 15:00

What does it work out per month after tax/pension?

Catsarekings123 · 18/02/2025 14:59

discdiscsnap · 18/02/2025 14:58

How much do you earn?
Can you consolidate your debt? Is it 0%?

Ive earned £29.5k up until this month, as of next month with tutoring if it hopefully lasts it'll work out as around £30-31k a year.

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MyFlightWasAwfulThanksForAsking · 18/02/2025 14:59

😮 I live alone and my mortgage is three times that! If you can afford to pay for TV and the gym and have pets (I have none of these things) you don't seem that badly off.

Catsarekings123 · 18/02/2025 14:58

The pet plan and insurance include a lot and I have a very good insurance deal for my cat, in the worst case scenario.

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discdiscsnap · 18/02/2025 14:58

How much do you earn?
Can you consolidate your debt? Is it 0%?

Catsarekings123 · 18/02/2025 14:57

I will hopefully move in with my boyfriend in a few months' time, that will reduce my outgoings a lot but I don't want to suggest it just for that.

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Catsarekings123 · 18/02/2025 14:56

Sorry forgot to include CT this month, already paid for this year but as of April will be £100pcm plus £100 service charge for my flat.

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