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To be exasperated by Vinted sellers

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Willyoujust · 18/02/2025 09:47

I’m fed up with negotiating with sellers on Vinted with ridiculous prices they want for things. I’ve tried to buy two items this morning. The first item, I could buy brand new off Amazon for the same price by the time the postage and packing and buyers protection had been added on. The item is £58 to buy brand new and I offered £30 which is just over half price. I think this is more than reasonable? The seller said they can’t let it go for less than £40 as it is brand new in the box? So what! If it breaks or doesn’t work properly then I can’t return it? So I want to get it at a bargain price if I’m buying it second hand? Not slightly cheaper than buying it new?

I won’t bore you with the second item but it was a similar situation where the seller was charging 100% of what it is brand new but dropped the price to 70%. With postage and packing this was still 85% new!!

Personally I think that if the item is brand new in the box or with tags then 50% of the purchase price is reasonable. If it has been used then 10%-20% of the purchase price is reasonable. That’s how I sell my items on there as I think it’s fair.

I know that they can charge whatever they like and it’s up to us if we buy it or not but I just wanted to rant a little about it as I find it so frustrating 😅

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DaphneduM · 23/02/2025 10:00

I think you have to keep an open mind - you can sometimes have disappointment with Vinted purchases. I never bother haggling - I either want to buy something at the price offered or I don't. And I always make sure that I press the button to say received and give feedback promptly.

I've had a few duds, but given the amount of things I've bought, that's to be expected. I've had some amazing clothes - things I couldn't possibly aspire to buying new. I've also found 99.9% of sellers genuine and lovely. Fashion is my hobby and I love vintage accessories - Vinted has been a treasure trove for me.

thedogatethecattreats · 23/02/2025 09:37

henlake7 · 22/02/2025 22:02

Got to admit I get annoyed with the amount of people selling things 'brand new, with tags' when the item only has the removeable brand tag attached not the price tag.
Like we can't tell the difference!

It's the "brand new without tag" that annoys me. It usually means they wore it once or twice. At least be honest about it.

thedogatethecattreats · 23/02/2025 09:36

MsCactus · 22/02/2025 22:00

I don't really get the logic of blocking someone who's interested in buying your stuff? You're actively blocking someone who wants to give you money and has hinted they're interested with an opening offer.

Surely if you want a much higher price just offer them a higher counter offer? They might accept. That's what haggling is

I am not using Vinted to haggle though. People are free to do it, but I can't be bothered.

If you make a ridiculously low offer, I'll decline. Then it's likely you will up the offer by a few pennies/ pounds, then again I'll decline, then you'll make another offer. I honestly can't be bothered.

I accept reasonable offers usually, especially if I have to drop things at the post office anyway. Half the time people don't come back to buy, which is fine, but I am not playing a haggling game on top of that.

bakebeans · 23/02/2025 08:47

Yes I’ve seen this. I’ve made it clear to the seller it’s the same price retail so they are not going to get a sale.
I tried to sell a coat which which brand new and I advertised it at half the price of what it was retail but people were offering me £5!
I’ve stopped bothering now x

CrotchetyQuaver · 22/02/2025 23:52

I share your frustration, but ultimately it's up to them as it's their loss. I offered £20 for a £25 summer dress that was listed 6 months ago, it got declined and I just thought oh well, I don't really need it! I thought I wasn't being cheeky but the seller clearly did...

henlake7 · 22/02/2025 22:02

Got to admit I get annoyed with the amount of people selling things 'brand new, with tags' when the item only has the removeable brand tag attached not the price tag.
Like we can't tell the difference!

DryIce · 22/02/2025 22:01

I tend to save my good quality/brand stuff for vinted, as I don't find it worth storing and packing unless you can make £10-£20 minimum for an item. Mostly they sell, but if they don't I'm usually happy to keep them or just take them next time I go to the charity shop.

I imagine there are other sellers like me - not desperate to sell, and know what their floor price is. So wild offers are ignored

MsCactus · 22/02/2025 22:00

thedogatethecattreats · 22/02/2025 21:47

fair enough, but I don't have time or will to deal with this. If someone offers me a ridiculously low price, I just block them, it's quicker than dealing with future silly offers!

I don't really get the logic of blocking someone who's interested in buying your stuff? You're actively blocking someone who wants to give you money and has hinted they're interested with an opening offer.

Surely if you want a much higher price just offer them a higher counter offer? They might accept. That's what haggling is

thedogatethecattreats · 22/02/2025 21:47

MsCactus · 22/02/2025 21:45

I'm also surprised pp seem to take this so personally. I haggle over everything - I usually offer the lowest price the app will accept as an opening bid, then increase if they won't take it.

I've got some great bargains and all the stuff I've had so far has been good quality. I also haggle with people when I'm selling stuff.

I enjoy Vinted - I think I enjoy it more than normal shopping

fair enough, but I don't have time or will to deal with this. If someone offers me a ridiculously low price, I just block them, it's quicker than dealing with future silly offers!

MsCactus · 22/02/2025 21:45

Karou · 18/02/2025 13:48

I’m amazed that you are taking it so personally. They can ask what they like and you can choose to either pay, haggle or scroll on to the next item.

i sell and buy all the time on Vinted and I haggle over everything, for me it’s part of the experience and fun of the site. It’s not personal if I offer half the asking price for an item and I wouldn’t consider it personal if they reject my offer.

I'm also surprised pp seem to take this so personally. I haggle over everything - I usually offer the lowest price the app will accept as an opening bid, then increase if they won't take it.

I've got some great bargains and all the stuff I've had so far has been good quality. I also haggle with people when I'm selling stuff.

I enjoy Vinted - I think I enjoy it more than normal shopping

SaveMeFromMyBoobs · 22/02/2025 21:01

It does frustrate me how often I see a dress on 'only worn once, pristine condition' for £50, then on the same places website it's on sale for £40! I've offered £25 and they say 'no way I paid £80 and only wore it once' and seem to think me being able to get it new from the shop for £40 is irrelevant.

HundredMilesAnHour · 22/02/2025 20:51

Ontobetterthings · 22/02/2025 19:39

Yeah I had this. I bid £95 for a £160 designer bag that was used. The bag is still for sale weeks later. I went to offer a higher bid but they had blocked me. I didn't think my bid was that bad tbh

The bag was on sale at £160 used or it would be £160 if bought new?

If it was £160 used and you offered £95, I’d block you too. You’re a time waster rather than a serious buyer.

thedogatethecattreats · 22/02/2025 19:49

Ontobetterthings · 22/02/2025 19:39

Yeah I had this. I bid £95 for a £160 designer bag that was used. The bag is still for sale weeks later. I went to offer a higher bid but they had blocked me. I didn't think my bid was that bad tbh

If they are anything like me, sometimes I'd rather not sale than sale at a ridiculously low price.

You have no way of knowing what the seller has in mind, but sometimes it's just about selling everything fast for very little, but other times there's no rush

Ontobetterthings · 22/02/2025 19:39

Yeah I had this. I bid £95 for a £160 designer bag that was used. The bag is still for sale weeks later. I went to offer a higher bid but they had blocked me. I didn't think my bid was that bad tbh

Zusammengebrochen · 22/02/2025 19:31

JustFeedMeCake · 22/02/2025 19:19

I stand by my comment but also happy that it's given you what you were looking for. Maybe I'm just not that invested in clothes.

"Oooh maybe I'm just not that invested in clothes"

Petty snippy little quip 🤣

Eh?
I think someone might be projecting.
I didn't say that there's anything wrong with being interested/invested in clothes, for yourself, for your kids, for necessity, for fun, and so on, just that I'm not bothered enough to spend time seeking stuff out.

JustFeedMeCake · 22/02/2025 19:23

@Thirteenblackcat ah thank you, this was sent with EVRI. I looked at her feedback today and it seems she makes a habit of never picking items up. Weird.

I don't sell a huge amount but I do it to raise money for a charity very close to my heart, so I'll check buyers feedback from now on as well as sellers. Thank you ☺️

JustFeedMeCake · 22/02/2025 19:19

I stand by my comment but also happy that it's given you what you were looking for. Maybe I'm just not that invested in clothes.

"Oooh maybe I'm just not that invested in clothes"

Petty snippy little quip 🤣

Zusammengebrochen · 22/02/2025 18:50

JustFeedMeCake · 22/02/2025 18:47

There's definitely some absolutely tat on there but if you select carefully,you can avoid it all. I have some beautiful items, brand new with tags for a bargain price. I know what brand and size I want, new with tags and I check the sellers feedback .

Must just ask any Vinted selling experts please, if a buyer doesn't pick an item up from the locker/shop, what happens to it? My name and address aren't on the parcel, so it won't find its way back to me.

I stand by my comment but also happy that it's given you what you were looking for. Maybe I'm just not that invested in clothes.

Thirteenblackcat · 22/02/2025 18:50

JustFeedMeCake · 22/02/2025 18:47

There's definitely some absolutely tat on there but if you select carefully,you can avoid it all. I have some beautiful items, brand new with tags for a bargain price. I know what brand and size I want, new with tags and I check the sellers feedback .

Must just ask any Vinted selling experts please, if a buyer doesn't pick an item up from the locker/shop, what happens to it? My name and address aren't on the parcel, so it won't find its way back to me.

if it’s InPost, they track it back to you. It happened to me last week

edited to add, it got delivered back to my house

JustFeedMeCake · 22/02/2025 18:47

Zusammengebrochen · 21/02/2025 15:13

Vinted is a pointless jumble sale these days.

There's definitely some absolutely tat on there but if you select carefully,you can avoid it all. I have some beautiful items, brand new with tags for a bargain price. I know what brand and size I want, new with tags and I check the sellers feedback .

Must just ask any Vinted selling experts please, if a buyer doesn't pick an item up from the locker/shop, what happens to it? My name and address aren't on the parcel, so it won't find its way back to me.

Zusammengebrochen · 21/02/2025 15:13

Vinted is a pointless jumble sale these days.

Thirteenblackcat · 21/02/2025 15:12

Willyoujust · 19/02/2025 12:23

So it’s okay for you to make 200% profit but if someone else does it, it’s greedy? Make it make sense 😆

i don’t see anything wrong with this tbh. The market is everything. She grabbed a bargain and recognised their worth

thedogatethecattreats · 21/02/2025 10:13

SaveMeFromMyBoobs · 20/02/2025 15:56

But that's exactly the problem. They're good quality and you're only wearing them once. Why? Do you not like them? Vinted isn't there so you can keep buying new clothes without spending much money, it's to reduce the massive amount of waste clothes that's come as an output of fast fashion. To sell clothes you would have chucked out rather than them going to landfill.

Your way of doing it may mean you're only needing to spend a few quid on yet another new outfit but also results in the added carbon footprint of sending your old clothes on to the buyer. You should be able to buy fewer high quality pieces and wear them multiple times over multiple years.

You know Vinted is a business right?

It's designed for Vinted to earn money, it's not an ethical charity. It took them a while to make a profit, but it's a good model.
Yes, they have a good ethos and hopefully a positive impact.

Vinted is there for whatever you want use it for.

Of course some people use it as "fast fashion", buy then sell back.

Sessili · 20/02/2025 18:46

Re: customer protection... Vinted has some form of that as well. Besides, Vinted is mostly used for accessories, clothes, books, toys etc. Not generally products that have much of a warranty if you buy new anyway. When have you last tried to return a dress that shrunk in the wash? Or a book that you decided not to read after all? Or a board game that's missing a piece? It's not so easy, even if you are within your rights.

Anyway, if I put "very good" or "as new" as a seller, I mean it. Buyers can decide to trust me, or not. If they don't want to trust me, then yes, they should probably buy new, but I'm not going to sell it dirt cheap just because. And if you're going to take significantly less pleasure in a new purchase just because it is slightly creased, then you probably shouldn't buy secondhand either.

I generally use Vinted to resell (and buy) popular brands of clothes and toys that really retain their value, so have never run into this issue. Sometimes I do get cheeky offers from buyers, but that's usually just people who haven't done their research. Yeah, you're lucky to get even a pound for Primark jeans, but that's not the case for all brands.

FluffyRabbitGal · 20/02/2025 16:18

With Vinted, it all boils down to how much you’re willing to pay. I like to shop secondhand as its better for the planet as well as my purse, but it’s not always feasible as people ask laughable amounts of money for some items.