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To ask what you do for fun when you're skint?

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Jgoe92k39ns9skd · 17/02/2025 19:37

I'm living month to month atm but hoping this will change eventually.
There are only so many free museums, galleries and parks you can do, especially in this weather and they're not open during the evenings.
In terms of eating out as well, I'm not looking to go to fancy restaurants every time and id be happy with a Wetherspoons tbh or just going for a hot chocolate. I don't drink alcohol either.
It gets tedious having to constantly clean dishes, I do a mixture of fresh cooking, frozen ready meals and very basic meals.

Honestly it's hard sometimes. Looking for any suggestions or advice.

OP posts:
Achyarms · 17/02/2025 20:27

Library!

EleanorMc67 · 17/02/2025 20:26

writingsonthewall · 17/02/2025 20:10

Is it just me or is £15 for 2 drinks and 2 bits of cake not exactly the bargain of the century

It's not, in its own right - but you get 10% off plants & possibly other stuff. So it's not bad if you're into gardening!

gmgnts · 17/02/2025 20:25

Jgoe92k39ns9skd · 17/02/2025 20:22

I've never owned a Tesco club clubcard but maybe it'd be worth me getting one?

I saved £31 (on a bill of £101) on my Tesco clubcard yesterday! Admittedly, I was buying expensive booze birthday presents for DH, but normally you can expect to save 10% on each shop.

Temporaryname158 · 17/02/2025 20:24

Get every loyalty card there is. Even if they are slow to grow, it eventually adds up and many give freebies every now and then

i have Tesco, Waitrose, Morrisons, Costa, cafe nero, Sainsbury’s just off the top of my head!

Temporaryname158 · 17/02/2025 20:23

Some of the ideas on here are great and I shall be using them. Mine are

a lot of libraries are warm hubs now and have hot drinks available. Get a good book, relax with a hot drink for free

i volunteer at a charity, any expenses are paid (but it doesn’t cost me anything anyway) it gets my brain working and is social

update your home using freecycle, regular scrolling can help you do up your home for free!

a lot of universities do free courses. Could you join one and learn a new skill?

could you use your free time to earn more to stop living month to month? But something that’s fun…

perhaps dog or house sitting? Babysitting? Respite caring if you have a spare room or are interested in care work

Jgoe92k39ns9skd · 17/02/2025 20:22

I've never owned a Tesco club clubcard but maybe it'd be worth me getting one?

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Oooooomph · 17/02/2025 20:17

One of my favourite books is called "How I Lived a Year on Just a Pound a Day" by Kath Kelly. It's not a recent book so the 'pound a day' is probably no longer possible. She ended up having a great year by seeking out unusual free experiences that often included food. I re-read it every year for inspiration. Your local library might have a copy - I found mine in a charity shop for £1! 😊

madamweb · 17/02/2025 20:15

It's a while since I was in this position,.and when I was I had young children, but things that worked for me

  • saving points on things like Tesco vouchers - we had quite a few meals out /trips out and even holidays thanks to these!
  • selling bits on facebook market place (I expect vinted has replaced this now?) and using the money from that for new clothes /activities
  • doing bits and pieces of extra work on top of my day job and using the funds to pay for day trips /holidays. I used to work in a polling station every May and that made enough for a flight somewhere., for instance.
  • working overtime whenever I got the chance.
  • going on little "adventures" - even a walk can be nice if it is somewhere different
  • volunteering for events like fun runs etc, it added interest to my life and meant it felt like I was living not just getting by
  • going to the library and getting out books/dvds
OMGitsnotgood · 17/02/2025 20:11

When I.bought my first house, I was skint.. I took a couple of shifts at the local pub. It was a little bit extra cash but it was a way of spending a sociable evening talking to people without spending any money. Gave it up as my day job became more demanding but it was fun

writingsonthewall · 17/02/2025 20:10

hopingforthemillion · 17/02/2025 20:06

Is There a Dobbies near to you? They do a yearly membership….around £15 I think but you get two free hot drinks a year and then on your birthday they give you a voucher for 2 pieces of cake if I remember rightly

Is it just me or is £15 for 2 drinks and 2 bits of cake not exactly the bargain of the century

Weedoormatnomore · 17/02/2025 20:09

I use a tesco cc and use my points for a nearly free dinner every now and again at Ask have to pay for drinks but like me you don't drink alceso will be cheap.

writingsonthewall · 17/02/2025 20:08

If you like music festivals, volunteer at them for Oxfam or similar. You have to pay for the ticket upfront but get it back once you've completed the festival. You camp there and usually get a free meal per shift so if you take your own food and drink you can do it really cheaply

JudgeJ · 17/02/2025 20:08

hopingforthemillion · 17/02/2025 20:06

Is There a Dobbies near to you? They do a yearly membership….around £15 I think but you get two free hot drinks a year and then on your birthday they give you a voucher for 2 pieces of cake if I remember rightly

I wouldn't join Dobbies, they're closing a lot of them!

JudgeJ · 17/02/2025 20:07

Jgoe92k39ns9skd · 17/02/2025 19:54

Thank you! This is giving me motivation.

If it's something that interests you, you could investigate your family tree for free at most Libraries, you have to join the Library but that's free too! It can pass a couple of hours and you may find the skeleton in your family cupboard!

YourChirpyFatball · 17/02/2025 20:07

I know you said you're skint but I pay 12.99 for Premium YouTube and learn so much from it, including history , cooking, sewing, DIY, black & white films. It's endless.

hopingforthemillion · 17/02/2025 20:06

Is There a Dobbies near to you? They do a yearly membership….around £15 I think but you get two free hot drinks a year and then on your birthday they give you a voucher for 2 pieces of cake if I remember rightly

Weedoormatnomore · 17/02/2025 20:06

LittleRedRidingHoody · 17/02/2025 19:46

Wetherspoons breakfasts are always such a steal, I wonder how they actually make money off of them - so if your budget doesn't stretch to a dinner out maybe try breakfast?

If you've got a Vue near you and would be happy with a solo date, you can see if any friends have Monzo/Sky codes to give you for free cinema trips (I have 1 code left for this month if you want it I'd be happy to DM it to you)

Sign up for as many apps/coffee shop newsletters as you can - there are often some good 'new joiner' offers which will give you a free coffee/sweet treat for signing up.

You have my sympathies. Being skint in winter is so dreary!

That's a lovely gesture.

YourChirpyFatball · 17/02/2025 20:04

I'm making my very first solo trip to the cinema this week. During the afternoon. To see the Bridget Jones film. I'm quite excited as it means I'll have jumped a hurdle going alone and also seeing the actual film. Plus treats! Then I plan to go more often.

Danikm151 · 17/02/2025 20:03

If with kids

kids session at odeon- £2.50 each then morrisons cafe- kids eat free if you spend £5-cheaper than wetherspoons.

if you get Uc there are some places in london where you can get tickets for £1-3 each. Cheap coach down and it’s a whole day out. We went to tower of london a few months ago. Total £30 including the tube from Victoria coach station.

wafflesmgee · 17/02/2025 20:00

Knitting patches for a blanket whilst listening to books, libraries do a free app now called borrow box where you can get audiobooks. I try to do whole series in one go so that I get a bigger sense of achievement eg “oooh the winter of 2020, that was my jack reacher winter” etc
reading
choose a cookbook and challenge yourself to cook every recipe. I did this with a Paul Hollywood bread book a few years ago, took me 6 months doing one a week but I really enjoyed it and learnt a new skill
learn a new language
couch to 5k app

i like lighting a candle when the evenings r grim, feels nicer to embrace the winter sometimes

MiddleClassProblem · 17/02/2025 19:59

I’d probably use Too Good To Go a bit and have some bits that I haven’t cooked that way but look for deals. If using a supermarket with points the I’d look into using those for food in or out.

I would look for mid week menu deals too or lunch if I am able to get out then.

Moonnstars · 17/02/2025 19:58

Community cafes. They are often cheap and some offer free food too (think one in the community centre near me currently does soup on a Thursday)

Community larders for different food items.

Look at freebie sites. Sometimes there are free cinema showings.

Silver screen at the cinema..apparently you don't have to be old to attend these (these showings are often cheaper and get a hot drink and biscuit)

Flamingoknees · 17/02/2025 19:57

Rough age group OP?

Redruby2020 · 17/02/2025 19:56

Pompom12 · 17/02/2025 19:41

Sorry these are random...
Church every Sunday, some have cakes after
Wetherspoons hot chocolate with free refills
Visit the library
Walking in the countryside
Walking through the town
Birdwatching
Tree spotting
Stargazing

Ooh yes I like the sound of the hot choc refills 😊

HundredPercentUnsure · 17/02/2025 19:54

Overtheatlantic · 17/02/2025 19:42

Volunteering. You get to do free stuff for a good cause and meet people.

I second this! I used a website called Do It, you can Google it I think it changed its name to 'do it life' now!

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