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To be shocked watching back kids movies from my childhood with DD

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Picklepower · 17/02/2025 17:10

DD is 6 and we watch quite a few films together, mixture of old and new. Last Halloween I was so excited to watch a film from my childhood, decided against hocus pocus but went with Casper. Well, turns out not once but TWICE Eric idle's character shouts BITCH at Carrigan. (She's is tbf but a bit much for a Pg film).

Just sat down to watch Charlie and the chocolate factory (from 2005!) and mike teevee says 'even a retard could figure it out'. What the hell!

Any other corkers you've come across watching back your childhood films?

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cakeorwine · 18/02/2025 07:57

Scentedjasmin · 17/02/2025 23:00

Jaws is a good one. I sat down to watch it with my 10 year old son, thinking that as it was a PG it would be fine. Lots of swearing, teenagers drinking, smoking weed and heavy petting in the sand dunes. I couldn't believe that it was a PG.

Teenagers swearing and drinking bothered you?

What did you think about the naked teenage girl being eaten by a shark and her naked body being found bitten in half and the description?

In a film about a killer shark on the loose, eating people.

It was rated as an "A" when it came out - a PG today

"Jaws was classified ‘A’, uncut, by the BBFC in 1975. This was the equivalent of ‘PG’ today, and was the subject of some debate at the BBFC at the time, as it was recognised that the work contained some intense and frightening ‘horror‘ moments. The BBFC considered that the film would have an enormous appeal to boys of 10 or 11 upwards, and it consulted child psychiatrists and showed the film to test audiences of children before deciding on the ‘A‘ category. Also, Jaws was one of the first films to be given content advice. Part of the terms of its classification was that a sign should be displayed in cinema foyers, saying 'Parents are warned that this film contains sequences which may be particularly disturbing to younger unaccompanied children"

https://www.westminster.ac.uk/research/groups-and-centres/centre-for-law-society-and-popular-culture/projects/classified/the-exhibits/jaws

H34th · 18/02/2025 07:56

We tried to watch Home Alone 2 this Christmas and had to turn off. It wasn't the slapstick violence as such but the language- too many insults and name calling. Also the movie clip where a man kills a woman and calls her a filthy animal, the general lying, the sibling fighting.
Not our idea of fun.

dafa · 18/02/2025 07:52

TheChosenTwo · 17/02/2025 17:28

My youngest is now a teenager (13) and it’s a minefield sitting down to watch some of the old classics with him.
I went for a safe option the other night, trains planes and automobiles - all fine pretty much until Steve Martin goes off on a rampage and uses the word fucking about 20 times in a minute 😂
to be fair I don’t mind the odd bit of swearing in stuff and it was a 15 so my own fault!
But I do agree, and if anyone has any recommendations for any old classics to watch with nothing too hardcore I’m all ears.

lol me and my brother used to quote this to each other when I was younger! Too young 😂

blubberball · 18/02/2025 07:36

I find the violence in Home Alone to be like cartoon Tom and Jerry violence. I grew up watching Tom and Jerry, and Bottom, so I loved comedy violence

ChompandaGrazia · 18/02/2025 07:32

JoyousGreyOrca · 17/02/2025 23:14

Jaws is a 12A

It was a PG when on VHS. It used to be shown on the TV afternoon or early evening.

Vimaybe · 18/02/2025 07:24

@StMarie4me completely appreciate that and I didn't except all sunshine and rainbows. I was shocked as I was a huge Disney fan as a child but clearly some of these finer details had gone over me. That or I'm made of stone 😂

RiceBubbless · 18/02/2025 06:50

OMG began watching Raiders of the Lost Ark with my teens. First they were disgusted by the racist portrayal of 'natives' . Then Marion says he took advantage of her when she was a child. And we switched it off.

Trainstrike · 18/02/2025 06:12

I rewatched Liar Liar the other day as I remember loving it as a 9/10 year old. I have no idea why 😂 the first thing Jim Carey does when he can't lie is tell a woman she's got big jugs he wants to squeeze, not Tom mention he calls his ex wife to say he can't come to their son's birthday as a woman is on top undressing him.

I wanted to try The Mask or Ace Ventura with my primary age kids but think I may hold off!

Itstwentytwentyfive · 18/02/2025 05:29

The Steve Martin many fucks scene in Planes, Trains and Automobiles is an excellent scene for children, within reason. They almost certainly know of the word anyway whether you like it or not. Don't forget the end of the scene, where the airport woman says, "oh dear... You're fucked".

It is a good example of suffering the consequence of one's actions as the woman would probably been more inclined to help him if he had kept a civil tongue in his head. That's a teaching moment.

Plus, it's really fucking funny.

YankSplaining · 18/02/2025 03:51

Onlyvisiting · 17/02/2025 20:45

Tbf. 'Back in the day' retard WASN'T an insult, it was the correct term. Which then became used as an insult and we changed the terms we used.
I remember seeing an old touch of frost on repeat (David Jason police series) that would have been mid 90's, the MC referred to DS boy as retarded, the parents offendedly corrected him that the correct term was handicapped. My point is that at that time the series was made retarded was the previously correct but outmoded term. It wasn't always an insult.

Can’t speak as to the UK, but in the US, at least, “retard” has never been a correct term and has always been considered insulting, though “retarded” hasn’t (provided it was being used to describe a person actually diagnosed with mental retardation).

YankSplaining · 18/02/2025 03:44

gettingtothebottomofit · 17/02/2025 22:31

It's not really a slur in the US, it's seen the same way as idiot is here.

Same way they happily say crippled to refer to a disabled person.

(points to username)

It’s definitely a slur in the US, though it was considered less so during the 2000s. That was the same era when people said “that’s so gay” to mean “that’s so stupid.”

I’ve never heard anyone use “crippled” for a living person. Maybe for fictional characters like Tiny Tim.

YankSplaining · 18/02/2025 03:40

My kids just got into the movie “Ratatouille.” I forgot that Remy (the rat) literally gets shot at by an old lady. Also, I feel like the whole plotline of Linguini being the son Gusteau never knew he had is kind of adult. They literally collect hair samples and run a paternity test.

Re: ET and “penis breath” - my husband and I talked once about how we interpreted that line as kids. I just thought, “Why would someone’s breath smell like a penis? That doesn’t make sense. Huh.” My husband thought it meant someone’s breath smelling like sweaty genitals, because sweat smells bad.

RamsestheDamned · 18/02/2025 02:51

Honestly, try Thumbelina. I remembered it so fondly then I played it for DD. Talk about problematic...

lili8448 · 18/02/2025 01:48

Blue lagoon, we had it on tape such a weird disturbing movie

PyongyangKipperbang · 18/02/2025 01:39

NRTFT but I remember some years ago an MNer being utterly horrified when she was reading the Harry Potters to her child when the word "Git" was said by Ron.

I remember posting that she should stop now as the language would get worse, not least Ron calling Malfoy a bastard in the final book!

Kids are better hearing this stuff and being taught context at home than when they are at school.

Isittimeformynapyet · 18/02/2025 01:35

Ilovegermany · 17/02/2025 17:59

Watching films again from the 80s is so different now. When they were on BBC or ITV some scenes were deleted or the words dubbed over so there was no swearing in the films when we were younger.
I can remember watching Beverly Hills Cop in later years and being shocked with all the swearing fairly near the beginning when the boss has a go at Axel. That wasn’t what was on the TV when I was younger.
but I’m of the era when Relax was banned and fuck was said on Channel 4 for the first time on British TV.
I still feel uncomfortable with people using the word fuck - especially non-English mother tounge people that don’t really know it is pretty bad in English.

The first f-word broadcast on UK TV was Kenneth Tynan in 1963 (although Miriam Margoles said it by accident earlier).

TheresNoPiccalilliInThisJar · 18/02/2025 01:27

Ok I just had to double check and Snopes say it is definitely is
https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/the-rescuers-topless/

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To be shocked watching back kids movies from my childhood with DD
Kneeboobs · 18/02/2025 01:23

Yep the pussy wagon in grease went over my head until I was an adult.Watership down was really bloody scary!! The flasher gremlin!! David Bowie wanting a child bride in labyrinth,legend and never ending story traumatised some kids lol.
Andre is a lovely film about a girl and a seal we all loved as a family.

TheresNoPiccalilliInThisJar · 18/02/2025 01:19

Dyslexiateacherpost88 · 18/02/2025 01:14

Omg! A 5 year-old drew barrymore says penis-breath in the first 5 minutes of e.t. I took my kids to see this wholesome u at the cinema for it's anniversary age 5 and 7. I nearly choked and was so stressed the rest of the film. Can't believe they allowed this on a u. Super shocking.

The scene where Elliot says it was an unexpected surprise for the lady who plays his mum. I remember seeing an interview with her (think it was an anniversary event). Rather than reshooting the scene Spielberg loved the way she looked and was indeed very shocked but also how she kept her composure and finished the scene 😆

TheresNoPiccalilliInThisJar · 18/02/2025 01:15

Coloursofthewind2 · 17/02/2025 20:42

In the rescuers, bianca wasn't allowed to go off on her own to do a rescue mission and had to take a man mouse with her (Bernard) because she's a woman.

I remember it being shown at school and one of the kids saying there was a naked woman in one scene for a split second and no one believed her. But it turned out to be true 😆

Dyslexiateacherpost88 · 18/02/2025 01:14

ChompandaGrazia · 17/02/2025 17:58

I put ET on for my class to watch years ago. It’s a U so that’s fine, right?
One kid calls another ‘penis breath’…..

Omg! A 5 year-old drew barrymore says penis-breath in the first 5 minutes of e.t. I took my kids to see this wholesome u at the cinema for it's anniversary age 5 and 7. I nearly choked and was so stressed the rest of the film. Can't believe they allowed this on a u. Super shocking.

Chocoholicnightmare · 18/02/2025 01:12

What about Top Gun, where he follows her into the toilets like a stalker?

user1492757084 · 18/02/2025 01:11

My kids adored Grease. It was the dancing. They had a sound track tape and played it every lunch time at school and made up dances - to be put forward for performances at school assembly. Ha ha ha.
They did the same with Beauty and the Beast and The Little Mermaid.
They loved Little Rascals, The Simpsons.

I liked The Sound of Music, Kimba the White Lion and Snow White. I also loved Lassie and ALL the DisneyLand films like - The Three Lives of Thomasina and Pollyanna.

JandamiHash · 18/02/2025 01:09

PixieLaLar · 18/02/2025 01:06

Disney’s Peter Pan.

The sexism, the way all the female characters want Peters attention and are all jealous of each other.

The creepiness of Peter sneaking into children’s bedrooms at night to kidnap them.

The way Tinkerbell is portrayed in general.

And of course the racism.

Another one I watched and realised Peter was a total cunt. If he was my kid I’d tell him to fuck off to never never land as well

PixieLaLar · 18/02/2025 01:06

Disney’s Peter Pan.

The sexism, the way all the female characters want Peters attention and are all jealous of each other.

The creepiness of Peter sneaking into children’s bedrooms at night to kidnap them.

The way Tinkerbell is portrayed in general.

And of course the racism.

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