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To be shocked watching back kids movies from my childhood with DD

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Picklepower · 17/02/2025 17:10

DD is 6 and we watch quite a few films together, mixture of old and new. Last Halloween I was so excited to watch a film from my childhood, decided against hocus pocus but went with Casper. Well, turns out not once but TWICE Eric idle's character shouts BITCH at Carrigan. (She's is tbf but a bit much for a Pg film).

Just sat down to watch Charlie and the chocolate factory (from 2005!) and mike teevee says 'even a retard could figure it out'. What the hell!

Any other corkers you've come across watching back your childhood films?

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Sometimeswinning · 18/02/2025 19:12

SquawkerTexasRanger · 17/02/2025 19:12

See also “you are supreme, the chicks’ll cream for grease lightning!” 🤣

I went to find the lyrics to prove you wrong! Turned out you’re right and they don’t scream. 😂🤯

ScartlettSole · 18/02/2025 19:12

I remember writing my film review on Misery in primary school 😂😂 i bloody loved it. Could have only been about p6! My Personal reading review in p7 was on silence of the lambs 🙈.
So a film with the word bitch in it wouldnt have phased younger me at all i suppose.
Still a disney girl at heart though!

Newlittlerescue · 18/02/2025 19:09

the goonies should be a safer one

You'd think so, but when I watched it the other day I cringed at the upskirting scenes

fingerbobz · 18/02/2025 18:56

We recently watched Mrs Doubtfire and there are a lot of Bastards and Assholes in the first half hour

My 6 year old hasnt heard these words before

pebbles8811 · 18/02/2025 18:49

I loved robocop and the running man as a kid and I’m talking under age 10 were they in appropriate of course but I still love those movies and watch them whenever they are on. As adults we see the nostalgia in the movies we watched as kids we don’t remember the bad stuff or things we shouldn’t have been watching (not meaning the movies I’ve mentioned) it’s not u til we watch it back as an adult we’re like wtf were we watching. I will throw Addams family values In to the mix uncle fester and Debbie getting jiggy no idea as a kid as an adult I get it shouldn’t have been allowed but still love it and let me kids watch it because they don’t get it either like we never at that age.
we watch these films and love them for the story and adventures, give me an 80’s 90’s or early 2000 movie any day most movies made these days are shit

Washinghanginginthesun · 18/02/2025 18:39

Trainstrike · 18/02/2025 06:12

I rewatched Liar Liar the other day as I remember loving it as a 9/10 year old. I have no idea why 😂 the first thing Jim Carey does when he can't lie is tell a woman she's got big jugs he wants to squeeze, not Tom mention he calls his ex wife to say he can't come to their son's birthday as a woman is on top undressing him.

I wanted to try The Mask or Ace Ventura with my primary age kids but think I may hold off!

I loved Jim Carey in The Truman Show which he plays much straighter than his other characters. I can’t stand his gurning in pretty much anything else. Wish he had done more non-comedic/only light-touch comedy stuff.

Tried watching Liar Liar with my daughter but gave up after fifteen minutes.

DeadSpace3 · 18/02/2025 18:37

Shetlands · 17/02/2025 20:02

Remember The Clangers? I met an actor / musician years ago who was one of the people using a slide whistle to make the Clangers' voices. He said they needed a script to work from, otherwise the whistles didn't sound like real language. He also said that the scripts were filthy and liberally peppered with swearing but only they knew that!

There's something to share with your tots when watching it! 😂

You're correct. There was a section in a documentary a while back & it showed how the whistle sound matched the script - "sod it, the bloody thing's stuck again" 😆

There's other stuff too that comes up when you Google it 🙂

Brefugee · 18/02/2025 18:32

Justploddingonandon · 17/02/2025 17:30

I never understood why people thing Greese is a family show. Quite apart from the whole teenage pregnancy storyline, I hate the message it gives when Sandy basically totally changes herself to get the boy.

Only got this far. They both did

cornflakecrunchie · 18/02/2025 18:30

The Brave Little Toaster terrified my little ones some years ago!
https://encrypted-tbn1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTjxDSPts89cjoBQX59H7PVpGHvJ_Zp1aMD1Cx9Pm6-VUMdi8Cz Bit dark..

Not a film but I hated Tracy Beaker when my kids were young. They got threatened that if they EVER spoke to me like that little shouty madam, I wouldn't be responsible for my actions..

Washinghanginginthesun · 18/02/2025 18:29

ByMerryKoala · 18/02/2025 14:32

Yes, our local cinema was as lax at the ticket booth as it was at its bar. Different times.

Our local cinema up until quite recently would put an intermission into films to sell ice cream and cups of tea (with cups and saucers from a big teapot).

Fangisnotacoward · 18/02/2025 16:50

BeaAndBen · 17/02/2025 17:32

That’s because you are watching PG films, not U films. A film with a PG rating can have limited swear words. The rule of thumb was something that could be watched by “a reasonable 8 year old”, I think.

Local authorities could overrule ratings for films shown in their area. Mrs Doubtfire was a PG in most places and a 12 in a few because there’s a joke about the ex wife chipping her teeth on a vibrator. Some local councils felt that was too much for a PG rating.

There was a long running joke in the 80s and 90s about the “Spielberg PG” - watch Jurassic Park or the heart ripping scene from Temple Of Doom and you’ll see what they meant. Those films had things no other director could get away with in a PG.

If you want no swearing, stick to U.

With the notable exception of the infamously rated U watership down, where the seagull tells one of the rabbits to "piss off" 😂

merryhouse · 18/02/2025 16:28

@Minimili Thelma and Louise: on the first night of their trip someone tries to rape Louise so Thelma shoots him, thus prompting the running away and the eventual drive into the canyon.

It's a great film, but not for kids.

JoyousGreyOrca · 18/02/2025 14:41

The big cinemas in cities were not lax in my experience back then. It was small local cinemas that had a couple of teenagers or early twenties staff working there at night. Once the manager had gone home, they did not care who they let in.

ByMerryKoala · 18/02/2025 14:32

SunsetCocktails · 18/02/2025 14:30

Well quiet but I remember watching it and thinking it was all about dancing. Only watching it years later I realised it wasn’t. Can’t remember how old I was the first time I saw it at the cinema definitely not 18.

I remember going to watch so many 18 movies from about 15 onwards. They'd just ask you your age at the ticket desk and you'd pipe up "I'm 18" and job done!

Yes, our local cinema was as lax at the ticket booth as it was at its bar. Different times.

SunsetCocktails · 18/02/2025 14:30

Well quiet but I remember watching it and thinking it was all about dancing. Only watching it years later I realised it wasn’t. Can’t remember how old I was the first time I saw it at the cinema definitely not 18.

I remember going to watch so many 18 movies from about 15 onwards. They'd just ask you your age at the ticket desk and you'd pipe up "I'm 18" and job done!

JoyousGreyOrca · 18/02/2025 14:11

Mymanyellow · 18/02/2025 13:09

Well quiet but I remember watching it and thinking it was all about dancing. Only watching it years later I realised it wasn’t. Can’t remember how old I was the first time I saw it at the cinema definitely not 18.

Saturday Night Fever was originally an art house movie and was meant to be gritty. But it was re released after the success off Grease.
Some small local cinemas back then were staffed by young adults who did not care much about age restrictions. I saw Midnight Express at 15 in the cinema and I looked about 12. The young guy in the box office did not care.

Mymanyellow · 18/02/2025 13:11

Just googled 1977 I was 13 so not sure how I managed to watch it at cinema.

Mymanyellow · 18/02/2025 13:09

SunsetCocktails · 18/02/2025 12:42

That was a product of its time though. It's one of my favourite ever films. I think the message in it goes over most people's heads, they just assume it's some disco dancing movie when it's so much more than that - it's about escapism from the dead end life and fucked up place New York was in the 70s, with its racism, sexism, homophobia, violence etc. It was always meant to be a dark movie, and definitely not for kids.

Well quiet but I remember watching it and thinking it was all about dancing. Only watching it years later I realised it wasn’t. Can’t remember how old I was the first time I saw it at the cinema definitely not 18.

JudgeJ · 18/02/2025 12:58

Speaking of Eddie Murphy, another film I would recommend is "Trading Places" (1983) with Eddie Murphy, Dan Aykroyd and Jamie Lee Curtis. A really great film.

One of my favourite films of all time, I seem to find something new every time I watch it.
All those people pearly clutching about various films, I wonder how many of you saw these films as young teens etc and noticed what you're now complaining about? An adult sees far more, especially if they're forensically looking for it, than a young viewer.

JudgeJ · 18/02/2025 12:52

WearyAuldWumman · 17/02/2025 20:19

That's the one, I think! He was certainly yelling "Heehaw!" while he did it...

I vividly recall going to see a modern interpretation of the Canterbury Tales in Leeds, a school party arrived just as it was starting, accompanied by the Nuns from their school. In one story, can't recall which one, a couple are in bed, shown as a sheet held vertically with much action going on behind it. The school party all stood up, led by the Nuns, and left, as noisily as they'd arrived. The Nuns clearly didn't know the Canterbury Tales!

SunsetCocktails · 18/02/2025 12:42

Mymanyellow · 17/02/2025 20:14

Saturday Night Fever hasn’t aged well either.

That was a product of its time though. It's one of my favourite ever films. I think the message in it goes over most people's heads, they just assume it's some disco dancing movie when it's so much more than that - it's about escapism from the dead end life and fucked up place New York was in the 70s, with its racism, sexism, homophobia, violence etc. It was always meant to be a dark movie, and definitely not for kids.

Snugglemonkey · 18/02/2025 12:25

NoseyFarkers · 17/02/2025 19:40

We watched Gremlins with our eldest dc when they were about 6 and 8.

All the gremlins stuff - fine.

Total horror moment - the Santa's not real bombshell drop 😱 Totally did NOT recall that 😬

I remembered that when my dc asked to watch it and said no. It is a shame as I know the older would love it, but I am preserving that as long as possible.

BreakfastClubBlues · 18/02/2025 11:11

Problem Child.

I loved it as a kid! Watched it with my two and was horrified when the the 'baddie' broke into the kid's house and raped his step mom...but she liked it, fell in love with him and they ran away together 🥴

Justploddingonandon · 18/02/2025 10:44

I do actually love Greese ( though had forgotten about Danny also changing himself), just don't think it's appropriate for pre-teens.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 18/02/2025 09:11

Lunde · 17/02/2025 22:53

When I was at Uni in the 80s Monty Python Life of Brian was banned by the local council for being blasphemous.

Love LOB. The scene with Michael Palin as the ex leper is one of my favourite things in life.