Being naked in front of DP/DH

You sound fun to share a bed with 🤣

Faeces and urine?? Why would they be in the bed? We get into the bed clean and thankfully still have control of my bladder and bowel! Not all men are hairy.

Some PP has mentioned sleeping naked. I think it's gross. Bits of faeces and drips of urine in your bed. 🤢 Not to mention that the bed must be full of body hair if it's a man sleeping naked. And so, so many skin cells. Wearing pyjamas helps keep the bed cleaner.

My bed could moonlight as a food preparation surface

I’d agree with most of it, apart from the sleeping naked. DH sleeps naked, but it’s too cold for me to sleep naked, unless v hot summer. Women in general do get quite cold - I have two adult teen kids - ds sleeps in boxers only but dd sleeps in some sort of pjs that will vary according to weather. I think it’s because men generally feel warmer. DH will sleep naked no matter how cold it is. If it’s really freezing, I’ll sleep in a fleece or dressing gown.

I'm in the walk around naked and lights on for sex camp. Sex with the lights always off or low would be far to restrictive and very boring.

I think if you have a good relationship then it's a shame if your partner never gets an opportunity to just look at you and enjoy what you look like naked, men are visual creatures. It's also sad not to be able to enjoy and appreciate your own body.

Plus you can get them to agree to anything if you ask while you're naked and moisturising after a shower 😅

My DH and I would happily walk around naked in front of each other for the 50 years we were together right up to a couple of weeks before he died (and only stopped as he was in hospital). We loved seeing each others bodies, often showered together, and slept together naked from day one. I would have thought that was a normal part of married life.

I have 2 adult sons and they still do this!

You shower twice a day? [misses point]

I'm not bothered at all.. however I dont tend to walk around naked, it's just between the bathroom and getting changed etc

I don't. But I'm probably quite repressed in a lot of ways.

Would feel too vulnerable, which I just wouldn't like.

Probably too old to change now.

If men wanted ‘mystery’ in the bedroom, they wouldn’t watch porn.

I guarantee you that if there’s one thing that any normal man wants to see in the bedroom, it’s as much of their partner’s body as possible.

Literally no man has ever said ‘I really wish my partner was more inhibited about her body in bed’.

If you’re self-conscious, then of course that’s up to you and you’re entitled to hide your body if you want to and I’m sure your partner is understanding about that. But I don’t believe ‘a bit of mystery works’ when it comes to sex. At all.

I’m not a Naked Person. I get dressed as quickly as possible after showering, and I sleep in a big t-shirt, knickers and socks. I feel really uncomfortable being naked, even when I’m alone.

I’ve always had body issues though; I was very overweight from childhood until about a year ago (I’m in my mid 30s). I’ve lost 140lbs and my body looks like a burst couch. I’m even more self-conscious now that every inch of me looks like a wrung out dishrag.

Maybe this is to do with your upbringing. All 3 of us (2 brothers and me) used to sit on the loo and chat to mum when she was in the bath 😂😂😂 I don’t know what age my brothers stopped this … probs teens? However, I still do this 🤣

I’m more than happy for my DP to see me naked but I’ve never seen my sister naked and I doubt she’s seen me naked since I was about five, so I don’t think there’s a connection.

I can't imagine not frolicking naked in front of my partner. For us it's one of the benefits of being in a safe and happy relationship. I've introduced him to nude swimming and saunas on holiday too.

But no judgment if that's not for you and you shouldn't feel pressure to get nekked unless you like how it feels.

What???????

Batshit madness and totally made up!😂😂

If he ever once called me fat that would be the last time he saw me naked. In bed. I’m the shower. At all. Because my love would have died for him.

I walk around after the shower twice a day - it always seems to stop my husband in his tracks or has him finding a reason to come and talk to me. I am the same size and shape as when I met him 25 years ago, and it's just something I've never stopped doing.

He also walks around naked post shower - which I enjoy. He played rugby at school so has no concerns about being naked around non-family members too.

This has reminded me. When me and my DH were younger we had an emergency where he nearly died in the middle of the night during his sleep (he has a condition). I called an ambulance but when they got there I couldn’t leave him, even for a second to open the door and the operative on the phone said don’t worry, police are with them and will force entry. In storms a couple of police officers and 4 ambulance crew and I’m naked knelt on the floor next to the bed with my DH unconscious, also naked on top of the bed!

Even after that, we still both sleep naked.

I have never been able to do that, I'd be worried that there would be some rare emergency in the middle of the night, and I'd be scrambling for clothes, or attempting to climb out of a window butt naked.😂
Now I have young dcs who are old enough to remember what they see so it's a no go for that as well, as don't want them scarred for life. I also like to wear a stretchy bed bra, I think it helps support and I feel more comfortable in it.

I’m fine with a partner seeing me naked, but I’m definitely not walking around naked. It’s so cold, I’d freeze my bits off! Also I’m definitely not fine with my neighbours / passers-by seeing me in my birthday suit as I stroll past my windows…

Question for those who say they are “always naked” do you have really warm houses and keep the curtains closed?!

My kids have never cared about seeing either me or my DH naked. I didn’t care about seeing my parents naked either. It’s just bodies. They are quite confident kids and always let us know if they’re not happy about something.

But as a family we recognise that not everyone is as relaxed about it as we are. My kids have some friends whose families are the same and others who are quite the opposite.

He sounds like a judgemental dick who is going to slowly grind you down.
Honestly- is life with him really better than being single? He just seems like he is low level awful most the time.

We both walk around naked, we have had up and down weight over the years but neither of us are self conscious.

We don't poo, fart or burp in front of each other though!!