Being naked in front of DP/DH

I know. 😕Even now I can't believe I put up with it for several years.

This might blow your mind.

When you love someone, whether romantically or platonically, things like their weight don't bother you. Physical flaws don't bother you. My ex partner was technically overweight, but I thought she had the most beautiful body I'd ever seen. My DH is hideously scarred from the waist down and all up his ribs, I think he's the most beautiful man I've ever seen.

Our kids don't give a fuck about daddy's scars, and my ex partner's kids don't give a fuck about their mummy's round belly. Both of these people are human beings, and fucking wonderful ones. Far better than you with your self indulgent vitriol.

I'd suggest therapy over weight loss injections. You can change the outside but it's your mind that needs the real help.

Blimey. 😳

@Marshbird - I have no brothers, just one sister and she is almost 8 years younger than me. My dad didn't wander around naked and my mother was, I think, the most prudish woman I've ever known. But I was a teenager during the Summer of Love and perhaps that put paid to all my moral standards?

<on edit> I don't tend to spend much time walking around the house naked ... why would I? But I happily walk from the bedroom to the bathroom and back and get dressed/undressed in front of MrG without even thinking about it.

The only reason I am currently more modest, is to avoid traumatising my 14 yo DS 😂If DS is out of the house, I have no problems being naked. Even DS sees me in my bra and pants - he's not phased by that, and I feel it's important that 'normal' bodies are seen.
However, if someone else has an issue with being naked, I don't see an issue with that, either.

No I don't feel comfortable walking around naked, even in my own home with just DH there. I mean, why walk around naked? I just find it a bit weird. I would be cold too. As well as feeling very vulnerable and exposed.

I am 3-4 stone overweight and feel self conscious anyway, but even so I wouldn't. Never used to when I was a size 10 either . Also, when my DH and I were much younger, some days he would use any opportunity to grab and grope me - if he felt horny... And if he saw me naked he would grab me and pull me down on the bed, or couch, or floor, for a shag. (This was the 1990s.)

It got on my nerves so much being used as a fucking machine, that I started locking the bathroom door behind me and making sure I was fully clothed when I came out of the shower. And I got dressed in the morning (and night) in the bathroom. (So he rarely saw me naked.) And I shut the kitchen door when I was in there as I got fed up of him coming up behind me and slapping my arse and my grabbing and kneading my breasts.

Yes I know, fucking awful behaviour, and I did put a stop to it eventually after several years, by yelling at him and telling him I was fucked off with him pawing me and grabbing me for a fuck when it suited him. He sulked for a while and said 'can't I even touch my own WIFE now?!' And I said 'if you want a fucking machine go to a prostitute.' Hasn't been like this for 25+ years but for a few years, he was fucking annoying.

tl;dr, this is why I stopped being naked in front of him - ever, unless we were actually going to shag, as I didn't want to risk him trying to get his end away like a randy dog! First sign of my tits and fanny and he would be like 'phwoarrrrr!' (And thought I should be 'flattered' that he fancies me!)

I would never have stayed with him if he had carried on like this.

It was just me, my sister, and my mum growing up. We were always really relaxed about nudity. My sister and took baths together for years and we'd both sit and chat to my mum in the bath too.

I think it probably did help me to feel relaxed in my own body because I was aware of what a normal woman's body looks like. I knew from childhood that it was totally normal to have a few wobbly bits.

Well, you’re on weight loss injections yourself and you’re here ripping into women, calling them fat, and telling them to cover up…

My DH has seen it all, watched me birth his children, wiped my arse when I had severe food poisoning dressed me when I was so ill I couldn’t. I’ve never had a problem walking around naked in front of him and I am absolutely not slim, round body, currently 16/18 been as big as a 22, J cup boobs and yes the hang low, can’t quite tie them in a bow though.

Mind your own business.

You’re a really spiteful poster. You seem very unhappy and I might suggest a better hobby than posting spite.

This says more about you than the PP. Our children come out of our vaginas, FFS. Our naked bodies shouldn’t repulse them!

Haven’t you got threads about weight loss injections? Your name rather stuck in my head. You also weren’t kind to someone yesterday.

Anyway, with the WLI in mind, I wonder if maybe you’ve not got the healthiest outlook on body weight. As is suggested by the vitriol in this post.

Yup I wander about naked all the time that kids are about. I'm very proud of my body. It grew and fed two babies. DP loves it.

We’re pretty comfortable being naked around each other. I will call him in to bring me a towel for example, walk around naked sometimes if getting clothes etc and we get dressed in front of one another. I don’t love my body though and often feel a bit self conscious but he’s never made me feel insecure or uneasy.

I don’t think anyone has seen my naked since I’ve have been able to have a say in the matter (so…I don’t know…maybe aged 4 or so?). I’m very private and feel uncomfortable with no clothes on, even when I’m on my own. It’s not at all about body image or not trusting my husband.

Every time I gave birth my husband was sitting, holding my hand and his face close to my face, I never had to say “don’t look at anything else than my face” as he knew how I felt about it.

I love and trust him - I just don’t like being naked.

Never occurred to me that people might judge our whole relationship based on that. 😂

ETA like a previous poster I was also 100% breastfeeding!

Brilliant 👌

🤣well that my theory debunked !

FYI, I grew up with sisters and don't feel comfortable walking around naked or letting my partner see me naked!

I'm always naked.