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To think a lot of horse owners don't deserve their animals?

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Goodnurseorgremlin · 16/02/2025 21:20

I keep my horse on a DIY livery yard. We have access to daily turnout with no time restrictions throughout the entire winter.

For the last three months the vast majority of the horses on the yard have had little to no turnout. Some literally stand in their stables for days/weeks at a time, with the owners mucking out around them. I could count on one hand the horses that are regularly turned out aside from my own

It just makes me so so sad. These poor animals being imprisoned for months at a time for no good reason. The owners basically can't be arsed to turn out and bring in because they don't want to walk to the fields or get themselves/their horses muddy.

AIBU to think these people don't deserve the privilege of caring for these amazing animals if they can't even be arsed to meet their basic need for freedom?

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boulevardofbrokendreamss · 17/02/2025 08:22

In winter we have to bring them on by 4. Yo turns them out at 7. Once the mud gets better they'll be out full time

Prancingponies · 17/02/2025 08:11

We have 24/7 365 days of the year turnout available. And mine are on their own track and winter paddock, divided by electric fencing.

Currently they are a bunch of mud monsters, but they are very happy about it too. They have a movable field shelter so it can be repositioned and strip graze the middle section of the track/winter paddock currently.

Hell my only concern is that temps are going to reach 12+ by the end of the week so we may have a sudden spurt of grass/lami risk.

biscuitsandbooks · 17/02/2025 08:09

elastamum · 16/02/2025 21:47

That's why I built my own yard. Ours are on daily turn out with hay in the winter. They are out at least 5 hours a day. Clipped and rugged and as happy as larks. They live out from April to October coming in for a snooze in the day if it is hot or flies are bad. They are all very chilled.

Five hours of turnout is pretty pitiful though - I know you say you're there daily for exercise and company but that's still a lot of time stuck in a stable.

Jc2001 · 17/02/2025 08:03

ChancesAreLow · 16/02/2025 21:29

Thank you!

That seems cruel to not do that at least once a day.

A dog is treated better.

Well, some dogs are treated better. There are plenty of lazy and irresponsible dog owners about.

biscuitsandbooks · 17/02/2025 08:01

Medical needs and genuine bad weather aside, I think it's cruel to keep horses cooped up in a stable and I think it'll be one of those things we look back on as animal neglect in years to come.

Horses are designed to roam and move and graze - they're not designed to stand in a stall with no means of moving around or socialising.

All the yards around here offer 24/7 turnout and I don't know anyone who keeps their horse in a stable unless medically necessary (or if they're just being kept in for the farrier etc.) And we're in Cumbria so there's no shortage of mud or rain!

Renovationhell · 17/02/2025 07:56

This used to drive me crazy on livery.

I would be up at 6am to turn out and bring back in at 4/5pm (only because mine was left alone or it would have been longer!)

The yard owner would complain all the time that the fields were trashed and would regularly stop us putting out. We also weren’t allowed to hay fields so they would just argue, rip rugs and bicker all day. This happened on multiple yards not just one!

As it happens I no longer have horses because I find lots of owning them unethical, unless you have the funds to do as you please.

Janelle84 · 17/02/2025 07:55

in some cases the idea of having a horse vs the reality of going out in all harsh weathers twice a day is quite different. Youve got to be completely dedicated to the animal!

maddening · 17/02/2025 07:53

Is there not a minimum turn out requirement? Surely less than minimum would be considered neglect or cruelty.

TuesdayRubies · 17/02/2025 07:53

That's so awful OP. YANBU.

elastamum · 17/02/2025 07:45

Bayonetlightbulb · 16/02/2025 21:56

So stuck in a stable for 19 hours a day?

Mine are in work, so they come in a couple of hours before it gets dark so I can ride and groom. I am retired and spend several hours a day in the yard so they aren't left alone in a stable. They have ad lib hay. 5 hours winter turnout for a horse in work is plenty. As soon as our ground dries enough in spring they live out.

Thatnameistaken · 16/02/2025 22:56

The yard I'm on turns out whatever the weather, we'll perhaps bring in early if they're stood at the gate looking miserable but they're out every day.
My boy comes in through the day in the summer, keeps him out of the flies and heat and he always has a nice lie down.

Honeyroar · 16/02/2025 22:47

Goodnurseorgremlin · 16/02/2025 21:35

@bellsend I don't get people bringing in for night in summer (unless for health reasons) My boy is out for the summer as early as allowed. I'm counting down the days🤣

Mine come in at night in winter. If it’s really wild weather we have a hard standing turnout and they go out on that all day with hay. In summer we flip it round and bring them in during the day (away from the heat and flies). We may turnout 24/7 for a month or two in spring before the flies start if we get a nice spell.

Completely agree about clipping and rugging. When I was young you only ever had trace clips. And nobody clipped their own. That’s why people only do full clips, they can’t do lines! Most people shouldn’t be allowed near a pair of clippers.

Serencwtch · 16/02/2025 22:40

I've never been on a yard where that was the norm & don't know anyone who does keep their horses like that.
Mine are either out 24/7 or in for a few hours in the daytime to dry off & get their feet out of the mud.

Isitafaultykitten · 16/02/2025 22:40

YANBU. Where I am the fashion very much seems to be individual turnout and lots of "duvet days " in winter. It makes me so sad to see it. Mine spends his winter looking like some sort of bog dwelling creature but he's happy and relaxed.

Goodnurseorgremlin · 16/02/2025 22:35

@Ridergirl Well I did rent my own place for years when I had more horses. Livery yard life has certainly proved an eye opener!

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Goodnurseorgremlin · 16/02/2025 22:34

@poppinjay Don't get me started on the clipping and rugging. Horses fully clipped out that barely do any work. Then smothered in rugs.

My boy is unclipped and unrugged. He's the only unrugged horse on the yard!

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RiderGirl · 16/02/2025 22:24

YANBU. We were incredibly lucky and managed to buy our own bit of land 2 years ago. When setting up the stables my main concern was that our horses should be able to come and go as they please, so that's what we did! They've got free access to the yard (with 2 big open shelters and loads of hay), but can come and go from the field as they please. I would never, EVER go back to a livery yard if it meant they had to be stabled all the time. Zero excuses for owners who simply can't be bothered to turn them out, poor horses.

Ihatemondays1962 · 16/02/2025 22:19

Ineedanewsofa · 16/02/2025 21:29

Where is this mythical yard with unrestricted winter turnout?!
It’s so frickin wet here most yard owners are insisting the horses are in, we are lucky that our yard is still allowing morning turnout (8-1)
But I agree that unless advised by a vet (or due to yard owner decree!) all horses should be allowed to be horses and out as much as possible with adequate rugs and shelter

I have had horses on three different yards over a 20 year period and they have all had unrestricted turnout so it's pretty common.

Poppinjay · 16/02/2025 22:12

Where we are there is masses of good quality year-round turnout and there are unworked natives breeds rugged 24/7, turned out for no more than an hour a day and then given huge feeds full of beet and mix. They are overweight and laminitic and it's heartbreaking to watch.

Lots of people have told them how cruel it is but it falls on deaf ears. I'm sure they think they're being kind to them, despite what people tell them.

Shame there isn't the resource for anyone to regulate livery yards.

Girlmath · 16/02/2025 22:12

YANBU. Horses are designed to be moving.

Bayonetlightbulb · 16/02/2025 21:56

elastamum · 16/02/2025 21:47

That's why I built my own yard. Ours are on daily turn out with hay in the winter. They are out at least 5 hours a day. Clipped and rugged and as happy as larks. They live out from April to October coming in for a snooze in the day if it is hot or flies are bad. They are all very chilled.

So stuck in a stable for 19 hours a day?

bellsend · 16/02/2025 21:53

Goodnurseorgremlin · 16/02/2025 21:35

@bellsend I don't get people bringing in for night in summer (unless for health reasons) My boy is out for the summer as early as allowed. I'm counting down the days🤣

Mine are now out all year round all day and all night. The field is muddy but I have hard standing for feeding. I’ve got stables I can use but they are natives and hardy. The stable is mainly used for me to pee in 😂

hattie43 · 16/02/2025 21:52

To add I have my own yard on 7 acres and could rent it out everyday of the week . It's only 2 stables / storage barn but around here very few horses have this amount of land per horse .

Glitchymn1 · 16/02/2025 21:51

No YANBU but we ill treat /abuse all animals.

hattie43 · 16/02/2025 21:49

I agree . My area has a lot of concerned Facebook posts about horses living in dire straits and some in paddocks literally under water . The trouble is too many are trying to keep horses on a shoestring budget and these people can't really afford a horse .
To keep a horse in good condition in the tight livery is expensive . It's the cheap purchased horses in rented fields that tend to slip through the net because there's no-one around to keep an eye on them .

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