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To think settlements/compromise agreements can’t be THIS common…?!

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Uyyyy · 16/02/2025 18:58

A friend I used to work with recently confided in me that she had an 80k settlement (she was a high earner) after she claimed her boss didn’t like her as she was a single mother to two children with separate fathers and that he used to actively set meetings she couldn’t attend due to school pick up. She said she never had to even go to court, she just caused one hell of a fuss, went off sick and then they paid up. It turns out another friend from an entirely different company got six months pay for basically not much at all other than a fall out with line manager (large accountancy practice). I have also read the thread on here earlier about someone trying to get a settlement after being threatened with a PIP and posters saying to go for it etc… I am amazed by this, surely most companies take a hard line and force you to go to a tribunal rather than handing out a few months pay without the case even being heard?!

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Doggymummar · 17/02/2025 08:35

My last two jobs I left with settlement agreements. Both were three months salary and both handles things appallingly. My union were magnificent

bullrushes · 17/02/2025 08:33

DameCelia · 17/02/2025 08:15

That's not a settlement Agreement if she kept her job.

That isn’t correct. A settlement agreement settles statutory employment claims. Not just dismissal related claims.

namefornow88 · 17/02/2025 08:31

My previous company did it a lot. The MD had an attitude of "I want this person gone, pay whatever it costs to make them go away". We worked in an industry where tendering for work was common and most tenders ask "has your company been subject to an employment tribunal in the last 5 years". So even if the company was confident they would win they would just settle to avoid damaging future business prospects by having to declare a tribunal

DameCelia · 17/02/2025 08:15

Loveduppenguin · 17/02/2025 07:37

A friend of mine got a 15 K payout from a major supermarketing because she slipped on a grape and sprained her ankle. All she did was send them a Solicitors letter saying she was going to take them to court for negligence and they paid straight out no questions asked.

That's not a settlement Agreement if she kept her job.

Loveduppenguin · 17/02/2025 07:37

A friend of mine got a 15 K payout from a major supermarketing because she slipped on a grape and sprained her ankle. All she did was send them a Solicitors letter saying she was going to take them to court for negligence and they paid straight out no questions asked.

Redcrayons · 17/02/2025 07:34

I got one because company wanted to reduce headcount and didn’t want to report redundancies.
it was a very good offer, though sadly not £80k.

SezFrankly · 17/02/2025 07:22

A lot companies will try and resolve a problem outside of a tribunal hearing, especially if there’s a chance they’d lose. Direct costs, disruption caused and reputational damage are all considered. Some companies may have to report tribunals during a tender process, or the general public may take a dislike, both impact future revenue.

On the other hand, some will never payout if there’s a chance they’d win as they’d feel it sets a precedent, and they’re big enough to withstand any issues with reputation - unless their barrister looks at the case and says they’d be unlikely to win it, in which case a years salary and a compromise agreement is likely.

You don’t hear about these because compromise agreements usually have a clause which prevents people from talking about it. Your friend may be pursued for damages for talking so openly!

LaraS2511 · 17/02/2025 04:09

Cavalierchaos · 16/02/2025 21:06

Can this happen in the public sector? I have suffered unfair behaviour over the last few years at work that's making me want to leave my job. I don't have any evidence other than dated notes of things that happened and were said and why they were unfair. But that's all.

I work in the public sector & I don’t believe it’s very common at all, not sure what evidence you would need to be honest!

LaraS2511 · 17/02/2025 04:05

Wow completely unheard of in the public sector I work in! I knew of one in 19 yrs & it didn’t even go to court, small pay out on a breach of health & safety. Crazy this seems so common & the amounts of money!!

ChonkyRabbit · 16/02/2025 22:56

Uyyyy · 16/02/2025 22:19

@JustMarriedBecca paid off for what though?!

Paid off from bringing a discrimination claim about unfair treatment during/after maternity leave. If you take a settlement agreement, you can't bring a claim to tribunal.

ChonkyRabbit · 16/02/2025 22:55

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 16/02/2025 20:04

Very few people are be seen get them have deserved them. Usually they just earned too much.

In my industry it's usually because a new senior hire doesn't think your face fits. But mine isn't something like financial services where salaries get REALLY crazy.

FKAT · 16/02/2025 22:21

Sorry I meant PIP - performance improvement plan.

Uyyyy · 16/02/2025 22:20

FKAT · 16/02/2025 21:57

£80-100k is absolutely nothing versus the cost of a PRP which takes up the time of several senior employees (line manager, head of department, HR director, MD/CEO) over the course of 3/6/12 months. It's vanishingly insignificant versus the cost of defending an employment tribunal.

@FKAT what is a PRP?

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Uyyyy · 16/02/2025 22:19

JustMarriedBecca · 16/02/2025 21:57

City law firm. Every single one of my friends was paid off within a year of returning from mat leave.
In some instances, my friends had other jobs in-house to go to all lined up.
All sums upwards of £20k.

So common.

@JustMarriedBecca paid off for what though?!

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FKAT · 16/02/2025 21:57

£80-100k is absolutely nothing versus the cost of a PRP which takes up the time of several senior employees (line manager, head of department, HR director, MD/CEO) over the course of 3/6/12 months. It's vanishingly insignificant versus the cost of defending an employment tribunal.

JustMarriedBecca · 16/02/2025 21:57

City law firm. Every single one of my friends was paid off within a year of returning from mat leave.
In some instances, my friends had other jobs in-house to go to all lined up.
All sums upwards of £20k.

So common.

AquaPeer · 16/02/2025 21:54

Cavalierchaos · 16/02/2025 21:52

Dunno, compensation for bullying and having to quit my job? What are other settlements actually paying for?

But if you havent told them you are being bullied (and haven’t quit your job?) they wont have any reason to pay you off. They’d probably investigate the allegation first and try and resolve it

Cavalierchaos · 16/02/2025 21:52

AquaPeer · 16/02/2025 21:21

What would they be paying you for?

Dunno, compensation for bullying and having to quit my job? What are other settlements actually paying for?

onwards2025 · 16/02/2025 21:35

Also it's not necessarily the employer that has messed up or done something wrong, they are used a lot to get rid of crap employees or those that an employer just doesn't want around anymore

onwards2025 · 16/02/2025 21:29

It's not so much about the reason or issues someone has been complaining about, it's more about getting an employee out quick and having waived all their employment rights. The put the employer in a far better and neat position

PullTheBricksDown · 16/02/2025 21:29

0ohLarLar · 16/02/2025 19:22

Nope. I had one, and several friends also. Tribunals are expensive, look bad, and are not an assured outcome. Much easier to throw money to make the problem disappear

This. Ive not actually seen people get money for no reason however. Usually someone's done something that looks stupid. Companies don't want dirty laundry aired.

Yes, once you account for how many senior managers behave like absolute wankers, that explains a lot about the risks of letting it go to tribunal / becoming public

onwards2025 · 16/02/2025 21:27

Extremely common in salaried roles, they are used on almost all occasions someone needs to pushed out or to leave assp, from everything from gross misconduct to personality clashes.

The payout varies a lot though, some are very little and some are a lot.

Rollercoaster1920 · 16/02/2025 21:26

Very common where large companies want to reduce headcount without publicly making redundancies. Professional services firms are well known for it.
The amount needs to be more that the redundancy payout would be so varies depending on years worked.

I was offered one recently (not professional services, mid senior in technology) but it was only my notice pay so refused and have been moved sideways instead. If it had been my notice period plus 3 months I would have taken it. I'm applying elsewhere now but the market is bad.

LittleRedRidingHoody · 16/02/2025 21:24

Super common most places I think. They make the company look sooo bad. I've been part of several and it's very frustrating because although you may have proof of the colleague lying (obviously not always the case, but sometimes!) unless you have an airtight case settlement is always the safer/cheaper/least brand damaging option.

barbiegirl881 · 16/02/2025 21:22

I work in HR, they are very common. It’s really expensive to defend a tribunal even if the company isn’t at fault, or even manage performance sometimes if the individual is senior or wants to make a fuss - given the amount of management time etc it will take. Often the leadership team will see it as more commercial to quickly make it go away and save the time/money/aggro/bad PR.

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