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To think the Ofsted inspector who blames WFH parents for low attendance is probably just resentful?

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JandamiHash · 16/02/2025 14:28

The Chief Inspector of Ofsted is blaming parents who WFH for the demise of school attendance https://www.itv.com/news/2025-02-16/parents-working-from-home-makes-children-feel-school-is-optional-ofsted-head?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR0ULgukQnTsabNTlcJRBI4kVQsMYkhCPK_KA4lUAgVkxOocYfo3onmRNHU_aem_nuBknA_QEGgfA93CaTPagg. Apparently none of us want to take our slippers off so we let our kids stay at home while we work.

He makes some REALLY weird points like his overworked dad he didn’t see much as his inspiration to go to school. And also MPs making sure they spend weekends with their families is a bad work ethic.

I know MN is a good example of whenever WFH threads are brought up, non-WFHers come on dripping with resentment over WFH and implying WFHers don’t really work. AIBU to think this man - who has somehow been knighted - is basically doing that? I’m not sure how much inspecting he does now, but Ofsted inspectors aren’t any superior or harder working just because they spend a few days working away from home at a time (something BTW I’m expected to do, at least 1 overnight a month).

Also as someone from a household where 2 of us WFH, I can’t think of anything worse than having kids flapping around us while we try and work. I’m FT, and this week I’m off Weds-Fri, as is DH. my DD11 will be at home tomorrow with strict instructions to keep away unless there’s a serious emergency (she’s secondary and old enough to take care of herself) and at a friend’s on Tuesday. My DS is 8 and is going into a holiday club tomorrow and Tuesday as his neediness is unbearable. Both have somewhere between 97 and 99% attendance so far this academic year.

YABU - “He’s got a point”
YANBU - “He’s wrong/resentful”

OP posts:
Dogthespot · 16/02/2025 14:39

JandamiHash · 16/02/2025 14:36

I have.

What about it is measured do you think?

You’ve read the Sunday times article?

Surely you’d know then (not being snippy but the article was much fuller and you’d know that he’s not having a go at all WFH parent)

JandamiHash · 16/02/2025 14:39

Dogthespot · 16/02/2025 14:34

Have you read the Sunday time article? Or just this out of context abstract

No because it’s behind a paywall

Does it have statistics to support this viewpoint?

Having googled the Times seem to have an exclusive relationship with this man whereby he goes to them making quite controversial statements. Interesting PR move

OP posts:
blueshoes · 16/02/2025 14:38

Dogthespot · 16/02/2025 14:34

Have you read the Sunday time article? Or just this out of context abstract

It is not a particularly long article nor insightful. Just some sweeping statements and baseless extrapolation from a tepid imagination.

WhateverMate · 16/02/2025 14:38

Dogthespot · 16/02/2025 14:33

Read the article
it is very measured and sensible
and you distort it with your title

It appears the OP is the only one 'dripping with resentment'.

I've never seen such a biased take on any story that's been linked.

You do realise we can actually read it OP, don't you? 👀🤦‍♀️

PaintDecisions · 16/02/2025 14:36

Wrong, yes.

Resentful, no. That's a weird take on it.

Snorlaxo · 16/02/2025 14:36

There’s lots of reasons for poor attendance. For example my ds had poor attendance because he was on a looooong NHS waiting list to see a specialist.

JandamiHash · 16/02/2025 14:36

Dogthespot · 16/02/2025 14:33

Read the article
it is very measured and sensible
and you distort it with your title

I have.

What about it is measured do you think?

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JandamiHash · 16/02/2025 14:35

MoltenLasagne · 16/02/2025 14:31

It's such a weird thing for him to come out with. I was expecting some kind of evidence of increased truancy from kids of parents who wfh but it was just a piece of imagination.

Yes exactly it’s really just a batshit theory from someone who really should have engaged his PR & comms team.

FWIW I do think there’s an attendance problem and I don’t especially agree with term time holidays, bar certain circumstances. I do think there’s a problem that lies somewhere which explains low attendance - but how does random baseless speculation help?

OP posts:
Dogthespot · 16/02/2025 14:34

Have you read the Sunday time article? Or just this out of context abstract

Slimbear · 16/02/2025 14:34

Surely if a parent is at home they can see their child skiving and get them to school.

Sounds like this isn’t the case.

Dogthespot · 16/02/2025 14:33

Read the article
it is very measured and sensible
and you distort it with your title

MoltenLasagne · 16/02/2025 14:31

It's such a weird thing for him to come out with. I was expecting some kind of evidence of increased truancy from kids of parents who wfh but it was just a piece of imagination.