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Wedding lunacy

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TheAmusedQuail · 15/02/2025 19:14

I just don't get throwing money at weddings. Marriage is the important bit. Not the getting married.

The dress, the suit, diamond rings, bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girls, pageboys, button holes, bouquet, wedding reception, tablescapes (WTAF), favours, DJ, stag, hen, hair, makeup. Not to mention bridezillas and almost completely detached grooms. It's like a one woman celebration with the man just signing on the dotted line.

I've seen so many weddings where a fortune was spent and 4, 5, 6 years later the couple are either unhappily married or have split up.

WHY as a culture do we participate in this craziness?

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JudgeBread · 15/02/2025 19:18

Hey I don't get it either, I got married in a field in a £15 dress from a charity shop and had a BBQ. But if people want to do it, let them have at it. My imminently future SIL and BIL are about to have the whole shebang. Meringue dress, cake that costs more than my car, ludicrously expensive venue, stupid little bags of shiny almonds for some fucking reason. Do I think it's stupid? Yes. Am I going to yuck their yum anywhere but an anonymous forum? Nope. If it's what they want and what will make them happy, I will be there eating my shiny almonds and celebrating their relationship with them however they choose to celebrate it.

YoungGunsHavingSomeFunCrazyLadiesKeepEmOnTheRun · 15/02/2025 19:18

People spend money on all sorts of stuff that makes them happy, each unto their own.

Nothitrockbottomyet · 15/02/2025 19:16

Agree with you OP.

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