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School is asking children to say ‘peace be upon him’ anytime Mohammed is mentioned

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Kitkat189 · 15/02/2025 16:55

My child’s teacher asks the class to always say ‘peace be upon him’ if the prophet Muhammed is mentioned in RE, for example. Used in a sentence it would be something like ‘Muhammad peace be upon him is the founder of Islam’

The teacher explained that this is to show respect to the Muslims in the class.

This is the first time I’ve ever heard of this. Is there an expectation that non Muslims use this expression? Or is it more of a courtesy? I am guessing the latter?

And if it’s the former, should people be compelled to utter this phrase out of respect? To literally wish peace upon a prophet of a religion they don’t belong to? I realise this is not a problem for the majority of people but out of interest, would a devout follower of another religion have objections to this?

(This is year 6, teacher is not Muslim, there is one Muslim in the class whose family are pretty secular, he told the teacher he doesn’t use this expression himself.)

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lentilbake16 · 19/02/2025 19:14

Dkdndndw · 19/02/2025 18:41

Exactly. I'm not a Muslim. But everyone acts as if Muslim women are oppressed.

I find this laughable tbh. The absolute stereotype of a meek little wife dressed in black and so on. Muslim women come in all shapes and sizes, some are even professionals....who'd have thought it.
As home making and family is greatly respected and valued, they often very much run the show at home.

Pinkbirds · 19/02/2025 18:44

I’m was an RE teacher for a decade and I’m shocked by the responses. I don’t know if it’s ignorance or the worry of Islam but really I’m surprised at how upset people are being.

This thread is an excellent example of why religion needs to be taught and discussed in schools.
Now the thread is talking about apparent banning of Christmas and head coverings 🙄

In Islam PBUH is used after the prophets name. I imagine it was taught as this and not that kids have to say it. Maybe it was a misunderstanding, but it seems like such a storm in a tea cup.

It would be a perfect topic for a lesson. The beauty of teaching RE is that you don’t have to agree with each other and you can be critical BUT the key is to be able to argue your opinion with respect and facts.

Dkdndndw · 19/02/2025 18:41

Istilldontlikeolives · 19/02/2025 18:15

What is inconvenient and restrictive about the clothing worn by Muslim women?

Exactly. I'm not a Muslim. But everyone acts as if Muslim women are oppressed.

Istilldontlikeolives · 19/02/2025 18:15

Screamingabdabz · 19/02/2025 16:58

You wouldn’t know it though. They cover up just about the same as any other bloke. Unlike the women, whose ‘piety’ (in many expressions of Islam) is seemingly demonstrated on the most inconvenient and restrictive coverings. Funny that.

That’s another thing that is whitewashed in RE. The veil. And the cultural misogyny behind it.

What is inconvenient and restrictive about the clothing worn by Muslim women?

lentilbake16 · 19/02/2025 18:15

I think the hijab looks brilliant tbh.

Screamingabdabz · 19/02/2025 16:58

Dkdndndw · 19/02/2025 12:13

Men have to cover up as well in islam?

You wouldn’t know it though. They cover up just about the same as any other bloke. Unlike the women, whose ‘piety’ (in many expressions of Islam) is seemingly demonstrated on the most inconvenient and restrictive coverings. Funny that.

That’s another thing that is whitewashed in RE. The veil. And the cultural misogyny behind it.

Xenia · 19/02/2025 16:43

Lots of muslim women do not cover their heads by the way.

EasternStandard · 19/02/2025 14:50

@Ponderingwindow same

SerendipityJane · 19/02/2025 13:31

Burntcoat · 17/02/2025 13:30

It did. Plus the Muslims banned Christmas, and made everyone, everywhere, refer to it as 'Winterval'.

I bet you can't move for bridges

Dkdndndw · 19/02/2025 12:51

StopStartStop · 19/02/2025 12:49

From the navel to the knee.

Yes yes.

StopStartStop · 19/02/2025 12:49

Dkdndndw · 19/02/2025 12:13

Men have to cover up as well in islam?

From the navel to the knee.

Dkdndndw · 19/02/2025 12:13

Ponderingwindow · 19/02/2025 01:51

I wouldn’t want my son or daughter to enter any facility or place where one sex faced that kind of requirement. We should not be teaching children to participate in sexist practices no matter the excuse.

Men have to cover up as well in islam?

BarneyRonson · 19/02/2025 11:28

It is amusing - awful too - when stupidity shows itself. This teacher! lol.

lentilbake16 · 19/02/2025 11:21

Any update on the Muslims banning Christmas please?

Anonym00se · 19/02/2025 10:47

Ponderingwindow · 19/02/2025 01:51

I wouldn’t want my son or daughter to enter any facility or place where one sex faced that kind of requirement. We should not be teaching children to participate in sexist practices no matter the excuse.

Would that also apply to Catholic cathedrals?

0ohLarLar · 19/02/2025 05:31

I missed the part where you asked if it is normal to say ‘amen’ in assembly if you are not a Christian

My kids aren't Christian, they don't say amen or join in with prayers, why would they? I'd be very cross if school tried to enforce this. One teacher did briefly with my eldest, he told her in no uncertain terms that he didn't believe any god existed.

IridiumSky · 19/02/2025 02:20

You must ask the teacher to clarify the requirement by drawing Mohammed on the blackboard.

That may put a stop to this ridiculous demand. 😀

Ponderingwindow · 19/02/2025 01:51

Dkdndndw · 16/02/2025 22:47

If there was a school trip to a mosque and you had a DD, would you be adamant they didn't cover their hair?

I wouldn’t want my son or daughter to enter any facility or place where one sex faced that kind of requirement. We should not be teaching children to participate in sexist practices no matter the excuse.

UrsulaLongshanksTheFlamingo · 19/02/2025 01:09

BeJollyNewt · 16/02/2025 08:57

So what happens if they say so for a couple of times a year? will they get brain washed ? isn't that parents does by making these kind of statements?

Sorry, I really can't understand what you're saying here, nor your previous reply either.

lentilbake16 · 17/02/2025 13:49

Burntcoat · 17/02/2025 13:30

It did. Plus the Muslims banned Christmas, and made everyone, everywhere, refer to it as 'Winterval'.

Do you have a link to this please, absolutely fascinating.

Burntcoat · 17/02/2025 13:30

JHound · 17/02/2025 11:59

This definitely happened.

It did. Plus the Muslims banned Christmas, and made everyone, everywhere, refer to it as 'Winterval'.

JHound · 17/02/2025 11:59

This definitely happened.

StopStartStop · 17/02/2025 11:37

I don't know how you have followed religion for so long and not come to the conclusion that it's not for financial gain?

Ah, that's easy. 'Religions', big businesses employing people, owning property etc, that might well be for financial gain, as well as for power to exert over others.

'Religion', belief, following teachings etc - that's personal, not for any gain other than the hope of heaven.

Xenia · 17/02/2025 10:17

It is an interesting issue on head coverings etc. Most of us on holiday tend to try to fit in eg I covered my hair on business in Iran. In Spanish Cathedrals most people would cover their arms. On copying a cultural item that can be a minefield in itself. If I put on a burka because I did not want CCTV recording me that is lawful but some muslims might think it was a bit cheeky to do so if not muslim and cultural appropriation might come into play.

In Catholic masses non Catholics are not allowed to take communion (Tony Blair got in trouble for that before he converted from the C oif E)_. C of E allow any Christian to take it - that is probably because of the different religious views of the two kinds of Christianity about what is called transubstantiation I think.

If you wish peace on someone who does not exist today whenever you say the name of the supposed Prophet that is not necessarily the right thing to do even if some muslims want you to do so. Requiring children in school where Islaim may well be against their religious beliefs might be tantamount to asking them bown down before the teacher's personal altar of Satan she set up in the classroom because she is a satanist. It sounds like a recipe for problems.

Talltreesbythelake · 17/02/2025 06:02

Dkdndndw · 16/02/2025 22:47

If there was a school trip to a mosque and you had a DD, would you be adamant they didn't cover their hair?

I work as a supply TA sometimes. I went on a school visit to a mosque without a hair covering and it was fine. No-one said anything or was offended. I don't think the girls had to cover their heads either, but they were small. We were there to listen to a talk, not to worship.