Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Couple held in Iran

660 replies

StrawDonkey · 15/02/2025 16:44

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c626p6pz7xlo

AIBU to not understand why anyone would go on a motorcycle trip to Iran? Advice is not to go there at all but I can understand that someone desperate to see family would take a risk.

OP posts:
Thread gallery
10
samarrange · 21/02/2025 09:56

itsgettingweird · 21/02/2025 09:47

She's a professor of psychology and life coach.

I'm not sure I'd want to see her for guidance about what do with my life 😉

She is not a professor. She has a PhD (I've read her thesis... it's "different"...) but she has no current academic affiliation and no research or teaching position at any university. 🙏

itsgettingweird · 21/02/2025 09:47

She's a professor of psychology and life coach.

I'm not sure I'd want to see her for guidance about what do with my life 😉

Wornouttoday · 21/02/2025 09:37

But this couple think the world is a big happy clappy family so they won’t make that 👆distinction. Is the woman really a professor of something? If so why the flash cards?

AnnaMagnani · 21/02/2025 09:31

Thing is you can watch videos taken by Chinese tourists in Iran. And they can explore without a guide, take drone footage, chat and take selfies with locals, post it on YouTube.

But they are Chinese.

None of these activities are acceptable to the Iranian regime from a British passport holder.

Wornouttoday · 21/02/2025 09:20

Vinvertebrate · 21/02/2025 09:17

@sashh I suspect the desire to look edgy and worldly on IG overrode any modicum of sanity or self-preservation.

Or even bothering to keep updated on world events or read FCO advice.

Vinvertebrate · 21/02/2025 09:17

@sashh I suspect the desire to look edgy and worldly on IG overrode any modicum of sanity or self-preservation.

sashh · 21/02/2025 09:15

I've just had a look at some of the photos.

The VPN was a really bad idea. Then they uploaded photos of them holding hands and cuddling.

Why take the risk of having those photos? Then risk things further by uploading them?

Wornouttoday · 21/02/2025 09:04

SchoolDilemma17 · 21/02/2025 08:29

I also don’t think posting things like this while they were there was wise.

My word. They think they’re in a National Trust tearoom. Were they planning on Selfies from Syria too?

Vinvertebrate · 21/02/2025 08:46

Jesus wept, the naïveté and tone deafness of that FB post. “We’re having to use a vpn to get on social media”. Yes love, that’ll be because your friendly fundamentalist mullahs in charge are none too keen on folk using SM to communicate, or circumventing the law that prohibits SM use using technology, so if you post about intending to do just that, expects peons on shit to land imminently.

Vinvertebrate · 21/02/2025 08:37

Developedanillness · 20/02/2025 22:43

Can I ask why they were issued with a visa given that they aren't dual nationals if it's that rare?

I suspect somebody saw them coming… But if you meet the conditions (guide, sponsor, etc) anyone can apply. It’s just unusual because of the FCO advice and because the regime’s hostility towards “the West” means it’s not guaranteed. (If there was a realistic option to surrender his Iranian passport which allows visa-free travel to Iran, DH would do it. Continuing to hold the passport alongside his UK one causes no end of problems for getting visas to other countries, most notably the US).

What gets me is the arrogance of “we’ve decided it’s worth the risk”. Other than their massive egos, what gives this couple the idea that they know better than the FCO (whose job it is to assess this type of risk, and whose advice is, unequivocally, don’t even fucking think about it?) Down with experts, eh?

Justalittlehandhold · 21/02/2025 08:35

SchoolDilemma17 · 21/02/2025 08:31

Interesting comment on one of their Facebook posts

As an Iranian, I am appalled by the entitlement of people like you, who, despite freedom-seeking Iranians' warnings, go to Iran and become a bargaining chip for the terrorist regime. People like you are accomplices in the murder of Iranian people. Every time, you earn the regime billions in cash or get dangerous terrorists released from Western prisons and let loose on the streets of Iran to kill us. You are a disgrace to humanity. You deserve what happened to you. We don't deserve the pain you'll bring on us.

An extremely valid point.

SchoolDilemma17 · 21/02/2025 08:31

Interesting comment on one of their Facebook posts

As an Iranian, I am appalled by the entitlement of people like you, who, despite freedom-seeking Iranians' warnings, go to Iran and become a bargaining chip for the terrorist regime. People like you are accomplices in the murder of Iranian people. Every time, you earn the regime billions in cash or get dangerous terrorists released from Western prisons and let loose on the streets of Iran to kill us. You are a disgrace to humanity. You deserve what happened to you. We don't deserve the pain you'll bring on us.

SchoolDilemma17 · 21/02/2025 08:29

I also don’t think posting things like this while they were there was wise.

Couple held in Iran
SchoolDilemma17 · 21/02/2025 08:24

The visa has nothing to do with anything. A tourist visa gives you the right to be a tourist, but they interviewed and recorded locals. For Iran that’s classed as espionage.

A statement, translated from Persian, said: "The individuals entered Iran under the guise of tourists and, under the guise of investigative and research work, have collected information in several provinces of the country."

On the radio they said they had a drone too 🤷🏻‍♀️

the foreign office guidelines are very very clear.

You are at risk of arrest, detention and a death sentence if you travel to Iran.
British nationals are at increased risk of questioning and detention by the Iranian authorities. See Safety and security.

saraclara · 21/02/2025 07:36

Superhansrantowindsor · 21/02/2025 07:30

Did they have a visa then?

I feel sorry for their family who probably pleaded with them not to go.

Yes, they did. And they had a guide. Though whether he was with them when they were arrested is unclear.

Superhansrantowindsor · 21/02/2025 07:30

Did they have a visa then?

I feel sorry for their family who probably pleaded with them not to go.

Justalittlehandhold · 21/02/2025 07:15

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 21/02/2025 02:47

Very sad story. It should be reasonable to believe that if you have a visa and don’t break the law, you’ll be safe (other than from criminals). But unfortunately that’s not the case in places like Iran.

It would be sensible to read the FOC guidance and adhere to it!

Having a visa means nothing!

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 21/02/2025 02:47

Very sad story. It should be reasonable to believe that if you have a visa and don’t break the law, you’ll be safe (other than from criminals). But unfortunately that’s not the case in places like Iran.

Developedanillness · 20/02/2025 22:57

SchoolDilemma17 · 20/02/2025 22:48

What is that rare? You can get a tourist visa when you book a tour. The foreign office advices against all travel to Iran. If only that meant they now didn’t have to deal with this mess. I feel for the staff and the ambassador.

Applying for a visa
If you choose to travel to Iran against FCDOadvice, apply for a visa well in advance of your travel. The application process for an Iranian visa can be long and unpredictable.
If you want to travel to Iran with a British passport, the Iranian Embassy has told FCDO you must either apply as part of an organised tour or have a sponsor in Iran to get a visa.

Just pasted this from above, sorry I should have quoted their post with my question re visas.

Vinvertebrate · Today 18:28

Sorry @Westfacing - I posted a fulsome (waffly) explanation, then trimmed it down and it didn’t make sense.

Basically, UK/US/Canada citizens can only travel to Iran with a visa, which is rarely granted. (Theoretically, you need to be with an organised group and have a local guide accompanying you at all times, and you might also need to bribe an official because they don’t like handing visas out to the likes of us - we are infidels of Little Satan/Big Satan (in the regime’s eyes) so why would they?

The vast, vast majority of Westerners visiting Iran WILL be dual nationals (like my DH), even if they have lived outside Iran not speaking Farsi for decades. So saying “not dual nationals” doesn’t really make sense because normally they’re the only ones that CAN visit.

Floralnomad · 20/02/2025 22:52

Viviennemary · 20/02/2025 21:27

They are a silly greedy pair on the make. And it's gone a bit pear shaped.

Totally agree with this , they must be complete idiots .

SchoolDilemma17 · 20/02/2025 22:48

Developedanillness · 20/02/2025 22:43

Can I ask why they were issued with a visa given that they aren't dual nationals if it's that rare?

What is that rare? You can get a tourist visa when you book a tour. The foreign office advices against all travel to Iran. If only that meant they now didn’t have to deal with this mess. I feel for the staff and the ambassador.

Applying for a visa
If you choose to travel to Iran against FCDOadvice, apply for a visa well in advance of your travel. The application process for an Iranian visa can be long and unpredictable.
If you want to travel to Iran with a British passport, the Iranian Embassy has told FCDO you must either apply as part of an organised tour or have a sponsor in Iran to get a visa.

Developedanillness · 20/02/2025 22:43

Can I ask why they were issued with a visa given that they aren't dual nationals if it's that rare?

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 20/02/2025 21:53

Arraminta · 20/02/2025 21:20

I strongly suspect there's been some champagne corks popping over in Oz as the academics breathe a collective sigh of relief that they won't be subjected to the couple's turgid twaddle.

God help them if/when they are free through. A 3 hour presentation on how to be human and how to survive an Iranian jail with just the power of positive thoughts. Followed by a sing song of "heal the world" or something.

FairBrickBiscuit · 20/02/2025 21:51

Arraminta · 20/02/2025 21:25

I pity the poor Iranian inmates who are having to share cell space with these two. As if being incarcerated in some of the most brutal prisons on the planet wasn't suffering enough?

No I’m sure they’re less cocky upbeat now.

Viviennemary · 20/02/2025 21:27

BigBlueRhino · 20/02/2025 09:55

Yes they have been naive and stupid but my heart goes out to them . It must be an absolutely terrifying situation to be in for them and their families. No matter how foolish they have been they don't deserve this .

They are a silly greedy pair on the make. And it's gone a bit pear shaped.

Swipe left for the next trending thread