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Couple held in Iran

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StrawDonkey · 15/02/2025 16:44

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c626p6pz7xlo

AIBU to not understand why anyone would go on a motorcycle trip to Iran? Advice is not to go there at all but I can understand that someone desperate to see family would take a risk.

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GreenApplesRedApplesYellowApples · 03/10/2025 18:17

Vinvertebrate · 02/10/2025 22:45

Iran still feels money is owed (and the ICJ agrees, I seem to recall!)

Previous UK prisoners resulted in down-payments.

Thanks for explaining!

So I'm a bit confused as I thought the government paid their debt in securing Nazanin Zaghari Ratcliffe's freedom. I thought £400,000 000 or there abouts had been paid.

If it wasn't fully settled then yes, again I think this couple will be waiting a very long time for release as the government won't want to be seen as legitimising this form of.. prisoner extortion. (athough if it's owed, it's owed)

Vinvertebrate · 02/10/2025 22:45

GreenApplesRedApplesYellowApples · 02/10/2025 19:41

That is awful. I feel incredibly sorry for them.

I understand that previous Brits were held as Iran felt money was owed to them by the British government. What is the bargaining chip for this couple?

Iran still feels money is owed (and the ICJ agrees, I seem to recall!)

Previous UK prisoners resulted in down-payments.

GreenApplesRedApplesYellowApples · 02/10/2025 21:28

rainbowruthie · 02/10/2025 20:14

I think the hope is that there might be a 'prisoner exchange'

I see😬

Unlikely to be free any time soon then

rainbowruthie · 02/10/2025 20:14

GreenApplesRedApplesYellowApples · 02/10/2025 19:41

That is awful. I feel incredibly sorry for them.

I understand that previous Brits were held as Iran felt money was owed to them by the British government. What is the bargaining chip for this couple?

I think the hope is that there might be a 'prisoner exchange'

GreenApplesRedApplesYellowApples · 02/10/2025 19:41

PrimalScreaming · 01/10/2025 09:35

I saw on the son's Insta page yesterday that they have both been back in court (which I suppose at least would have given them a chance to see each other as they are being held in different prisons) and that they were led away in shackles.

I think this may be a very long stretch for them!

That is awful. I feel incredibly sorry for them.

I understand that previous Brits were held as Iran felt money was owed to them by the British government. What is the bargaining chip for this couple?

PrimalScreaming · 01/10/2025 09:35

I saw on the son's Insta page yesterday that they have both been back in court (which I suppose at least would have given them a chance to see each other as they are being held in different prisons) and that they were led away in shackles.

I think this may be a very long stretch for them!

SammyScrounge · 22/08/2025 00:40

NotTerfNorCis · 15/02/2025 17:33

I have sympathy. They obviously had a naively optimistic view of human nature. They aren't bad people.

Glad to find another person who can feel some sympathy for this couple. They would have been happy getting along all right on their travels and not understood that Iran is a little different.
I sincerely hope that they come out of this soon and that they are well.

ThePoshUns · 20/08/2025 07:31

Here’s my tiny violin. I don’t wish them any harm but have no sympathy for them and begrudge my taxes being spent on sorting their stupid mess out.

fashionqueen0123 · 20/08/2025 04:43

PrimalScreaming · 19/08/2025 22:29

Item on Sky news webpage today saying that Craig Foreman has now been moved to the notorious Evin Prison in Tehran...
https://news.sky.com/story/family-seriously-worried-for-parents-detained-in-irans-harshest-prison-13414644

I’m suprised they weren’t there already. It seems to be where they keep all the political prisoners. I’m sure I’ve read its nick named Evin university. I’m not sure their other prisons are any better!!

JHound · 19/08/2025 23:07

Iran is definitely high on the list of places I want to go to but not now or for the forseeable future.

Crazy couple.

BigBlueRhino · 19/08/2025 23:05

I think they have been very naive and wanted to prove that Iran is not the scary dangerous place portrayed in Western media. Well they fucked about and found out . I feel so sorry for their loved ones who now have to try and mop up this mess . The stress and worry must be awful .

Viviennemary · 19/08/2025 22:32

Wherearemymarbles · 15/02/2025 16:46

I must admit to having little sympathy for them.
Total idiots

I've just seen this on the news. I can't summon up much sympathy for the pair of idiots. Just why did they do this.

Vinvertebrate · 09/07/2025 20:52

Those bloody tanks are always a fig leaf for hostage payments, unfortunately. The UK definitely defaulted on its side of the tank deal, and there is a judgment in Iran’s favour, but the UK position (not entirely unreasonably) is not to hand over any money to the military wing of the current loons in power when we’ve sanctioned them for trade purposes. So the regime tries to convince us otherwise by grabbing passing Brits to use as collateral. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I don’t accept that the risk for UK passport holders traveling to Iran would ever be zero, but the current stand-off almost encourages spurious detention.

samarrange · 09/07/2025 18:17

Vinvertebrate · 09/07/2025 16:33

It must have been terrifying for them. Reading between the lines, it sounds as though the family wants the FO to pony up some cash to secure their release, and the FO is only offering diplomacy (which won’t wash, because they were obviously only arrested for leverage in the first place). I don’t feel comfortable about giving money in return for prisoners when the recipient is a pariah state with apparent nuclear ambitions either. Why impose economic sanctions if the regime we are targeted can just extract a massive ransom?

It’s a mess.

Nazanin Zaghari-Ratcliffe was released for £400 million, but it was money that the UK actually owed Iran because the Shah had paid up front for some tanks that the UK never delivered. I can't see HMG paying "new money" for their release, it would set a terrible precedent.

Vinvertebrate · 09/07/2025 16:33

It must have been terrifying for them. Reading between the lines, it sounds as though the family wants the FO to pony up some cash to secure their release, and the FO is only offering diplomacy (which won’t wash, because they were obviously only arrested for leverage in the first place). I don’t feel comfortable about giving money in return for prisoners when the recipient is a pariah state with apparent nuclear ambitions either. Why impose economic sanctions if the regime we are targeted can just extract a massive ransom?

It’s a mess.

DeepFatFried · 09/07/2025 16:21

I did think of them with consternation during the bombing.

I hope the FCDO can at least ensure continued welfare checks and press for humane conditions because in reality the situation has got worse for them since they were taken.

samarrange · 09/07/2025 10:59

The BBC has picked up on it: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cp867vdxe70o

Hopefully we will hear from the FCDO at some point. There may not be a lot that they can do immediately, but I think it's important that the couple are not forgotten among all the other diplomatic manoeuvring that goes on.

Craig Foreman, a man with short grey hair wearing a purple t-shirt, and Lindsay Foreman, a woman with long blonde hair wearing a red top, smile and take a selfie in front of a swimming pool

Son of couple held in Iran: 'They aren't spies, they're Mum and Dad'

Joe Bennett says he has not heard from his parents in six months after their arrest on spying charges.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cp867vdxe70o

IWouldBeATerribleMayor · 09/07/2025 10:12

I was wondering how they were with the bombing and imagined things were pretty horrific.

You are right- they might have been catastrophically smug and stupid- but they don't deserve to be rotting in an Iranian jail.

samarrange · 09/07/2025 10:09

An update on this:

After initially asking for minimal social media coverage, Craig and Lindsay's families have decided to go public. They have set up a website www.freelindsayandcraig.com with links to a petition for signature. There is no "GoFundMe" or other begging for money.

(And please, no more hating. Was this trip ill-advised? Certainly. Do they deserve to spend the next five years rotting in an Iranian jail? Well, you might think so, but then I hope nobody in your family ever does something silly.)

Free Lindsay and Craig | Detained civilians

Free Lindsay and Craig Foreman - British citizens held hostage in Iran. Help us bring them home.

https://www.freelindsayandcraig.com/?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTAAYnJpZBExbEFyQ2VnMFZ6Qlk4ZzZFTQEeNSOyAeJZmfroCnXRr2t66mUqFfTa4yiaLxp8JU5LZjnHi1v_aRkO_v2qvKc_aem_KCTjoyi3b9jZ7x2DTxvG_A

ImmediateReaction · 28/03/2025 10:11

Porcuporpoise · 23/02/2025 15:40

After 18 years living in Afghanistan I'm pretty sure the last thing they were is naive. I think they were trying desperately not to abandon the people they had been helping for so long as the work they did was desperately needed. Braver than I would be.

This poor couple are still held. They did so much for Afgans yet the Teleban still took them. Evil terrorists.

Update here for the couple held in Afghanistan

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4gd5epdlxno

Peter and Barbie Reynolds stand together and smile at the camera. Peter Reynolds is wearing a grey cap and has a white beard. Barbie Reynolds is wearing glasses and a turquoise headscarf.

Family of British couple held by Taliban fear for their health

Peter and Barbie Reynolds were arrested by the Taliban in February while returning to their home in Bamiyan.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4gd5epdlxno

Fifiworks · 25/02/2025 00:21

Oh I wouldn’t see the Afghanistan couple in the same light at all. They had adopted the country as their own. They were citizens as well.

if there were more people like this in the world, it would definitely be a better place.

Floralnomad · 24/02/2025 23:35

Porcuporpoise · 24/02/2025 21:21

There's no suggestion of the UK government "buying them back".

But that is what usually happens they get extra aid or whatever , it’s not phrased as ‘buying release ‘ but is what it is in reality . The Taliban have apparently said they want to release them quickly - well what are they waiting for then , just release them if they don’t want anything in return .

Porcuporpoise · 24/02/2025 21:21

Floralnomad · 24/02/2025 18:35

I appreciate that the couple in Afghanistan have been there a long time doing what they do but it’s pretty stupid carrying on doing it with the Taliban in charge of, it really was just a matter of time before they got arrested . I’m not sure this country can keep affording to buy back individuals who decide , knowingly to put themselves in this position .

There's no suggestion of the UK government "buying them back".

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